Hello! I apologize if there is already such an article. I need an advice. I'm an 18-year-old girl and I've had a serious friend for a year and a half, or so it was before. The thing is, it has recently started to cool down for me. He used to want us to go out all the time, he was worried about me, he was worried, he tried to please every whim, but now ... He has no desire to go out together, nor to do anything. I wonder if it's possible that I'm just tired of him already or that he has another one. He no longer shares with me as he used to. We don't even talk on the phone and in general he can rarely call me to be heard. What to do? What should I do? Thank you in advance!
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Duhai, duuuuhai. ;) Apparently he doesn't like you anymore. So duuuuhai until he tells you enough;)
That's exactly what it looks like to me. Ask him directly if he has another and why he is so cold. No one can tell you the truth except him. If you have another, just step back and live alone until one day you come across a new partner. If not, step back again and tell him that it is not right to receive such neglect in your relationship, and if he wants to keep you, he will still have to give something of himself in the name of that relationship. Good luck.
In the beginning, a man's love is very strong, but if a woman experiences herself as a princess and only consumes her without responding in exactly the same way, with the same fascination he has for her, with the same devotion, with the same intensity, then love begins to decreases, the fire is not fed and begins to go out, there is no fuel. The woman wonders - what's going on? It happens that when you just consume and take, the thing ends, runs out and you are left empty-handed.
From the author: Thank you very much - numbers 2 and 3 for the advice. The very next day after I wrote the article, I talked to him. The conversation was quite exciting, he told me that he would never cheat on me with another, and if he decided to do so, he would break up with me first, because he did not want to lie to me. He apologized to me for what he unknowingly did and now everything is fine, ie everything is as before. Well, thank you again for the advice.
You don't post comments to me sometimes because I'm more extreme, but for number one and his blowing everything is fine.