Hello, I am currently in 7th grade and in 6th grade up and down I finally started smoking. At first I smoked every day, but then it wasn't so interesting and I could do without cigarettes for months. I haven't had a cigarette all summer. Now that I have started school, I have started smoking 3-4 times a day. None of us know I smoked, but once my mother found a match and asked me what it was, and I told her it wasn't mine, but a classmate's, and I think she believed me. I'm tired of hiding, I want them to know that I smoke and to be able to smoke in front of them. If he told them they would fight a lot, they would explain to me that it was hot, etc. and that's why I don't know how to tell them, otherwise only my father smokes. I wonder if I should tell my grandmother first, because we are very close to her, and she smokes. I used to tell her things and not tell them to my mother, and she said others and I wonder if I would be wrong if I told her. Please help me! Thanks in advance!
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In 7th grade he wants to smoke "quietly"? HELLO? You are a lost child. Cigarettes are sold even only to people over 18 years of age and are prohibited for people under 18. For you, smoking seems to be something normal, and smoking in 7th grade is almost everyday - in what environment and in what school? If I was your parent first a nice fart, then I move you out of school and I will continue to move you until you come to your senses
Smokers will one day shake their heads. Smoking shows simplicity, over time you will not realize what is happening and what things are put to addiction. Yellow teeth, stench ... diseases. Will you forgive yourself if tomorrow, because you are very cool with the cigarette, you give birth to a child with problems. And don't say how much they smoke and healthy children give birth and are healthy. My acquaintances have a miserable cycle, because addicts to cigarettes give their money mainly for this, and at home repairs for 30 years is not done. If I go to them, they bathe immediately afterwards and wash all their clothes.
I agree with the above comment! Her mouth still smells of milk, she started smoking cigarettes for me! If I'm in your place and I know you smoke, you'll fight until you come to your senses! Now the various tolerants will probably jump on me, that the children should not be attacked no matter how bad their actions are, but he doesn't care. We have seen how far the overly liberal attitude and lack of control leads - a child has already paid with his life! In another topic, I gave an example with my classmate. Her mother constantly made concessions to compensate for the fact that they were divorced from her father and he was almost absent from life, indulging her and making concessions to her. As a result, she was an unbearable bastard who was shaking non-stop if you didn't think so, lying, running away from school, stealing money from her mother and stepfather, not studying or being on the computer or in cafes, and once he even had the audacity to rush to beat his mother because she and her stepfather had put a password on her computer so that she wouldn't hang on to it all day. While they lived with her grandmother and grandfather, her grandmother controlled her to some extent. She was the only one who was respected, because she was strict and slapped her for the slightest offense - if she didn't tell the lesson smoothly, if she started to slap her again. Apparently it had an effect as it was lower than the grass in front of her. He had an abortion in the 10th grade, barely finished high school for the third time. She is currently 24 with 2 abortions behind her back and is often fired in the second month of work because she is not coping. If her mother had been tougher with her, and if she had passed it on to her grandmother at every shoot instead of covering it, she would not have failed so much now. Another acquaintance of mine from an early age lied, stole from stores and smoked. When he entered puberty, he started drinking, dealing with boys, and stopped going to school. At the moment she has failed 20 years ... and without education and continues to steal.
Number two to keep quiet about the children, because I have never met a child of smokers who has been harmed. I am like that myself and this has not damaged my life in any way, on the contrary - I am disgusted by the smell of cigarettes and I do not plan to quit soon. And bathing after you've been a guest is so preoccupied. If the home is cleaned for as long as it is not repaired, the hygiene is like at home. And darling, don't you think it's too early for you to miss. My classmates smoked every break, and that didn't make them any cooler or better than the others. On the contrary, when they returned from the yard, they smelled so bad that they could hardly stand it from those around them.
For many people in Bulgaria, smoking in 7th grade is still normal. Sad, but true. Cigarettes are very addictive. But fortunately for you, author, I find that you are not addicted yet. I think you're only doing it to be part of the crowd, which is really stupid. Remember that individualists prosper in life, people who are unique, who do not imitate! Those who imitate remain just common people. I'm writing this because I suspect I'm right - you don't smoke because you really like it. You're just part of the crowd. It is true that there are people who smoke all their lives and have nothing, but they all have problem teeth and always have to give crazy money (those who have and those who do not have ugly teeth, look into the mouths of 50-year-old uncles and aunts who smoke as you have this opportunity) by dentists to fix them. They need to be bleached because they turn very yellow from cigarette smoke, which is a little expensive and also a little harmful to do often. Otherwise, aggressive comments such as that your mouth smelled of milk, that you missed something and that you are fighting for just ignore them. These are the words of neurotic people who are eternally depressed, with a monotonous daily life, have accumulated a lot of negativity and are lurking on the Internet for little girls and boys to make fun of. I am of the opinion that it is to you, the younger ones, that one should address humanly! In the beginning I mentioned Bulgaria not by chance, because here we are still super backward for a lot of things, including cigarettes. In Western Europe, Scandinavia, the United States, Australia, etc.
Number 2, take it easy with the simplicity of smokers, and what does illiteracy show?
Five men I know and a woman have died of lung cancer before they were 40.45 years old. It is a pity to watch people of that age die from their simplicity. How can you feel sorry for them when they themselves do not have the mind to understand the harm of cigarettes, Cigarettes are a drug, only a person with a very strong will fights them.
Stop smoking now and IMMEDIATELY, thank me later. Don't be fooled by the complexes and complexes where they smoke during the breaks to make themselves cool. They are not cool, they are complex individuals. Penka smoked because Ivancho, whom she likes, smokes and at first she wanted to go out to be with him. Ivancho smokes because Nedyalka, whom he likes, smokes. But Nedyalka goes out to smoke because of Jorko. Jorko is older and has been smoking for a long time, but he started smoking because he wanted to join the company of his older brother Dimchu. Dimchu smoked next to his neighbors Borko and Mishu. Nobody smokes because there is something good inherent in smoking. Smoking is a learned behavior that leads to addiction.
The best things in life are free. As long as you have them, you don't notice them. Only when you lose them do you appreciate what you had. In many cases, when this happens it is already too late and irretrievably lost. Health is one of those things and tobacco destroys it. Haven't you seen a circle of young people dying of cigarette diseases lately? I had a boyfriend who I dumped for smoking. When I kissed her, I felt disgusted by the taste of tobacco in her mouth.
That's right, it's too early for such things, but I want to say to number 2 that this comment is very exaggerated, as it happens in very rare cases. How can you know if it will happen to her, so many people around the world (let alone in Bulgaria) have missed in 6-7-8 grade :) But in general I was in the same situation. At the age of 12, a friend suggested that I smoke, and of course I wanted to try (I better not have done it) and so for about 6 months I thought that when you smoke you are terribly cool and fashionable. I confessed to my parents ... my mother didn't approve, and my dad thought "it's for my health", but I shouldn't start from such a young age. Already at the age of 14 I am VERY sorry for my act and if I had such a choice, at least until 16 I would not try. It's not cool and moving, it's ugly for a girl to smell like an ashtray! :) Good luck.
10, just to add that and a boy to stink of an ashtray is also so ugly.
IN ABSOLUTELY NO CASE, don't tell yours. This will not lead to anything good. Try to stop them. And don't smoke more than 3 cigarettes then 2 and 1 ... that way you will stop them. Smoking does not lead to anything good. Good luck.
Smoking is something really disgusting. In Europe, smoking is no longer fashionable and therefore the number of smokers is constantly declining. Buying a pack of cigarettes is like buying a pack of nails for your coffin.