It is clear from the title. Last night, for no apparent reason, I slept with him. And now I feel terribly bad, because he hurt me terribly, and I gave in ... I knew from the beginning that it was just sex, and I still couldn't say no. I didn't want it that much. I think it was more of a curiosity about what it would be, whether it would be good. Strange, but when there is no love, obviously everything changes. At least for me. I was a purely sexual object and I can't hide that I was horrified afterwards, especially after he made my life black. He also cheated on his girlfriend with me. In principle, I would never sleep with a boy who has a girlfriend. Really. But I brought him back, so to speak, because she had interfered in my relationship before and I was unhappy. It was like "proving which one is more desirable now." But I'm still not well now. Because I'm not used to being the second, to be for one sex. Please advice on how to get out of this vicious circle ... I want to get rid of it, of nostalgia for it. And for a start, how can I stop feeling inferior and guilty, even though I was hurt in the beginning by his new girlfriend and him. So that you don't think of me as a whore, let me clarify that he is the only person I have slept with, and before that we were together for more than 2 years. I look forward to advice and opinions from everyone who has experienced this. thanks and before that we were together for more than 2 years. I look forward to advice and opinions from everyone who has experienced this. thanks and before that we were together for more than 2 years. I look forward to advice and opinions from everyone who has experienced this. thanks
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Why are you so sure you were just a sexual object. You don't write how long you've been apart, but a two-year relationship is a serious thing.
Get a new friend and you'll forget about the first one right away. You haven't had sex with anyone else and you want to forget it. It doesn't happen that way, there is no thrill, it's not like before but you don't have a basis for comparison. With the new one you will forget in just a month that you had another one, so don't feel guilty about anything and rather find another one.
You're obviously such a character. I suggest you just ignore it ... and look for your happiness elsewhere. I guess you're young (not to mention tiny), given what you've written, so guys a lot ... and a lot cooler. Don't get into their stupid movie of these two, your ex-boyfriend and your girlfriend. Be above their level. Bambi
Номер 1, за съжаление е пределно ясно, че няма какво друго да съм била. Той я обича, и не го крие от мен, беше му станало кофти, че тя се занимавала там с някакви и си е спомнил колко як секс сме правили- ок, вярно супер беше, допадахме си във всичко, което искаме, поласках се, като каза колко пъти си е представял,но.. дотам. Разделихме се за първи път преди година, но след това се събрахме декември и пак се разделихме окончателно. Номер 2, мерси за съвета, опитвам се, но ми е трудно, защото не се влюбвам лесно. Когато някой ми хареса, ми държи много малко, и изстивам. С бившия не бях така. Напротив. Обичах го до последно въпреки всички мизерии. Номер 3, благодаря и на теб за съвета. Ще се опитам наистина да го игнорирам. Иначе не съм малка, на 21 съм. Просто да кажем, че съм много принципен и трудно влюбчив човек. Не ме е срам да кажа, че съм нямала богат опит (освен в секса, което е очевидно) и във връзките. Той беше първата сериозна- повече от 2 години. Както и да е.... след като уточних тези неща, ако имате нещо за доизказване, насреща съм да чуя :) авторката
It happens and you are very right - it is always felt whether the man has sex with or without love. So in my opinion (I have the same understandings and feelings as you) do not feel guilty. Just tell yourself that this is a bygone era and look ahead. You will meet another - I have no doubt.
Patience forget it as you divert your attention start doing something different and you will forget it and when that happens you will meet another
Greetings to the author from another principled person. :) Very often I am annoyed on this site by women without principles. In your case, however (as in mine), these principles tell you the game. :))) Seriously, I don't think anyone would blame you. You know, the one who cheats is guilty. In this case, it's not you. I don't know, but I'm not of the opinion that it's good to deal with this boy. Ralph
Thanks, Ralph, for the opinion. I know perfectly well that I don't have to deal with it, I just felt guilty about myself and my own ideals. I'm glad that someone still respects the principles and thank you for not judging me :) I hope I don't give up anymore and finally stop thinking about anything related to him. In the end, once I made a mistake to do it, I saw what it is, I did not like it, a second such mistake will not be curiosity, but nonsense :) Greetings, I hope one day I can help you with some advice the author
Hey cat, why do you think that you are the second violinist at the moment ... you may be 5th for example. Hey, bitches like you deserve only flattery - you itch more than men - that's the truth. And I'm sure if you don't find a tramp, just ask, your ex will fuck you again.