Thank you for the comments, there is already another development of my story. I ask the moderators to publish it, because I need advice. After the past, other things have happened today. I was 10 minutes late and when I got home (8:10) the front door was locked, that is, I was locked outside. I called several times, waiting outside for nothing. Then Grandma showed up and finally opened it and started arguing with me. I didn't want to be late but it was raining and I didn't have an umbrella and I waited under one entrance for it to stop raining so that I wouldn't get wet and get sick. But apparently it's my fault that I'm thinking about self-preservation. I no longer know how I will live with him for another year, with each passing day it becomes harder and harder for me. Please give advice on how to act, how to make him better for me.
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Well, those 10 minutes are not a problem, but for your grandmother to argue with you - a little too much, it's better to talk in a calm tone. The question is how will you put up with your father for 1 year.
Dear girl, you can break up with this boy in months or years. You may love another boy. but your parents will always be with you. Your grandmother will always be your grandmother. It's not worth ruining your relationship with your parents because of a boy who may not be with you tomorrow. And outside there are drugs, pimps, murders - dangers that your parents are afraid of. Understand them too. They worry about your health and safety.
Of course your father loves you! There is simply no approach to you. You don't understand him, he doesn't understand you! I know how you feel and there may be times when you even think you hate him, but in fact it won't be! For what he tells you "nothing will come out of you" it hurts a lot, he doesn't think believe it, just some parents think that they encourage their child and give him an incentive to prove himself, but in fact it crushes your self-confidence and desire to do anything! My father was something like that, I would say much, much worse at one time, but I still love him, when you grow up he will behave differently with you and you with him, but unfortunately now he doesn't understand you and you don't understand him!
See what good advice we give, just listen to your grandmother and she is old - an old woman, just apologize and tell her that you did not want to be late when it rained and you wanted to get home on time. You were worried they would scold you.
Hello dear author. whatever you do, be careful and you will not quarrel. I am the person who commented on the previous story. under comments number 3 and 4 and there a comment under number 9 said that I am picky and it is not so, because he got confused under number 5 by making you a boy and you are a girl. I hope everything is fine and tell number 9 from the previous story not to be mean to me. Greetings -Miro