Hello! I will not waste your time in empty talk, so I will briefly tell my problem. I've been in love with a boy from my old school for many years, but recently I found out that he had a girlfriend, and somehow I lost interest in him. A few days ago, I saw on Facebook the son of one of my teachers who teaches me music. From that moment on, as soon as I saw his picture, I felt some sympathy for him, even though we had never seen each other. I looked at his page and realized that we have a lot in common. I'm sure I like it now, but I have a problem. I feel that it is wrong to go out with my teacher's son, even though we get along more than well with her and I feel like a stepmother. The only time I saw the boy in question was at a concert yesterday, but for a while, I didn't have a chance to meet him, because I took part in the concert in question and I had to go on stage, and when I finished he disappeared somewhere with his younger sister. So my question is, how do I meet him? Should I send him an invitation on Facebook, even though we don't know each other and his mother and several of my classmates are our mutual friends? Should being a child of my teacher really bother me? Thanks in advance!
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Hello, in my opinion, it is by no means a problem that his mother is your teacher and it is even better that you understand each other because not everyone is a good teacher. In your place, I would start by finding some convenient time to meet him, then I would send him an invitation and I would start writing to him about our common interests. It is better not to hurry with the invitation, because if he is one of the shy boys, he will delete the invitation at most. This is my opinion on the issue and success!
Send him an invitation, not bad. His mother will probably not heed the invitation, but how she will react if more than friendly feelings arise between her son and you depends on her and her point of view. Our lady's daughter was studying history at our school, she was dating a boy from the upper grades for a few years, then they broke up and there was no problem, at least for the students and teachers. Absolutely normal human relationships are this, your lady's son will always get a boyfriend, he will probably be from a school, and she probably assumed that he could be from the school where she teaches. Black Sabbath
How can you like a person who doesn't even know lol children's work, but I'll give it to you if you want to write to him on Facebook. But don't bother, because when I watch you admire, it's no wonder you get slapped. And I don't understand if you liked the boy from your old school, why didn't you act?
What can't he do? But you don't know him, and you're already thinking about a relationship with him. Well, first meet and see if you will like each other as people. Otherwise, it will remain an imaginary relationship, and this is not your goal.
From the author: People, thank you for the advice! Otherwise, to the question of how I can fall for a stranger ... I don't know, it just happened. I can't explain it either. Otherwise, we had a special relationship with the boy from my old school, because he did not come to my birthdays, and did not invite me to his, otherwise he told me that he loved me, but at the same time he was still in the company of other girls, talking only to me. in class and in general ... Not to mention that the last time I invited him to see me, notice, I invite him, not to mention that he justified himself to me that he was busy. Then out of nowhere he stopped writing to me and I can't even explain why. We have not raised scandals, nor have I bothered him. But anyway. Now just at one point, apparently, I'm tired of his "attention" to me and four years later, here I am, madly in love with someone,
Send him an invitation! It doesn't matter that his mother is your teacher and not, for example, your mother's neighbor or colleague. Just say hello to him and see what comes out, but even if the relationship you dream of doesn't happen, at least you'll have another friend. You lose nothing. However, it is really a bit strange. You haven't even met, and you're already in love with him. :)) So first write to him, see if you will become friends, and then think about a more serious relationship.
From the author: No. 6, you're right, thanks for the advice! I really need to drive it a little calmer! :)