Hello, all 30-year-old young man and I'm looking for a girlfriend, but the problem is that I'm very closed in myself and anxious! How to overcome the anxiety of talking to women and not being closed in on myself please for your opinion thank you in advance!
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The only correct answer is experience. So shame not shame talk, try and after the first 100-200 refusals you will relax and you will not care. For starters, try dating sites. It's a mess there, but it's like a transition to real life. Not that anyone there will tie you, they are 90% fake, but at least break off.
Don't think of us as scary. Think of us as human beings. You say you're worried about women, not men in general. I guess you only worry about the women you like. This speaks of low self-esteem, fear that you will be rejected.