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Confused-simpati

By simpati August 29, 2020 12 answers Last updated August 29, 2020

I don't know what to think anymore ... I am a young, smart, beautiful and successful girl in my profession. I recently met a hell of a nice gentleman on a dating site, it turned out that he is terribly intelligent, smart and also does his job perfectly (in a word - my dream man). We started writing to each other, he was very polite. He even asked me for the number, we started talking on the phone quite often. We couldn't arrange a meeting and see each other, he claimed that everything comes with time, although we actually knew each other for a few days, but we communicated for 6-7 hours a day, separately by phone and I liked him. For four weekends he had decided to go outside the capital to his hometown, and I expected to hear from him regularly, but I called several times and he didn't answer, then on Sunday when he got home it turned out, that you had forgotten the phone in some restaurant and blah blah ... True, after that I was a little colder with him, but not something drastic and suddenly he cut off all contact with me. He enters Skype and various other sites, but does not reflect me, nor does he answer me, nor does he write to me. I decided to be more aggressive and called on the phone, he didn't even pick me up. What happened to him? !! I thought it was really suitable ...

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metronews answered · August 29, 2020

   the man is engaged, or even married, and only wants to write to you, even for sexual matters, to send him your nude photos, and to do Skype work, etc. Forget it! PP - another time you know - when you start a contact, ask to see him for a while on Skype, then if he doesn't want to see you and make up such things END - never send your naked and so on photos, never it doesn't do any work on skype - they record them and upload them to the web. Most of these men are unfortunately committed, too hypocritical to dump their boring relationships, but they have the time and need to nail girls online. Poor, pathetic types

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crumps2 answered · August 29, 2020

   not worth thinking about it 1 is right. in time you will learn to recognize them

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mimiandalex answered · August 29, 2020

   I am a man, I also met a girl on the net. The two then had long relationships, we saw each other, we went out. However, like your friend, I broke off all relations with her. I'm not committed, I'm not a hypocrite, nothing like that. The girl just wanted to talk to each other all day, to text each other. In other words, she was cheeky. So nm 2 has all kinds of people, whether men or women :-).

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codymortz answered · August 29, 2020

   3 of you women do not understand but the problem is yours. the girl just liked you. and you are impudent but only until you put the woman to bed. the truth is that many men on the net are only there for some sexual experience and that's it. there are many married or serious girlfriends but they just diversify. it's still free and there are women who like it this way. few of the people we meet on the net are real and most importantly quality

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shadmoss answered · August 29, 2020

   Don't you really understand what happened? And you say you're smart. You are still a fool, naive and inexperienced. Rest assured that if she had passed the test of resourcefulness and tact, you would be in the same bed in a week. That was his goal. He has interrupted his conversations with you because the relationship you expect from him is not comfortable for him. He wants a discreet one, not an obvious one.

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monobelly answered · August 29, 2020

   Apparently he doesn't think you're appropriate.

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alphatw1nk answered · August 30, 2020

   Up to nm 4. I am Nm 3, you have no idea how well I understand women !!! And if you swear love after 10 days, you get angry for 5 minutes late SMS ... thank you. I have nothing more to tell you.

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prisillafox answered · August 30, 2020

   № 3, thank you for starring us with one star each. :))))))) Just because you don't like our opinion doesn't mean it's not true.

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domingo_legal answered · August 30, 2020

   number 3 I'm 4. is and we don't fall from the sky. usually many women will support me, you are on the net for a frivolous relationship and when it gets more serious, it doesn't bother you. I am not angry about a breakfast SMS, because mine always arrive on time. but I don't waste my time with braggarts and jokers. I have come across a lot and thanks to them I have learned enough. but I don't connect easily either, you have to have talent to make some people dizzy

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hotb1996 answered · August 31, 2020

   Darling, I read your story and it seemed quite familiar to me :) About 3 years ago I met a boy on the net, a really great person, but we were from different cities. I have always been suspicious and distrustful of this type of relationship, but things developed so much that at one point I began to feel that I was constantly thinking about this person. Then I had a friend I had talked about and I never allowed myself to want to make appointments to see each other and so on. One day, maybe a year after we met, I had a job in the town in question where the boy is from, and he is quite big, we came across him on the street by chance, and hot water scalded me. We drank coffee, talked, and finally kissed me ... and a constant thinking about this man began. Anyway, I broke up with my boyfriend a little later, for completely different reasons, we continued to hang out with the boy in question, but the distance had a big impact. I told him everything about me about the joys and sorrows, he gave me advice from which I really benefited. We have seen each other several times in the whole 3 years. I recently experienced my biggest disappointment in love, and he even helped and supported me from a distance :) So I don't want to bother you with my stories, but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN THE DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks but the distance has a great influence. I told him everything about me about the joys and sorrows, he gave me advice from which I really benefited. We have seen each other several times in the whole 3 years. I recently experienced my biggest disappointment in love, and he even helped and supported me from a distance :) So I don't want to bother you with my stories, but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, NO MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks but the distance has a great influence. I told him everything about me about the joys and sorrows, he gave me advice from which I really benefited. We have seen each other several times for the whole 3 years. I recently experienced my biggest disappointment in love, and he even helped and supported me from a distance :) So I don't want to bother you with my stories, but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN THE DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks We have seen each other several times for the whole 3 years. I recently experienced my biggest disappointment in love, and he even helped and supported me from a distance :) So I don't want to bother you with my stories, but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, NO MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks We have seen each other several times in the whole 3 years. I recently experienced my biggest disappointment in love, and he even helped and supported me from a distance :) So I don't want to bother you with my stories, but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, NO MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, NO MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks but I just want to tell you and everyone else as a conclusion from all this. THERE ARE PEOPLE AND PEOPLE, NO MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE WOMEN OR MEN, SO THERE IS NEVER A GUARANTEE, AS IN DATING IN REAL LIFE, THE SAME IS IN THE NETWORK; I LISTEN TO YOU, THIS HIS ENTERTAINMENT WILL COST YOU A LOT;) SUCCESS !!! Knicks

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annamarkowska_official answered · August 31, 2020

   If there was no need for eye contact in love, as in everything else, we would all be blind. Have you ever wondered why when there was no high technology, computer generation, etc., families were a stable social unit and how people, although more ignorant, managed to preserve love for many years. How love over the years turned into respect and underwent transformations, but it did not hurt people, on the contrary, they felt happy. Aren't we simpler when only 20% manage to live that way?

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wikimediauk answered · August 31, 2020

   I met my husband on the net but there is a big difference from person to person. before I met him I was in contact with all sorts of crazy people. it is up to the person. I like people who keep their word and are stable. my husband is from another country but he never allowed himself to want nude photos or anything like that. so darling and I told you before in time you will learn to distinguish the people on the net who are there for what. some to pass the time, others to mess with people, others for sexual experiences, they were overnight and even virtual. There are and here and there I really hope you come across such. if you want to talk dai email i will be happy to help you