Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl. In principle, I define myself as sexual. I didn't have a serious relationship because I didn't feel good when I started dating. As it turned out, I went out with boys and girls, and decent and intelligent people. But the moment things start to get serious, I lose interest. I don't feel well and I don't understand why. Somehow I can't give of myself and my time for this person who attracts me. Please tell me what my problem is. If I continue like this, I may not be able to start a family, and that is one of my goals in life. If anyone also has such a problem in relationships-please share.
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Girl, if you had bothered to read a little about the problems of others, not just write about your own, there was a boy just before you who asked exactly the same thing about his experience with women. There are probably other similar questions, because most women are like you. I will disappoint you if you think you have a unique problem. Read other topics as well ... No, the purpose of your life is not to have a family. That's what your parents told you, for example, but you don't really believe it. You don't even know what kind of person you want to have a family with. You do not know how to appreciate men, outside of their attitude towards you, which of course you know can (and often is) a lie. So when it gets serious, you're not sure what you want and you distance yourself. There are women who just play the movie, and as it came (and often shake their head afterwards). The others are as insecure as you, and for example get into relationships, not to be alone. With men who at least behave decently, but men who they really have never loved and will never love. Others are left to various "signs", fortune tellers, stars, whatever, to inspire them to be with the right person. The only extremely rare case is the woman who is guided by her mind and heart about who is the right man for her, with whom she will really spend her life. Today's society is always hinting that you should see a "great experience". But the experience of 100 bitten apples remains the experience of only bitten apples ... The only extremely rare case is the woman who is guided by her mind and heart about who is the right man for her, with whom she will really spend her life. Today's society is always hinting that you should see a "great experience". But the experience of 100 bitten apples remains the experience of only bitten apples ... The only extremely rare case is the woman who is guided by her mind and heart about who is the right man for her, with whom she will really spend her life. Today's society is always hinting that you should see a "great experience". But the experience of 100 bitten apples remains the experience of only bitten apples ...
You just don't like them. I'm the same, only at the age of 29. 10 years passed like that, I didn't create a serious relationship. A serious relationship is not like in the movies. If you're expecting butterflies in your stomach ... I personally like women. They know how to seduce, they have experience in bed. In Bulgaria, only a desperate loser can offer you a serious relationship. We have already reached this point. If a man is sexy, handsome, experienced in sex, smart, everyone sticks to him, he just wonders which one to turn with. Such men are an exception. The masses are full of mold, with small dicks, impotent, ugly, fat and congested. How to ask for a connection ....
Hi, This is a normal reaction of a person with a bonding problem. You can read a lot of literature and articles on the Internet. The idea is that you're probably suffering from some low self-esteem and you don't think this person will like you if things get worse between you. Well, I'm telling you, it's not. Just drive slowly. First be good acquaintances, then friends, then go on a date, then deepen your relationship as much as you want. Get to know each other smoothly and little by little, so that you are aware at each stage whether you are compatible. So you don't risk anything :) There will always be people you don't fit in with, but there are also people who will get into your shoes, see you and like you the way you are.
Well, make a distinction between relationships with people who, as you put it, "attract" you and relationships with people you are not only attracted to, but want to be with them in the long run and have a serious future. It sounds to me that so far you've only been attracted to people, which is fun, but not serious, and when it started to get serious, you lost interest. You may not have met someone you want to be with forever. I may be wrong, I supplement some things without writing them, I don't know.
Interesting comment number 1. I liked your conclusion.