Hello, I am 25, I will soon turn 26. A month ago I received an offer from my friend and my former colleague from the university where I graduated to try our luck at a brigade in Scotland. I reconsidered things and realized that my salary of 500, compared to the remuneration I will receive, does not suit me and I decided to activate things. Yes, but no, as I mentioned, I am 25 and I live with my mother. After I announced the decision, something clicked and ended. Constant scandals about how I went with a "foreign man" - that is, he is not my husband and I have no children from him, it was dangerous there, they would deceive me, there was no way to help me at 2500 km. I tried with conversations that I can't be with her forever and I have to try to somehow take my life in my hands, because it's a shame for me to be 25 and still live with her, not alone. But alas, no effect. Eventually there was a lull in the order of 2-3 days, then I found myself gathered in a room with the "whole family" to tease me how to get off the clouds and come to terms with what I have. Please, for any advice, I can no longer mentally withstand the stress
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Leave without further explanation. Scotland is a very nice country - there is nothing scary.
Go away! Save money and don't go back to your mother! Success!
If I'm not bad with my friend, you'll just live to get to know each other. I gave birth to my first child at the age of 26 already, you definitely have to separate from your mother, after a certain age cohabitation is difficult.
You pack your bags and leave. This is you and your life! And not the life of your aunt, your grandmother and the whole family! I can't understand that in Bulgaria. We are 20-30 years old, and they still think that with bans and chanting they can force us to live like them.
If I were you, I would just pack up and leave without further explanation. You are 25 - you notify, you do not want permission.
Listen only to yourself, you are neither 5 nor 15, but you are 25, now a woman! If they want to assemble the whole block, tell them that you decide for yourself and no one has the right to stick their nose in your affairs! Go away, you can't live on 500 - if you go there, you will be able to buy everything - a house, a car, and your mother does not encourage you, ie to stay with her! Tell her you don't depend on her anymore - whatever it was until 18, it was! There is no going back!
You made a BIG mistake that you waited for a man to appear in your life, so that you could think about separating from your mother! If you had separated earlier, you wouldn't need to post this topic at least now. Yes, go away.