Hello, I was born with a rather large scar on my back. It is like a stain and is quite large. Because of him, I'm always ashamed to undress on the beach, and I try not to reveal my back. Some time ago I didn't think about it at all, but lately it has started to impress me and I want to remove it for a long time. My father is a doctor and he has connections, but every time I ask him he says something like "I'm looking for a suitable person" and says that he doesn't like talking about this topic or anything else. Basically, I had to leave last summer so that I wouldn't miss school. There is talk now of this summer, but what if I don't? Should I sit down and talk to them seriously?
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If your father is a doctor and avoids the topic or procrastinates, he may be worried about the appearance of the "stain" in some cases it can be dangerous to "tease" something like that. Many people have some scars ... and what ?! I have a "cat's eye" as it is called, in an accident in my childhood, my pupil is elongated, elongated. It is not something that is only seen in summer, but every day, at every glance, with every sighted person. Personally, I even like the way they look ... they can't believe that they see what they see :) A friend has a huge purple scar on her front thigh, she wears it quite calmly every year at sea. Get used to it (scar) hardly make such an impression on others as you or wait patiently until your father finds a really good one to remove it,
Ooo, forget the complexes! I also have a birthmark on my back, but I've never cared. And no one has told me anything, nor has it ever interfered with my sexual or any other life. Not me, the doctor told me that it is not good to leave because it is big, etc. I do not know what is the case with you. Maybe your father doesn't have enough options right now. Or, like me, he doesn't find it a big problem. If you want, talk to your parents again. Explain to them that you are complex and want to know what their opinion is.
Years ago, I was in a similar situation. I had, and still have, a scar on my back, plus the little fingers on both my hands are slightly crooked. This worried me a lot and inevitably affected my self-esteem. One day, something happened and changed not only my life, but also the way I looked at it. My friend and I were sitting in a cafe, and there were three girls and two boys, about twenty years old, at the next table. One of the boys was very witty and with a great sense of humor - one of those types of people who will cheer her up and make you laugh and feel better, no matter how bad your mood is. He was the center of attention and the soul of their company. I remember very well when I said to myself, "Look how happy he is. If he was in my position, he wouldn't be so smiling and making jokes." . When they left, I saw that he had problems with one of his legs and had to use one of these short crutches. It was obvious that this did not bother him at all and he had such self-confidence that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect. that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect. that it was as if he owned half of Sofia. Then I realized that this is nothing of mine and that the most important thing is the intellect, mentality and manners of man. It changed my life completely and I haven't cared since. I go to the swimming pool and the beach only on floats and no one has ever asked me what this scar on my back is. I have many friends and they appreciate me for what I am as a person. Don't worry at all and live your life because no one is perfect.
I have a birthmark on my leg. It is on the ankle and is quite large. It can be seen not only on the beach, but everywhere I am in the summer. I read somewhere that people touched by angels have such scars. It's cool to believe in something like that - it's like you're blessed by birth :) I don't see what you're ashamed of. It is a part of you, like your hair, your fingers and the hairs on your hands. Removal can be dangerous and that's why your father is pulling.
It's yours, wear it. YOU MAY BE LUCKY AND YOU WANT TO REMOVE IT. I have a small spot on my right cheek - maternity. It has always been this size, that is - when I was little it was bigger. I didn't like it before, now I love it, although I rarely notice it. It has happened to me that people who have known me for years will notice it much later and tell me to wipe myself because I am dirty (it looks like a stain from raspberry or strawberry jam). It's mine, I like it.
If you're a fan of tattoos, why not make one to hide it?
The problem is in your head - in your attitude to this scar. The truth is that no one is bothered and no one will perceive you differently just because you have a scar. Enjoy the life. Focus on the important things.
Well, talk to yourself and tell your father that you want to get rid of him because you can't take it anymore and you don't feel well. I had a similar problem some time ago, as I was ashamed of yours for many years, I didn't feel well, I don't know why I didn't go to the rescue circle before - called a doctor, but in the end I did it and I'm very happy!
At the Military Medical Academy in Sofia there is a very good specialist for these things. Go for an examination at the MMA polyclinic and they will refer you there.
I have too. Large, dark spot from burning on the left shoulder. Up and down as far as an outstretched hand. I want to get rid of it too, but I don't know how and where.