Hello :)) I am 21 years old. I've always been told "You're a strong girl" ... I keep saying that to myself. I know that my problems are not who knows how serious and there are people with more severe dramas, but I just can't find the strength anymore ... as if they are suddenly over. I am a student and the exams worry me a lot - a lot of homework, a lot of study material ... My parents do not have much opportunity to support me and I want to start a job, but I am afraid of failure. A few months ago I worked and I was fired and I have the feeling that I will fail again. I had a relationship with a boy who dumped me with a light eye, and I have to see him every day, we just pass each other and I don't know how he will survive. I am very confused, very upset and depressed and I hope someone will give me advice on how to cope.
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Well, come on, come on! The end of the world has not come, her! Unhappy love and exams. Is there a student who has not experienced it? I do not believe. not to mention that 95% of Bulgarians are poor. But here, of course, it's all in your head. If you stare only at the negatives, of course, this life will look awful to you. Let's look at your pain. There is a cure for every pain. 1bolka. Separation from a boy. -Light-I'm neither the first nor the last. Everyone has gone that way. This is how I build myself up as a hot and boiling person. And besides, I will appreciate the real one when it appears. 2 pain. No money. -Light-Everyone is like that and nothing new under the sun. I will try to make lower expenses and look for a job as soon as possible. I will both be distracted and meet new people. Hem and some lev in the purse. 3pain. Exams. -Light-There is no bread without crust, if I want to have some carte blanche for more jobs (compared to average), I will have to climb this peak as well. Maybe step by step. I can rest and go again, but I will upload it! Good health!
I advise you to go in absentia and look for a job according to the yardstick. Don't worry, maybe a low-skilled, purely physical job (waitress, arranging goods in a large supermarket).
A psychologist told me that a person gets into such depression every 7 years of his life (except the seventh year) - 14, 21, 28, etc. Look at things optimistically and everything will be easier for you. Well, if you think you're completely broken, go to a psychologist - it won't hurt! = *
they hardly fired you because you failed, you know the crisis is staff reductions and their responsibilities are taken over by another employee in another position to do this and this or if you are two new appointees fly out, but not why he is incompetent or so you are not wrong there is no need to worry about repeated "failure". I hope you find any job, you will be tired and busy, but believe me, you will be very well mentally because you will not have time to think nonsense and to feel sorry for yourself that some idiot has dumped you. Believe that somewhere there is a person for you who will appreciate you