Hello! I read some stories from this site, but mine is different from all, but I need advice, so please take 1 minute. I like a girl who is 1 year older. Last year we were in the same class ... then we "liked" each other - she also liked me. However, things went wrong. The other students behaved very badly - they made fun of us, etc. and finally started lying to my girlfriend with lies against me (I don't even know what). She stopped behaving well, moved to another rank and stopped talking to me (apparently because of some lie). This year she is in another class, but we meet very often - she does not speak to me, and I do not have the courage to talk to her. In my opinion, it is obvious that he still likes me, but he is afraid that others will make fun of me again or that this is due to the lies of others - I don't know. Please advise me what to do - talk to her, to find out first what the others told her or what? : |
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Talk to her, of course!
Well, you can't even have a conversation, you're on love. You should have clarified that back then. You're just tormented like that, and no wonder the girl. She probably expected you to protect her somehow, though I don't see how you can shut their mouths. Talk to her.
Talk to her, but don't ask who told her what. It is silly
3, why be stupid? Misunderstandings must be eliminated!
He convinced her that she had heard human fabrications and lies. Show her you're a great boy. Don't be afraid to talk to her. The more you procrastinate, the more she will believe the gossip about you.
Even if you get better, in time someone will tell her something again and she will believe him. That's why she won the trust first and then the other!