Hello. I'm a 15-year-old girl. I've always had a speech problem. I don't even know if I can call it a problem, but whenever I talk to someone I always say something unrelated and they look at me like they were shot or something stupid, wrong, etc. It's always been that way and it's awful. I'm a very closed girl and I've talked very little when I was younger with people, could it be that It also sometimes happens that when I talk to someone I forget what I wanted to say and I keep quiet like some ..; x I just don't get it if I start talking to someone for a long time, I start stuttering, talking nonsense, etc. What do you think this could be? And will I be okay too?
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You need practice :)! Do not avoid communicating with people, but pursue it - friends, acquaintances, strangers, etc. And do not think much about the fact that you will get dirty at some point in the conversation, it will only suppress you even more and it really will happen. Go and talk without fear. Watch the movie "Patch Adams", it's very inspiring. You'll like! :) Митко
I have a bit of the same problem, but for me it's when I talk to someone seriously ... and I'm worried, I'm closed too. I avoid this problem by drooling or turning this nonsense into a joke and things go up and down, in most cases ... but when I look at you you are better than me, because you express yourself well here, while I even in the forums I can barely make sentences. All this is because our vocabulary is poor :)
Darling, I have the same problem and I understand you. It happens to me all the time and it just kills me. Many people say that it is precisely because as a child I did not talk to anyone but my grandmother.
Well, I'm your age (boy) and I think it's your lack of self-confidence .. now some people will write "self-confidence is money, success, etc.) - NO self-confidence is confidence if you are confident - you will not have a problem (in my opinion) .. if you want try with arrogance if you want (but consciously no one likes fuckers) just in your head next time say to yourself - I am (your name, for example, Thea) and who were you? ..
I agree with Mitko's advice. You can add this to it - train in front of the mirror. Make dialogues. You can even catch some relatives - cousin, brother, sister (those who do not bother you and you can behave spontaneously with them) and start talking about things in life. Use simple sentences, because they will not confuse you and so little by little things may fall into place. I hope I was helpful. jay