Could It Be That He Liked My Sister Or Am I Suggesting It?

   Take these pills, people ...

   There's no point. You better stay alone. Pathological jealousies have no future when it comes to healthy relationships. I have acquaintances, the woman in the relationship was so jealous of her boyfriend that she called him "baboeb" because he had slept in her head with his hairdresser, who is 60 years old. Get a cat, sign up for yoga and come to terms with yourself. Brother.

   I'm sorry to tell you, but in his place I would have lost you a long time ago, yours is a disease. Don't look for it, treat yourself, read books on the subject - when you feel good alone, then you will be fine with someone else. And one more thing - always put yourself in the place of the other - do not do things that will be unpleasant for you as well. I'm a woman, I recently inadvertently witnessed a scene of jealousy from a girl, I was horrified. Your problem is serious, act and succeed!

   Your first mistake is making scenes, especially about things you're not sure about. The only thing you achieve is to show low self-esteem, insecurity, etc. This is very repulsive. Even if you are not an exceptional woman, behaving with dignity and authority will help a lot in how people perceive you from the outside. In this way you humiliate yourself and show that you perceive the other (in this case your sister) as better than you. I know that it is very difficult to restrain yourself in such situations, it borders on the impossible, but the end result is not worth it. With this behavior you will ruin any relationship because you do not have a solid foundation on which to build it. The only thing you can do is watch impartially how they treat each other to make sure you're not ingrained. I believe you may be jealous, but you're not blind, and just because someone is your sister doesn't mean she won't be super rude. If you are 100% sure that there are any jokes, then get rid of it immediately. It's just outrageous - a family vacation, and he's staring at your own sister under your nose. Think what it is like when you're gone. You can even do an experiment - leave the two of them alone, if possible, to spend time together and see what happens. He who loves you will not rush to deal with another woman, regardless of the circumstances. At least you'll have the answer to the question that bothers you ... and without the hot scenes. You can even do an experiment - leave the two of them alone, if possible, to spend time together and see what happens. He who loves you will not rush to deal with another woman, regardless of the circumstances. At least you'll have the answer to the question that bothers you ... and without the hot scenes. You can even do an experiment - leave them alone, if possible, to spend time together and see what happens. He who loves you will not rush to deal with another woman, regardless of the circumstances. At least you'll have an answer to the question that bothers you ... and without the hot scenes.

   Well, you started with the main thing - YOU ARE VERY JEALOUS. Keep in mind that uncontrollable jealousy is a disease and harms both you and others. These are not just empty words. Fact. Work on your jealousy if you need to seek help from a psychologist, because you will kill all your relationships with her. The pictures in the jealous man's head are scary, and he believes himself to be so.

   That's exactly what I was going to write, number 1! Jack The Ripper

   If you feel something, then there is a reason. No one is jealous for no reason. In your place, I would remind my sister that she is a married woman and it is not right to flirt with other men, much less with her sister's boyfriend. If she is not happy with her husband, get a divorce and then look for another. And your friend, as soon as he gives in to dumps with another woman, you can conclude what kind of product he is. It is very clear that he will deny and will try to convince you that you are wrong. This is called gaslighting. This is how manipulators work.

   I don't know how to express myself so as not to offend you with something. Good thing my wife isn't like you. My wife has a younger sister, they are 2 years apart. There were periods when I lived with them - me, my wife and her sister. Her sister and I get along very well. There was a time when my wife's sister and I were colleagues in a company. On lunch breaks we ate together in a cafe. My wife doesn't drink any alcohol, but her sister drinks as well as I do. We often sit and drink a mug of beer after work, but my wife has never been jealous of her own sister. The fact that you understand and smile with your brother-in-law does not make you her lover. It even seems unacceptable to me to have such paranoid thoughts. I sympathize with your friend.

   Every man's dream is to lick his hair. In many cases, he gets the thrill and is amazing. And the situation itself is such that both parties are interested in keeping a complete secret, so often nothing is understood. I anointed my sister, but for a number of reasons we no longer do it. So no one understood about these years. So give him some freedom of yours, let him rest and relax with your sister, in the end it's just sex and nothing more.Why don't you think? The sea is the perfect place for this.

   did the man a favor and let him find a normal wife. Jealousy for no reason is a disease caused by low self-esteem and complexes. You write yourself that your parents pay more attention to your sister because of her problems and you feel invaluable and in the shadows. Talk to them, explain to them how you feel. You have allowed this feeling to cloud your sanity and burden your partner with problems that are not his at all and have nothing to do with him. Sorry, grabbing things like who looked how, who said what is not serious. If not now, next time you will cling to some other detail that a normal person will not even notice. Leave the person and work on yourself, so you will have a chance for a normal relationship

   The law states: He who has a baldness is ** two gu * a. And Badzhanaka and I love each other so much that when we sit on brandy, we drive until we forget. Then everyone goes to bed where a sister cooks. There is no jealousy, no scandals, everything is love - between me and the badjanaka. Now seriously - you're very bad, honestly. It can be jealousy, but that's it ... You poison his life, yours and that of your loved ones. If you only knew how good it is to live without jealousy. In general, I don't care who my wife longs for, or who looks at her.

   Hello, I want to thank everyone. I no longer care who looks at whom and in what way. As for my friend, I want to say that I saved some details because it would be long to write and confusing. I haven't looked for him since he told me he dumped me, he's been texting or calling me. I act like it's nothing and I think I keep going. I decided to develop and invest in myself, not to poison my life with nonsense. Some of you have spoken quite sharply, but nothing I accept criticism. You told me to let him find a normal woman. I think I came to him more because he was never loved that way. I'm sure that if he finds a gram that doesn't make him jealous, he'll remember me. Or when there is a hard day and there is no one to listen to him. Or when she runs out of money and the normal one doesn't have any. If my only shortcoming is jealousy and he gets more, let him leave. I accepted him with all his shortcomings, but he could not. I see that most of you are above things and would leave. So your love is false and your love.

   It is a misconception that if a person is not jealous, then he does not love. Jealousy can ruin everything good in a relationship. I say this as experiencing suffocating, causeless jealousy in my last relationship

   The author, hello! It's a sad story! Allow me to be honest and straightforward. As a woman to a woman, I say to you: - You are a stupid pussy! Don't take offense, try to think. Realize that there is no eternal faithfulness in this world. Many of the comments are correct. Love and sex are two different things. They go hand in hand for a while. The more relaxed the partners, the longer it lasts. Love is a complex of friendship, respect, trust, feelings and sex. But sex itself is the result of chemical processes in our body. Everything else is utopia and fabrications. When two people hold on to each other, they also leave personal space for their partner. Jealousy is a serious mental illness! It is an attempt to take away the partner's personal space and make it our property. I got married at 18, by coincidence a year after I gave birth to our son. My husband is quite intelligent, funny, a good lover, in touch and very attentive to me. Our difference is seven years. His family is great! My father-in-law is a man with a class, the mother-in-law is really a lady and his two sisters, beauties, he also shook handsome. My family is very modern. Quite liberal, without hesitation. My father is a dude from everywhere, and my mother ... - I have witnessed how they stopped her and offered what not only to have her. I have a brother a year older and a sister a year younger. As soon as I got married, we moved into a new house, big with a horse to do. The child was already 10 months old. I needed help not so much as company. My husband worked as a young lawyer in an office, sometimes having to travel to Luxembourg, The Hague or Strasbourg. So I invited my sister to stay with us. One day we were all at home, my husband just came out of the way and went into the bathroom. At one point he called me for something, but just then I was breastfeeding. I mechanically asked my sister to see what she wanted. After about 15 minutes he appeared. I asked her what my husband was shouting about. You wanted the towel that was in our bedroom. I was impressed by her voice, I thought she was shaking. I looked at her, there were red spots around her neck and down her chest. A sign that she is very excited. I didn't think what the reason might be. When my husband appeared in a robe, he said, "Your sister seems to have seen me naked." "How did he see you naked?" I reacted quite sharply and even rudely. I would jump up and slap him, as if it was his fault. He looked at me in surprise and said defensively, "Excuse me, but she knocked, I thought it was you, and I opened the door." Then I saw her. I realized my mistake, but I was furious. Memories of jokes and insinuations began to form in my head. I decided that my sister wanted him and he gave her reasons and stimulated her desire. I was going to kill him, such a thought came to me. That same evening we sat down to dinner. He sat at the table, as usual, on the narrow side and the two of us around him. I dropped my knife on the floor and bent down to pick it up. Until I saw him, my sister caught my eye. She was without underwear and her sex was visible. I was furious, I looked at my husband, mama mia! And he in a robe naked. I jumped out from under the table ready for a scandal. But the two of them grazed on their plates quite innocently and carelessly. I was silent, but it was eating me from the inside. So a few months passed. I became irritable, attacking them for nothing. The situation heated up. One day my father came to us alone. He had gone fishing, brought a big stingray and a turbo. The turbo is a demersal fish similar to turbot. Sit in the armchair. It was very hot above 36 C. it showed the thermometer under the roof. He was wearing a shirt, unbuttoned and shorts. I've always fallen for him. Although I did not accept it as a sex object, I was subconsciously ready to give myself to it. He realized that something was wrong with me and asked me carefully. I tried to show off, but there are no such things in front of him. We called and he made me sit next to him, put his arm around my shoulder and said: - Tell me what's up! Is something wrong with your husband? Has he stopped loving you, is he paying you the attention you need? Often after giving birth, some women lose the attention of their husbands and become uninteresting to them. - No! No, Dad! Everything is fine with him. I think my sister likes it. When he heard me, he started laughing and said: - Was that it? For a while, I almost made a mistake. Your mother and uncle flirted quite openly. But I realized that if I chased them, it would get worse and I would probably push your mother away. - And how did you solve the problem? I asked. - Like older people, modern. I realized that if she wanted to, she would. There were never any secrets between us and I decided to talk to her. And so it happened, albeit at the wrong time. But it was good. I still didn't understand what they had done, and I continued with my questions, to which he replied, "We were in bed ... and she said how much she loved doing it." Then I added with my brother? Don't be embarrassed. I even think it stimulated my question and said, "Why not?" You are almost the same in demeanor and way of thinking. In appearance, almost, I just don't know if they are the same, squeezing my thing. I was going to fall out of bed. But to my surprise, I didn't get annoyed, it was as if I was more aroused. And other times we chatted various fantasies and the like, but not addressed to relatives. As unpleasant as it sounds to you, I said that if he wanted it, we could invite him. He was sleeping in the next room. And then she said, "Are you going to make that gesture?" I'm curious to see. And why not? They say it was nice. I listened to my father and realized that freedom can lead to positive results. I wanted to learn the sequel, but I was embarrassed to ask, and then I said, "Do you think if I do that, everything will be fine?" Did that happen to you and your mother? There was some silence, but I expected an answer. And I asked him, "What if he had wished for her sister?" - No problem. Dad replied. Apparently things had happened. I remembered that once when I was very young I saw my father, mother and aunt in the sauna naked. They both giggled loudly. But I was still looking for something and I said, "Imagine hypothetically that I'm acting like you." And he catches fucking her (I missed the last word)? - And what? It will not leave him without a toy. And I am convinced that he himself will become much more loving and loving with you. He is intelligent enough and knows what he is doing. As for your sister, I think her strong desire will pass immediately. There's something else, maybe I shouldn't tell you. For him, this is an incentive. I listened and imagined my husband lifting my sister's legs on his shoulders and loving her. I blazed at the thought, felt a heat wave pass through me, excitement swept over me, and I shook without realizing that it was my father: - Oh! Listening to you, I got excited. I like it. Wow! Horror! Only now did I realize what I had said. I tried not to look at him and as he hugged me I curled up in him. I was dying of shame! And he kissed me on the head and said: - This is not a problem, darling! What time is it, wait for me to call your mother. I went crazy. I didn't know what I was doing. I heard him talk to Mom. "Ruth, I'm with the baby." There is a small problem, we will stay to iron it. Yes, yes! Something like that. We talked, she even got aroused ... I don't know, it depends on her. Yes, I promise, I will be kind! God, what a conversation. I learned something new about my parents and asked him, "What does Mom say?" You talk quite openly. "He told me to stay here until you calmed down." To do whatever it takes, to be kind and gentle to you. What do you think? When he comes home. I need a shower, will you come with me? My head was completely blown away. I wasn't sure if I understood him correctly, but I said, "He'll be home on Friday, but my sister, I don't know. "Don't worry about her, your mother said she would keep her." After his words, I was completely, completely stupid and no longer understood anything. As I shook my head, Dad took off his shorts and underwear, carefully placed his shirt on the back of the armchair, looked at me expectantly. I was God knows where, I took off my dress and took it to the bathtub. It was only there that I realized what I was doing. At the sight of him and that miracle, promising something wonderful, I did not think to refuse. Something happened that I felt unconscious until now. The next day my sister came home. It was as if nothing had happened, as if she had gone to the store and gone home. Everything was the same with her until Friday. But the next day I found a job and asked my sister to stay with the child, and I jumped to ours. Unfortunately, my father was not there, only my mother was at home. He was glad to see me, He hugged me and asked, "Calmed down?" How did it go yesterday, did you like it, are you satisfied? I shared various things with her, but today I felt closer to my father. I didn't know exactly what to say. However, I settled on the truth and told everything in detail. He listened to me carefully and when I finished he said: - You did the right thing! Your father is the most masculine boy I know! I slept with his brother, I slept with my brother, but for me he and your grandfather are the real men! For years, I've wondered what connects mom and dad so strongly and how I've never heard them raise their voice with dad or irritate them. I already know today! The years go by, my husband and I love each other and we live wonderfully. But I would ruin everything just out of stupid jealousy. I am happy that I took matters into my own hands in time, for which I thank my father and mother first! You darling, don't be angry with him. If you respect yourself and stick to your love, just let them fuck and that's it. Otherwise you're out of the game. Whoever is in his place will catch his way as soon as he feels you.