Hello! My problem is that I am a great dentist and I have not said a word throughout the school year. I'm trying to study healthy, because it's been 2 years since I've been wearing a washed blouse and I want to get rich and have the opportunity to make one of my bears come true - to buy a suede blouse from Adidas. Now you will say that I am crazy, but you do not know how I live. At home we eat soup 3 times a week, and on other days an omelet. I even take saltines at school because it's weird, but my stomach is bloated and I've been on a 40-day diet and I'm on saltines. I can't please anyone. One of the guys is standing next to me, but he's constantly making me a blade. Even last week they put an apple in my mouth, which was brutal, everyone laughed at me. Nobody notices me, how can I stand out and be noticed, what can I do? Thanks for those who will advise me!
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If you don't behave, you will see how others will behave better with you.
If you tighten up in 10 years, all those who are now making fun of you will work for 8 hours.
Hello. You never mentioned how old you are ....
From the author - I am 15 years old. it's really awful. They even scold my legs for being hairy, and I try to be masculine.
Friend ... When you think about it, that's how it happens. Show that you don't care! Relax! Behave like a dude! And if you are still mocked, respond to them! PEOPLE ATTACK ONLY A DEFENSIVE VICTIM! HOLD ON TO THEIR LEVEL! AND THEY WILL NOT DARE TO TELL YOU ANYTHING!
Her more cheerful friend, he was a bison :) there is no such thing, you are just a smart and studious child. If in the schools there were more like you and less like the "dude" with the apple, things in Bulgaria. they would be different. In years to come, you will be rich and successful, and he will bite an apple or drown his troubles in alcohol. With a torn blouse or branded adidas, it doesn't matter in your heart and heart more than those who make fun of it. Study and success alone will come to you.
Author: You are right. Thank you very much for the advice! :)
I was lucky enough to find myself in a class where we always supported each other, no matter how we looked or behaved. Think about the fact that one day you will be more than them, because you have bravely aspired to your dream and I am sure that one day you will achieve it. Nowadays, people most often judge others by their appearance and do not try to see the real person under clothes and hairstyle. I hope that in time your class will change its attitude towards you, after all you are still children and in time you will become more tolerant of each other. Be yourself, but don't let them crush you! Have courage and self-confidence, because you are a person, just like them, communicate with them, try to socialize and you will see that everything will be fine. :)
As long as you fill the boy's head with nonsense! There is no such thing: after years that, after years that! Live in reality was, in time he will be more successful than them, but until then he will suffer every day and this will leave permanent injuries in him! Dude, I was like that (I'm a girl), in today's world you don't have to let others do it! Laugh at them too, answer them, blunt them - to see that you shouldn't be joking. If they have to hit them with a strong fist to shut up, otherwise they can't stop! This is the only way you choose or to be laughed at all your life, because as it is now, so it will be in the future at university and at work!
Next time, strike back.
When others make fun of me, it makes me ambitious to prove them wrong. Let these be steps to your success. When you find a good job in time you will be able to afford many things. You will shrink their style. Now focus on the subjects you like and achieve great success.
From the author: Yes, that's right, thank you. :) Well, they get along well with me, but I'm shy and don't communicate much with them. Sometimes I have the feeling that I am a girl in front of the other boys, but in time I will stand on a leash and watch them from above.
It's good to have ambition. But it is if you point out to them how one day you will look down on them that they will hate you. And remember to use self-irony. It definitely helps to break the ice. In fact, harassment causes harassment - now they treat you badly, but one day you will harass them. This is exactly the saddest thing. So don't think about how you will return it to them. Because the wheel will turn again.
Emmy, what are you breathing for, man? Be yourself. Listen here and there, see who likes what and get involved in various topics. Don't let them crush you, because this is an incentive for the "guys". About your sweater. Emmy now has second-hand clothes at every turn. The brand is not important, the style is important. For 5 leva you will be able to get 3 sweaters. Try to be clean and make a style. It doesn't matter how much money you're wearing. Start doing home fitness. Try to help your classmates during tests but do not allow them to use you. Rather, do it because you're a pecan.
Number 2 is absolutely right! :) Study and you will see how in a few years the fat mocker will work for you;)
I agree with № 15 especially for the controls if you help them ... I think they will love you pretty quickly and I wish you success !!!
The bad thing is that you are not the only one with these problems in almost every class there is a person with such problems which is terrible. I don't think you need to wash a lot for them and open up to them, just be yourself and someone will pay attention to you and make friends with you. A year ago I was like that, I know how it feels, but since I moved to a new teacher it's much better. Before everyone avoided me and made fun of me for all sorts of things, everyone made up gossip and spread it, even the few friends I had stabbed me, but fortunately I found new ones with which I feel very good and I really hope things are with you. to get better. I still want to meet you so if you have a desire ...
Thanks. Of course I have a desire to meet quite intelligent looking to me. :)