Hello! I'm 28 and last summer I had casual sex with a boy set. And so for almost a year now, he has been calling me at least once a month to hear how I am. We are not far from different cities. Several times I try to explain to him that there is no point in maintaining any kind of relationship because of the distance between us, but he tells me what is wrong with being friends who are heard from time to time. OK I agreed. And one day he calls me and calls me I have a job in your city, can I sleep in you for a few days. I call him OK but we will have to sleep in one room. He tells me there is no problem. And we spent a few days just as friends, except that one night we got very drunk and had sex. He told me that he had a girlfriend, with whom, however, things did not go well for a month. I'm single and he knows it. We broke up as friends, but a few hours after he left he called me and asked if I would miss him, I told him I missed him and then he asked me if we would see each other again, I told him there were no problems, he told me and that we will hear each other.
And since he left 3 days ago, he has called me more than 3 months ago, we talk again only as friends, he told me that he broke up with his girlfriend. I can't understand how he feels about me, because I see that he himself doesn't know, the only thing I asked him was if he liked me, and he said yes. Please give me advice on whether to do something or stay as quiet and meek as ever. I'm afraid not to scare him, because I really like him. I told him that I missed him and then he asked me if we would see each other again, I told him that there were no problems, and he told me that we would hear from each other. And since he left 3 days ago, he called me more than 3 months ago, we talk again only as friends, he told me that he broke up with his girlfriend. I can't understand how he feels about me, because I see that he himself doesn't know, the only thing I asked him was if he liked me, and he said yes.
Please give me advice on whether to do something or stay as quiet and meek as ever. I'm afraid not to scare him because I really like him. I told him that I missed him already and then he asked me if we would see each other again, I told him that there were no problems, he told me that we would hear from each other. And since he left 3 days ago, he has called me more than 3 months ago, we talk again only as friends, he told me that he broke up with his girlfriend. I can't understand how he feels about me, because I see that he himself doesn't know, the only thing I asked him was if he liked me, and he said yes.
Please give me advice on whether to do something or stay as quiet and meek as ever. I'm afraid not to scare him because I really like him. he told me he broke up with his girlfriend. I can't understand how he feels about me, because I see that he himself doesn't know, the only thing I asked him was if he liked me, and he said yes. Please give me advice on whether to do something or stay as quiet and meek as ever. I'm afraid not to scare him because I really like him. he told me he broke up with his girlfriend. I can't understand how he feels about me, because I see that he himself doesn't know, the only thing I asked him was if he liked me, and he said yes.
Please give me advice on whether to do something or stay as quiet and meek as ever. I'm afraid not to scare him because I really like him.
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listen, the man is a little embarrassed, don't you see that there is some work in your city and obviously he has to come again except for a hotel to use you, I don't see it in two words, I think he uses you
He can use you. maybe not you ... or maybe he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend yet, but he wants to have a loophole so you can see each other when there's work in your town or when there's any opportunity. There are many options - you will understand the truth in time. Either he's the next one who doesn't know what he wants or he knows very well that he wants sex with you and so far his plan has worked. Wait to see what will happen, because serious conversations are of no use, you will only scare him. And with nepukism, no matter how hard it is, you can only win it for yourself. As I said, only time will tell.