A man of 25 years. I have had a serious girlfriend for about a year now, and I think she cares for me too. I have a modest sexual experience, she is more playful than me, at least that's how I feel, but I don't ask much about the past. I will be away from the country for several months, she cannot accompany me for a number of reasons, the main one being that she is a student and studies here. So my question is - would it be stupid if I give her a vibrator for while I'm gone. Yes, I know that basically everything depends on the person and his will to be faithful or not, to have confidence or not. I trust her, but her body is a body and she wants her own, I guess. We men in this respect seem to be more favored and switch to manual. But in this case, would it be stupid to give her a vibrator, you as bystanders, how do you assess this move. I know nothing can replace man, communicating with him… but can the vibrator appear as a compensator for her physiological sexual needs? Probably from a physiological point of view there is a difference between a real and a vibrator, but whether this is a solution or a stupid move on my part. Please advice and without spitting.
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Whether a gift is dumb or not depends on the situation. If you are both relaxed in sex and like to diversify your everyday life with sex toys, a vibrator can be a good gift. However, if you are more conservative or just have never thought of trying skew toys, but in that case it really seems absurd to give her such a thing. What do you mean by that? If you need an orgasm, don't cheat on me and turn on the vibrator? It really seems ridiculous to me. First, a typewriter will never be able to replace one person. I have a whole collection of vibrators and yet when I need a sec these toys are not enough for me. I need a body, a person, emotions, laughter, warmth ... To give and receive caresses. The vibrator is a toy if you are bored to have fun and so on. Sex is not just an orgasm, it's a kind of communication. Second, given the above, if your girlfriend decides to cheat on you, she will do it whether or not she has a vibrator. In addition, there is a huge abundance of vibrators and similar toys on the market. It is better for a person to go and choose for himself what he wants. Every woman is different, some like one type of stimulation, others do not enjoy the same stimulation. These appliances are not cheap at all and it would be foolish to spend your money on something you may not like. Just be confident and don't worry about the future. You can be 100% sure that she, as a mature woman, knows how to be satisfied. there is a huge abundance of vibrators and similar toys on the market. It is better for a person to go and choose for himself what he wants. Every woman is different, some like one type of stimulation, others do not enjoy the same stimulation. These appliances are not cheap at all and it would be foolish to spend your money on something you may not like. Just be confident and don't worry about the future. You can be 100% sure that she, as a mature woman, knows how to be satisfied. there is a huge abundance of vibrators and similar toys on the market. It is better for a person to go and choose for himself what he wants. Every woman is different, some like one type of stimulation, others do not enjoy the same stimulation. These appliances are not cheap at all and it would be foolish to spend your money on something you may not like. Just be confident and don't worry about the future. You can be 100% sure that she, as a mature woman, knows how to be satisfied.
Give it to her! My husband is a sailor and he gave me a vibrator. I use it and wait for it. However, if he doesn't love you and be here, he will cheat on you again.
Be masculine and don't do nonsense. I think what you plan to do will have a negative effect. You must know that you cannot be a master, an organizer, a master of anyone's physiological needs except your own. And what might be bothering you ... don't think it will happen if it happens. Success!
I don't know why you think a woman needs a vibrator to masturbate. And the reason you give it to her is stupid, and if she realizes it, and is quite likely to think about it, you will fall seriously in her eyes. G30
Sex toys are a great gift, but the reason you decided to give a vibrator is naughty. Why not give her a vibrator for no reason. Why not choose it together for example. You sit at the computer and look, talk, discuss. It just occurred to you to take handcuffs, blindfolds, a whip or erotic clothes ... and use them and have fun with them together. It's stupid to give a vibrator because you're leaving. It is wonderful to make such gifts while you are together.