Hello. A new colleague recently joined the service. We knew each other before he started working here. The blonde, blue-eyed, looks like a Barbie doll. I really enjoy it and I think about it quite often. During the holidays I hope to go out to see her again, as we are in different departments. The problem is that she recently got engaged to a mold that is not for her at all. He is a complete irregular, a gambler, a robber and a hooligan. He goes to strangers and cheats on her often. But she doesn't deserve a gram. For now, we have a good relationship with her and I am afraid that if I start showing what is in my head, she may withdraw. Do pigs always eat good apples?
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Dude is not the person you have to curse, curse her because she chose him. You can obviously see the taste of these Barbie princesses. Find someone else was a man.
Off ... enough with these topics.
Always. This is not a written rule, but it does not mean that you do not try anyway and do not lose anything
Why do you think it's a nice apple? Such dolls are usually superficial, shallow-minded, silly squirrels. Unless you're a dumb aggressive macho yourself, you don't have to push.
The author: Number 5, that's why I opened the topic, because the girl is nice, intelligent, polite. She is not spoiled. He has been working for the company for about a year now and we talk often. She is ambitious and strict. Abe is generally a serious girl.
Abe, why do you give ratings for relationships between people? !! He was a mold, he was an irregular, he didn't deserve it ... Because you - such a nobleman taken out of Victorian novels - are endowed with such qualities that if you look at someone in the décolleté, she should immediately faint with delight! Well, drink some cold water and accept it: you don't like it, girl! It is their job to like the "gambler", whether they cheat, fight and fight. Before I got married, what did I not hear about my future husband: he was simple, he was a peasant, he was poor, how is he divorced, why does he have a child ... Yes, I said, thank you for the advice and I ordered my wedding dress . For a number of years now, we have been living happily. But these "tips" were from grandmothers and aunts, ie relatives. I can't imagine the impudence of this colleague of mine giving me a mindset on how to organize my personal life and comment on my husband at all. I don't want to offend you, but look away. Tomorrow you will be engaged to such a "sweet, sweet and blonde", and some crooked accounting matron who falls for you will post a topic here: "But I would cook him such a nice casserole, and he - such and "An empty-headed girl admired her." If you had a relationship with your colleague, and if she had acted dishonestly, I would understand your resentment. However, what audacity do you have expectations of a woman who has made her choice? In my opinion, her choice is the right one! Because to launch a topic through which to give an opportunity to publicly comment on the behavior of a lady with qualifications such as "superficial, shallow, stupid ligature",
You like it, you don't like it, this is her life! You are not the person to tell her with whom and how to live. The woman has a relationship and so much more. He resigned himself and turned to an unattached woman.
I'm a woman and I'm also blond, blue-eyed and I find it funny when I read the comments. Why should blonde women always be dumb and muffined? Many of us are naturally blond and without lenses, but even blushing and with lenses, I don't know what the logic of the thinkers is. There's a joke that blonde jokes were made up by some ugly brunettes. To the question - I am also engaged to a man who, according to others, is incompetent and even ugly. Their comments make me sick. The truth is that this is a very good person and we know why we are together and no one cares. It is unpleasant for a man when he is jealous. The opponent, so to speak, is still incompetent. Either fight or give up. But the dumbest thing you can do is blow the horn on how incompetent her boyfriend is, I say from experience. If she is a real gambler and your feelings are strong, wait for her to disappoint herself.
Act before she gets married. What are you losing ... Nothing. Women do not like cowards.
I never mentioned that my colleague is a shallow-minded bastard. I have not trumpeted left and right that her fiancé is a gambler, a loser and a jerk. I didn't even hint that I had any intentions for both of us, because I realize that she made her choice. Besides, I haven't slandered anyone, at least not my colleague, about her fiancé. I have no intention of interfering in anyone's life. I just decided to share what is happening around me on this site, which I visit and write topics for a long time. Lately, I'm becoming more and more convinced that this place is filled with "professors", omniscients, or just haters, who, for reasons unknown to me, always manage to misunderstand or distort everything they come across. Like number 7, for example. Excuse me, but rereading everything, I could not find out where I gave grades and to whom I imposed my opinion. Everything I have written are my impressions, which I share here anonymously.
Are you going to work or looking?