Hi, my story may be similar to many others, but for each of us it seems like a personal drama. I want to share it with you and seek advice and courage to somehow cope with the problem. So: I had a relationship with a man 8 years younger than me, which lasted 7 years. I abandoned him because I was unhappy with him. He is very arrogant, has no friends and in a word lonely and quite naked psycho. Throughout our relationship I was like his mother, I always helped him, I was always with him and so for 7 years. I wanted to separate 2 years ago, but he makes great dramas and I felt sorry for him and returned to him. At the end of our relationship I had no strength anymore and again I put an end to it. He hasn't stopped terrorizing me since. He is waiting for me, roaring, screaming ... He changes his mood by swearing that he loves me, then he insults me with terrible words, threatens me, apologizes ... He says I ruined him and he would ruin me too. I do not know. I have another friend at the moment but he doesn't stop. He floods my phone with text messages. I feel at my limit. He doesn't understand that he has to accept things and stop. I'm afraid of him. I'm afraid to even complain to the police. His harassment has been going on for 4 months now and I don't know how to stop it. How would you do? Do I have the right to be happy or do I have to pay indefinitely?
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Honey, this "friend" of yours doesn't love you, nor does he like you. He does not deserve you. You said yourself he was a psycho. Drop it! He deliberately dramas you to make it harder for you to dump him. If he doesn't let you leave, just ask someone for help, either directly or in court. But dump him, 7 years younger than you ... Do you think he appreciates what you do for him? No!
Everyone deserves to be happy and I don't see the point in being subjected to such torture.
You don't tell the whole story ...
You've made a mistake, you're not telling the whole truth! Tell me about the money you owe him, or some other things. Tell about the sacrifices he made and then complain to the people. Tell everyone that you just used it and you drop it because it's hard for it to support you and pay off your loans. Mindil dolen will be waiting for you another time with a knife or gasoline.
I can't understand how some people can be so limited and brazen? Number 4- Mindil is the word I often hear from simple and limited people. There are far more interesting words to call someone. What money was a boy? Why do you think someone gave me money or whatever? Is that what they did to you? I'm sorry !!! Sincerely. So far no one has given or paid me anything. The man in question had no money, but that didn't matter. I am not an accountant and what I have done for him does not count. I don't care what he has to give me back because, as my mother says, I HAD-DALA. Not everything is money buddy. Don't behave this way with people you don't know. I just sought advice. And it is obviously not in the right place because complexes like you are a pain. If you have given something to someone it is because you wanted it. Bitter. Marry yourself and there will be no one to eat your money. And if I make you define almonds, I bet you have no idea what that means. Don't start searching on Google - it won't help you to be educated at the level you are. Come on, good health
My opinion is that this person is a stalker ... if the harassment continues and his persecution becomes more persistent (as I think it will happen), you should start gathering evidence that this person is interfering with your life and violating your privacy. Then you go to the police with the evidence and issue a restraining order.