Hello, I would like to share about the problem that befell me yesterday. Quite involuntarily, I caught my girlfriend in adultery. We live together, even now she sleeps in the other room sweetly, and I struggle here. : D I'm a 24-year-old boy, and she's 20. We've been together for 3 and a half years, we lived together last fall. We quarrel sometimes, but we get along - normal things. I think we are a normal couple. We talked very often about love, devotion and how we are both strongly against infidelity. It gave me some confidence that something good would come out of our relationship. I have never been jealous or suspicious. Yesterday she went to work, I was resting that day, and bored I decided to clean her laptop, because she always complains about almost all her techniques, as they detected. I dealt with the laptop and decided to do the same with her tablet, which is in her locker. She has given it to me before and I did not consider it as if I was illegally confusing her personal belongings. Apparently she had left the 4G on because the tablet was sounding for a received message, after which I saw a male name sending a heart. There was no way I couldn't open it, after all a man was sending something to my girlfriend. I opened the chat and started reading .... Mine complained that she was bored at work, she gave her provocative compliments and I really "got involved" in arranging a meeting at the Hemus Hotel this Saturday. Then an exchange of threats began which .... abe became both funny and sad from the things I read. I saw it in a light I never thought possible. I didn't think she was susceptible to anal sex, for example, or that he loves making French love so much ... I kept some composure and decided to look at the tablet. I opened the gallery from where I came up with spicy photos, obviously from previous meetings. It's not the most pleasant thing to see your girlfriend grinning at the camera and smeared on her face with s *** ma but .... I managed to see her blonde - with a wig and dressed as a nurse. I put the tablet in its place and sat for a while, staring at one point. The irony was generally complete. I decided to think about what I should do, but I haven't figured it out yet ... I want to give her a lesson .... So - guys, be careful what you choose! It's not the most pleasant thing to see your girlfriend grinning at the camera and smeared on her face with s *** ma but .... I managed to see her blonde - with a wig and dressed as a nurse. I put the tablet in its place and sat for a while, staring at one point. The irony was generally complete. I decided to think about what I should do, but I haven't figured it out yet ... I want to give her a lesson .... So - guys, be careful what you choose! It's not the most pleasant thing to see your girlfriend grinning at the camera and smeared on her face with s *** ma but .... I managed to see her blonde - with a wig and dressed as a nurse. I put the tablet in its place and sat for a while, staring at one point. The irony was generally complete. I decided to think about what I should do, but I haven't figured it out yet ... I want to give her a lesson .... So - guys, be careful what you choose!
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such things happen if: 1. she is slightly out of your category 2. has access to stronger males than you, it is your fault that you are not strong enough. your social dominance is low.
In the end, you choose them light. No one is to blame for not realizing for so long that you have a snake. I would not forgive if I was going to die of love. When she likes to go with others. By the same logic, he will find some Chichak and bye. Sometimes it happens that people deceive us with their initial performance - Kind and good, but in the end it turns out to be a real snake;) The biggest lesson will be to say what you saw and show her the door, she will remember it. If you don't, you deserve everything that happens to you.
Author, I have nothing more to tell you. Your partner has decided to "discover his sexuality", and as often happens - with another, and behind your back. Leaving aside the fact that you already know that you can do whatever you want with her, because she is obviously quite advanced with the material, you will decide if you can expect something more from her. I would personally shake it out for the last time, then I would invite her to see something on the laptop and I would discuss at length the photos you found. I would throw in some sarcastic remarks like "I was wondering why you've been blooming so well lately, so it was because you were well watered from above, and well plowed from behind" :) So I think you already know that it will come out great bed buddy but nothing more. You are still young, maybe you still have time to practice with such. In this line of thinking, I will give you some personal advice. Even if this is the expected behavior from you, because you are young, do not waste your time with such. The sooner you manage to find a real woman with whom to build a home and family, the more time you will have to enjoy the real beautiful and joyful moments in this life. And that some whore made you nice blowjobs and eights ... These moments come easily, but also pass easily. PS I can't figure out what force number 2 is talking about. Tearing off your boyfriend's ring or letting her suck salami all day, and that makes you a super strong man? Like many other men, the author voted full confidence in his wife because she played the role of a decent girl very well. Whether the author is a "balama" is not so important. You, number 2, don't think you're so hot and strong, and there's no woman to fool you. It is never too late to put horns on you and one should never underestimate female hypocrisy. They are so confident that they love you the most, because you are the easiest and most predictable. And such words as "social dominance" you can use before the next muffin that will impress with your endless intellect and courage. This term has nothing to do with the author's problem and the use of such will not make your "personal strength" higher.
Author to number 7: Thank you for the words. I absolutely agree with you about the mentioned "social dominance". And to the first comment - dude, I work a lot and hard, I live well and I have good friends, I dare say. Opposite this is my ex-girlfriend, who has been touring Sofia hotels dressed as a prostitute ... What category are we talking about here and who is the weak one?
№2 you are probably some beastly complex .. You are a little man, you can see from afar
In order to pour it most adequately without saying that you are filming, go and wait for them in the hotel lobby. Go straight with her luggage. There's no point in arguing, because garbage is garbage and there's no fix.
I think that number 2 is a woman, but like you, I do not agree with her statements ... what is this outside the category, what category exactly is not clear, it is not important. Author, good luck next time!
Author: Thank you for your encouragement. I really decided to catch her in a mold so I wouldn't have to deal with her anymore. I decided to do the most banal thing - to tell her that I would not be there and to go home, "hoping" that she had invited her "boyfriend". And so it happened. I also said that I was going to see my grandmother in another city and I would not be there for the evening. I went out with friends, we drank a few, went to the movies - the normal things .... I stopped my car in front of us, got in, tried to open - the duck had not left the key on the lock at least for security reasons. . I went in quietly, saw other people's shoes so I was "lucky". The living room was turned off so the bedroom remained. I also heard the familiar moans. I stood at the door for a while listening to the sounds and it became interesting for me to enter .... I opened the door abruptly, I'm still here - the old woman from the chat, all in tattoos was leaning on the bed and mine was on all fours on the bed - an idyll! Of course, she was done again - something like a nightgown with garters and leather boots, which I gave her for Christmas and sprinkled with money to be her mother .... From then on, were the normal things - screams, roar and so on. She started to apologize, of course, but after the 50th time I told her to pack, I think it became clear to her. The "lover" ran away quickly. At one point, while I was sitting in the living room waiting for her to pack her things from the bedroom, I heard her talking on the phone, I think she was with him - to come and pick her up by car. We wished each other all the best, and that was it - we finished things quickly. And so - now I am devoted to work and rest from everything. I think it all has a happy ending for me.
Everything is said briefly and clearly from comment 2. If you are a provider. Your wife is rocking with grandmothers. If you are a man with a capital M - the woman is in your frame and may fantasize, but will not put it with another with a lower level than yours.