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Computer Games Are Harmful - Yes!

By c2cbbchorny August 04, 2020 16 answers Last updated August 04, 2020

Hello. I am a girl of 23 and I have had a friend for a long time, whom I love very much. Everything was going great and we got along amazing! We've always been there for each other and I've always considered him my hero. He is a good man who always did the right thing. We played computer games together, did everything together and didn't suffocate. Everything changed when he started playing a very different game and quite famous again. I'm sure almost everyone knows it, I won't mention names, there are an awful lot of people out there and it's quite action-packed. It is online and does not require many resources. That's nice, but since he started playing it again, he's started to change. For those Sopolankovtsi who will say that the games are at home and do not hurt what you are, let him play - ON THE CONTRARY! When one thing makes thousands of people spit and insult, to win - so it's not the best place! Think logically: (The game is like chocolate - if you know that you can't stand it, it is addictive and harms your life - you better not touch it!) I know that men love computer experiences - I don't have a problem with that either, we played together - but NOT when it leads to obsession and a young healthy person spends his life in a chair! I knew that this game would create problems, he promised me that he would not, but the first day we played he started to get angry if we didn't win, to get angry and insult people, to want to play it all day, he stopped kisses and hugs me, not to mention sex! We did 2 or 3 times every day, and now he has sex with his game! I got bored and started to leave him. I can't watch it ruin our relationship because of a chat with a chair on the battlefield. I told him, that our arrangement was to play every day, but without turning it into our whole life and fighting over it! We are great people, I want to play sports and find a job, I made him play sports together, but he wants to play - he still doesn't think about work at all. He said he would find it soon, but we'll see! I will not touch him and stay with him until he shows me respect and love and leaves this rotten game! Sorry for the language and if I was rude! I don't know how to explain all these things to him, he is amazing, but he is ruined by this thing! until you show me respect and love and leave this rotten game! Sorry for the language and if I was rude! I don't know how to explain all these things to him, he is amazing, but he is ruined by this thing! until you show me respect and love and leave this rotten game! Sorry for the language and if I was rude! I don't know how to explain all these things to him, he is amazing, but he is ruined by this thing!

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_lizzhernandez_ answered · August 04, 2020

   Horror and my husband every free minute games. I'm tired already.

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hillary_c answered · August 04, 2020

   If you are talking about a game that starts with the Latin letter L and then has one digit - a one-digit number, I will tell you that it is really very popular and catchy. There is a hospital in South Korea where addicts of this game are treated

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constance_black answered · August 04, 2020

   And I have periods when I fish a lot. I am your age. Games are really harmful, it's much more productive to do anything else with your time, but they are a lot of fun and allow you to get away from the problems in life for a while. I guess it depends on the person, but I'm telling you what's happening to me: I've been playing the same game for years. At times, especially when I'm freer, I allow myself to play a lot. When I feel that my real life is suffering because of the game, it stops me from playing more. I have already realized that the game is pointless and I limit the effect it has on my life. I guess the same thing would happen to him if he was a serious man before he started. Try talking to him - when my girlfriend was annoyed that I played a lot, I felt extremely dumb and dropped the game right away.

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marvelleecam answered · August 04, 2020

   Any form of addiction is not very useful, but unfortunately one can only understand it alone. He will not be affected by advice. I also play a lot, but I'm not addicted - maybe I'm lucky that I get tired of things quickly. But I had a period when I played all day - when I was a student. Then, when I started working, I couldn't afford it, so I stopped because of the circumstances. I guess your boyfriend doesn't work, so he hangs out in front of the computer. Idleness leads to such addictions.

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stefanslutexpose answered · August 04, 2020

   And I'm obsessed with games and I haven't gotten up from my chair all day but I haven't offended anyone and I don't shout at all when I lose. For me, they are a variety when I'm bored. But your boyfriend is really not well. It happened like football.

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baby_julie answered · August 04, 2020

   Not a lot of addiction, but there are a lot of interesting games that are more interesting for men than talking to most middle-intelligent women .. just accept it .. thats life

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shitngiggles answered · August 05, 2020

   6 you are obviously a moderately intelligent man: D

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prettylilkitty704 answered · August 05, 2020

   I'm a woman and I also like to play video games. While still studying, I spent a lot of time on the computer, but over the years that has changed. Now I have a job, I play sports, I go out with friends, I have connections, I look after my homework ... I still play games in my free time, but they are definitely in the background after everything else. In principle, I would like to play together with my partner and I have had such boyfriends. But what you are describing is a nightmare. He doesn't work, he hangs out at the game all day, he is aggressive, he doesn't pay attention to you and you don't have sex ... This is a drug addict who will financially fall into your hands at some point. He must have been neglected, with such a life he is hardly in good shape and probably does not observe much hygiene. It may never be taken in hand. I would lose it right away.

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ladycools answered · August 05, 2020

   You're angry that a game is more interesting to him than you are .... Up to 7 - Women think that most men are sexists because they don't like talking to them for more than 5-10 minutes with them, but the truth is that most men do NOT like to talk for long. That's why I go out with a deaf-mute!

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aurora_meier answered · August 06, 2020

   ... Okay, I'll ask. How does he have sex with the game? Metaphorically cheating on you with it or putting it in your USB port? I would think about the "connection". Either the sick addict is really swallowing the flash drive on the laptop, or you are worse in bed than a few virgin Poles online. Whatever it is, you and League of Lesbians have no place under one roof.

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uglybikerbear answered · August 06, 2020

   The league is ruining lives.

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angelnextdoor89 answered · August 06, 2020

   I don't know, reading the comments of some men here, I am seriously worried about their future as well as their psyche. The author is very right, but all sorts of psychopaths have already bent over. To take these pills to take their pills and make their lives better. A man is not a man if he does not make the woman next to him happy and there is no excuse for that! The typical psychopath will blame everyone else, but not himself.

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dali_7712 answered · August 07, 2020

   Look at her. What about thinking about what it's like for men to commit to playing exciting video games that don't grumble, don't burden them with "responsibilities," and don't have to prove anything to them? And how do any muffins have the audacity to complain that men do not want to commit and offer them only sex? Look at your characters - selfishness and complete lack of loyalty, what else to offer them?

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jocobo_hot answered · August 07, 2020

   Number 13, well let me be the carpet then. I would not call a man someone for whom work, proof and responsibility are a burden. So, let it tick all day, I personally will not be impressed by its absence. From 8

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susietomlin answered · August 07, 2020

   I am of the same opinion. If the man doesn't feel like taking responsibility for himself and doesn't take matters into his own hands, I don't need it. I won't argue with him or blame him, but I won't stay there. There are few women with self-confidence and I will not be ordinary! The computer disguises reality, but at the same time ruins life.

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littlemissmonster answered · August 08, 2020

   From 13 - And for me the lack of such pretentious and demanding to other people as 14 and 15 is a blessing! Men should think carefully about whether they want to bond with such women, who see them as pack oxen, who harness them to work for them, and who think that they do not owe them any loyalty or to completely lose such selfish beings from their lives. and have fun.