Hello, I decided to write with a request for advice. My boyfriend and I have anal sex, and despite the regular enema I do before, I have had drops of dirty water come out during intercourse. I attribute it to the fact that the whole amount did not come out in the toilet or that it reached a deeper place. Option with soap and water alone does not seem hygienic enough to me and I feel even more worried. I ask the more experienced to share how they are cleaned before and how they understand if all the water has come out. The version with irrigators, ladies' showers, etc. has not been tried and the result is the same. Are there subtleties like being upright or something? Please for specific answers!
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You wash yourself until any impurities stop coming out, but since there is water left in you, you need to do it for about an hour before sex so that you can throw away or absorb the water left in you. The other option is such a rinse, but you start in the bathroom and during sex, the man abruptly takes it out to drain the water from you and when it stops flowing, you move. At least that's how my partner practices it and she is successful.
Just wait longer on the toilet to drain completely. I do so, darling.
Thanks for the answers! I certainly don't find this with the abrupt taking out in the shower with my partner an option. In principle, I always do it at least an hour or two before and I try to stay in the toilet as much as possible. If after that I feel some pressure, I go to the toilet again and if something goes wrong I start the same procedure with a shower ... I think that this is the problem with the repetitions and I can't control the process with the leaked water. I talked to friends about it and they shared the same problem.
I have not had such a problem. I use an enema machine, wait for the toilet bowl and it's done. I have not repeated. Could the leak be from the lubricant? A friend warned me (she practices this sex regularly) not to apply too much liquid lubricant because it has an enema effect. I don't even like liquid lubricants. For years I have been using Vaseline hand cream instead of lubricant and I am satisfied. What lubricant do you use, liquid or some cream?