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By martina__extrahot July 14, 2020 7 answers Last updated July 14, 2020

Hello! I am an 18-year-old boy. I want to share something with you and ask you for advice. The ball is in a few months. The problem is, I don't have a lady. All summer I gathered the courage to ask the girl I liked if she would become my prom lady. I decided to do it. Of course, I wanted it to be something special and I bought her a rose, candy, and a card with the question about the ball in it. While she was out of her classroom, I went and put my things in her bag. The next day she asked me if we could talk. We talked, but she said she had a boyfriend. I was heartbroken and sad. Now, a month later, I'm sorry because I had to go out with her first to talk, not ask her about the prom right away.

 

I don't know if she lied to me, but yes ... I still love her. Before that happened, she and I had exchanged maybe 4-5 words for the five years together. I want to be with her and be happy together, but I don't want to bother her and force her to be with me. I didn't have a boyfriend, and she only had one. I was cut off by another girl before I asked the girl I liked. Now I'm wondering if I should invite another girl from the class of the girl I like. What if she cuts me? Everyone is almost busy. Does it make sense to go to the ball? Thanks for your attention! Have a nice day! Good night!

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123comedancewithme answered · July 14, 2020
Brother, you think a lot! And if you fail at something, it's a sign that you're at least trying! The rest happens with time and repetitions, to perfection. It's like that with everything .. This with flowers and roses I think is a little too much. In American movies, they do, but in reality, not quite. Try to change the approach forward. And don't put them on a pedestal. (that they are something who knows what) I would advise you to put yourself in situations with girls as often as possible in order to get used to the dynamics. Over time, things will get easier. BUT the most important thing is to have fun at all times!
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schwaermer1 answered · July 14, 2020
And why does it have to be from your school? My boyfriend at the ball was a friend of mine who is 10 years older than me. I just told him that I didn't have a gentleman and if he could come and he would come. Invite a friend, cousin, neighbor.
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shylaura21 answered · July 14, 2020
Don't you live in the fairytale world of Disney, dude? Tighten up a bit. You don't need a lady to go to the ball. Go, drink, have fun, relax. If you are in the mood - invite a chick to dance. If not - no. There is no drama.
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katykat018 answered · July 14, 2020
t's a ball ... a big leek, haha. My prom was 7-8 years ago and half the class we didn't have a prom lady. As the years go by and you go back, you will see what nonsense you were worried about and angry about. Go to the ball, have fun, take pictures there for memories with classmates and that's it. It all ends in one night and then life grabs you with full hands.
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pkt4444 answered · July 14, 2020
If you have a sister you can go with her. If you have a cousin, you can go with her again. But you don't have to have a lady at the ball. You can go without a lady. You will be with your class anyway.
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yaonlydieonc answered · July 15, 2020
I honestly can't figure out what kind of leek this lady is for you. And to the girls, what are these gentlemen for? At the ball you first gather, shout, take pictures, then enter the restaurant, dance, drink, take pictures as a souvenir, then a disco and so smear yourself that in the end better without such commitments. What is this lady or gentleman for you, to engage with them all night? And what are you going to talk to a half-acquaintance? Or do you want to keep her purse while she makes her party? This is your last night with the class, not a family gathering in pairs.
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nannylosh answered · July 15, 2020
I didn't have a lady at the ball either, even then I didn't have a boyfriend. My prom was 7 years ago And to this day I don't have a boyfriend - that's cool. I'm 26 and I know it's cool to be alone
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