Hello, my relationship has always been problematic, and for a year now he has been parting with me, now we are getting along. Nothing can hurt me more than separation, he knows it and I have no idea if this is the motivation. This time another man appeared, in whom I am more certain than in myself that even the greatest misery in this world would not be enough to force him to separate. And I want sex from him. I can't get together with my longtime friend, no matter how much I love him, it's beyond the power of a person to endure these extremes of gathering and separation. My question is should I end the new relationship before it's too late. I know he will get used to the new person, although it is not easy. He has a soul and a perfect character. After a relationship like that ended, only desolation, pain, fear and self-blame remained. You don't get into love with that.
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Author, I can't know what's best for you, but as you describe it to me, I would try the following: once you're not ready for a new serious relationship, try small steps. Tell the person that you do not feel confident yet and you can start in the beginning only with sex and friendship. And so slowly you will see how it turns out. Your heart will show you whether you want a new relationship or not. Success!
What if you are passionate about another and do not love your current partner. You have nothing to think about, be with the new one anyway, you are already overwhelmed by another and he will ruin your relationship consciously, even if he doesn't want what you call a soul, so maybe he knows how to dig into people's minds and better with him. I am a woman and I love diversity, I am 24 years old, so far I have had no more than 3 or 4 people in my life and only when I do not feel the thrill of his presence, I end up with him.
Question mind or heart? Answer - ass! Always let your ass choose what he will take it :)))
You are not ready for a relationship, and therefore do not waste a person's time if he has more serious intentions. Admit it to him and let him decide if it's worth waiting for you.
Rotate them both - what do you think. When you break up once again you will have a sex friend. ;) So, um, you won't be dry, um, you won't wipe away tears while you wait for that serious one to pass;) Yayaaa;)