Hello! I had sent my story some time ago, but apparently they didn't approve it! But I will ask the editors to publish my story, because I have no one to share it with. I also apologize if there are any mistakes - I'm not on my computer, I have to get up. Let's get back to the topic. I am a 14-year-old girl. This year I'm in a new class, in a new school, more new friends and yes, you understand me. The summer before this school year, I befriended my classmates (or at least most of them). But every day of the summer vacation I talked on the Internet and on Skype with one of my classmates, but simply as friends (let's call him G). But I have a bad feeling that he likes me. Bad? Why, you wonder? Because I like one of his best friends, who is also in our class. (let's call it X) "D" keeps sending me hints that he likes me, while I try to like the "X". Why can't it just be the other way around? !! It's not a pain to die or a drama, but it bothers me a lot because I really like this boy. I want "G" to stop liking me, even "X" to start liking me. But how do I do it? How can I push one boy away and like another at the same time? Girls do you have any tips? And you guys who read, would you say what attracts you from a girl and what you are interested in or like in a girl. Please without unnecessary comments :) But how do I do it? How can I push one boy away and like another at the same time? Girls do you have any tips? And you guys who read, would you say what attracts you from a girl and what you are interested in or like in a girl. Please without unnecessary comments :) But how do I do it? How can I push one boy away and like another at the same time? Girls do you have any tips? And you guys who read, would you say what attracts you from a girl and what you are interested in or like in a girl. Please without unnecessary comments :)
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You can't try to please someone by force. I know it from personal experience. X can't like you forcibly, you can't do ANYTHING. And it's easiest to push a boy away, but why? Stay friends, don't argue. It just pretends that you don't pay attention to the hints he makes to you. And if G asks you in plain text if you like him, just tell him you like him as a friend, but that's it. Don't tell him you like X.
And what is your relationship with H.? Are you talking, something ...?
It's one of those topics like "He likes her." In short, all the letters are liked and disliked, forming a complex love polygon. When I saw the letters involved, I lost interest, because I know that until tomorrow I read it, I will only be confused. Abe, collect the whole alphabet and tidy up something like that!
Not that something .. Not that the same thing will happen to you, but .. I was right in your situation. I was so sad that he was immature and didn't want me and that his crazy, fat, fat friend gave everything for me ... What happened? The fat and stupid boy did not leave me alone. They were not gifts, constant writing, going out ... Later I began to realize how childish and vulgar the boy I like is. On the other hand, the fat boy was thinking like an adult, he was making me laugh, I felt with him ... All this became clear to me when the fat boy pulled away from me and his friend began to show interest. Now? Now I'm sorry I didn't appreciate what I "had". Q. He started training with the Fat Boy and became a great tall dude with an athletic body that anyone can have, and I drive my gray daily life, suffering from time to time what it would have been. LOVE would be! .. In short, evaluate what you have, give a chance to the boy who likes you, you will not lose anything. :)
From the author: I have a good relationship with both. And I didn't say anyone was fat. They are both in good shape, but I did not specify it, because unlike other people I do not look good. I liked the boy for many different reasons. And I didn't say I wanted to fight with the guy who liked me, just to give him hints that I didn't show that kind of interest. :)
If G. continues to annoy you, carefully explain to him that you like or are in love with another boy, but you want to remain friends. A boy writes to me that he likes me and asks me why I don't feel the same way about him. It bothered me a lot! We study in different schools and he told everyone in his school that we were boyfriends and that we fought for him with another girl and I was very angry! Can anyone give me some advice on this? Please!
As for what we boys like in a girl, I will say how I like girls! I like a girl because she is beautiful, has a very nice smile, is good in character and is very beautiful in general! There are only lower grades, but I don't care, if we go she will fix them, because I will help her! this is from me!