My story is a little delicate. My father died 2 years ago. He was born on September 18. This year, as always, I was very upset on this day and posted on social media something I don't know if it was right. I had written a status, Happy Birthday, Dad! Some people didn't know he was dead and congratulated me and now I feel stupid. Is it a mistake to wish a dead person a happy birthday? I haven't done anything wrong, but I feel terrible.
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So what's wrong? The Internet is everywhere - he may have read the card, but he can't answer you. Calm down. Someday (after a very long time) you will be together and thank you. Hopefully, because you may be in different places;)
There is nothing wrong or wrong. That's how you felt. He will always be alive in you
I don't think it's wrong, and so am I, but maybe just what makes you feel bad are the people who congratulated you without knowing they're no longer with you. But you really shouldn't feel bad, my dad died last year and his birthday was September. I was left alone in a room in our apartment and sang a happy birthday to him! The important thing is that you did not forget and remembered. ;)
It is not wrong unless you go to communicate with him, because then you will attract a demon of necromancy.
Oh, and I sent a message on my father's FB messenger: "Where are you, father? I miss you!" two years after he died ... I think it's normal sometimes :)
Our parents are eternally alive in our souls! The soul did not die, why not congratulate her life? There are church holidays that honor the eternal soul!
After publicly celebrating 181 years since Leveki's birth, given that everyone knows he died, I see no problem celebrating the birthday of your late father. The next time he noted that he had died so that he would not be greeted with "to be alive and healthy".
It's not wrong, but Facebook is Facebook - social. It is normal for some not to know that he has died and to congratulate him on his birthday. Do not explain to them in comments what happened. They will feel bad, you also become a kind of pot of grapes. For me, Facebook should not be a platform for many personal things and this is my opinion - when my father died I did not put a black ribbon on a photo, nor did I log in to Facebook. Then I deleted my Facebook and I won't do it anymore. But if I had: more personal things like a picture of my child, who died, how I feel - no. I believe in energies and I don't think that everything that happens to me goes into someone's work. If I have real friends, I will talk and tell them. From personal experience - the hounds retreat at such a time. What was my wonder when my supposed friends from university and where were they staying away from me at that very moment, it's like I have scabies. I wrote them all off in my life and these people will never be in it again. One thing is for sure: you will find out who your friend is right now.
There is nothing wrong with that, just add "rest in peace", "or we miss you, we will never forget you", "you will always live in our hearts" just something with which people understand that he is dead and not inappropriate comments. You feel bad, because people don't know and congratulate him, and he actually died, so add something that clearly makes it clear that he's dead. You can put his date of birth and date of death under the post. And at the moment, if the fact that there was a ridiculous confusion and congratulated him, add as a comment that he died, for all who do not know. If not for the future, mark this so that you do not feel bad, otherwise there is nothing wrong with congratulating him or writing when and what is in your heart. :)
There is nothing wrong you could just write - Happy Birthday Dad! Rest in peace...! You are always among us Bow!
Yes, it is very difficult to tell people what you do not want to be true. I had to, too, because some people were congratulating him on the wall, they didn't know, and someone had to tell them. I write to them personally. And sometimes really nice and comforting words come in response. You have the right to celebrate that your father was born, because if you weren't, you wouldn't be either.
Hello, 2, 7 years ago my husband left this world / suddenly /, in a month he had to turn 49 years old .... how, let's forget this date in the family ... there is no way, and then I decided for all of us from the family that on this day - we go out / quite deliberately, not to be at home / to a restaurant and celebrate his birthday ... and also on the date of our wedding anniversary ... why ,? well, if it weren't for these dates, there wouldn't be anything that connects us to them! No one and nothing can stop our love and affection for them, these are our stars in the sky!
There is nothing wrong, btw and my father has a birthday on 18. 09