Hello! I'm a girl in fifth grade, I'm generally cheerful and cheerful, but lately I can't smile for even a second. I live in an apartment building and I go out every day to play with the other children. But in the last few days we have been surrounded by two girls in grades 7-8. When there are parents near us, they treat us great, but when we are left alone, they start to irritate me. For example, the other day I was standing and waiting for a friend of mine to come and they came to me and asked me if I was carrying a phone, then I said I was carrying one and without asking me they took it out of my bag and started playing with it. I asked them to give it back to me and they said they would count to ten and if I didn't go to the store to buy them something (I don't remember exactly what) they would throw my phone on the stairs. Naturally, I went and they returned my phone. Another incident was when they invited me to the pool with them. I agreed and went but did not know what awaited me. While I was in the water, they threw my towel in a ball of dirty water and lied that the wind had blown it. Then, while we were in the water, they agreed and grabbed my legs and drowned me for a while. I wanted to leave but they told me that they had one condition to buy them french fries and sprats from the beach bar. I agreed and gave myself all the money for them. But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP I agreed and went but did not know what awaited me. While I was in the water, they threw my towel in a ball of dirty water and lied that the wind had blown it. Then, while we were in the water, they agreed and grabbed my legs and drowned me for a while. I wanted to leave but they told me that they had one condition to buy them french fries and sprats from the beach bar. I agreed and gave myself all the money for them. But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP I agreed and went but did not know what awaited me. While I was in the water, they threw my towel in a ball of dirty water and lied that the wind had blown it. Then, while we were in the water, they agreed and grabbed my legs and drowned me for a while. I wanted to leave but they told me that they had one condition to buy them french fries and sprats from the beach bar. I agreed and gave myself all the money for them. But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP Then, while we were in the water, they agreed and grabbed my legs and drowned me for a while. I wanted to leave but they told me that they had one condition to buy them french fries and sprats from the beach bar. I agreed and gave myself all the money for them. But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP Then, while we were in the water, they agreed and grabbed my legs and drowned me for a while. I wanted to leave but they told me that they had one condition to buy them french fries and sprats from the beach bar. I agreed and gave myself all the money for them. But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP But that's not all, when we came back they called two boys who also started to annoy me and one of them even pushed me off the bench and didn't care how much it hurt. There are other bad moments but I will not say them. So how do you think I can do to stop being harassed. Please HELP
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Well, it's easy. Don't communicate with them, distance yourself from them and after they invite you, just don't go with them. Why did you go to the beach with them after they were harassing you?
Find someone to bruise them nicely
Since you know what they are, why did you agree to go to the pool with them? It was clear that they had invited you just to have fun on your back, not because they liked you. So, in order not to have more trouble with them, stop going anywhere with them, and if you meet them by chance somewhere, you pretend not to notice them, and if they start to irritate you, talk nonsense to you, and so on. n. pretend you haven't heard them. They rely on you to get angry and react to them, and the more you show them that they are angry, the happier they are. So show them you don't care! When they pass you, behave as if there is no one, as they speak in silence and they will quickly get tired and leave you alone. However, while you go out with them and do what they tell you, they will have fun at your expense and will just wonder what new and new nonsense to invent. " Kill the simpleton in silence! "People said and they were right. You muffins don't deserve your attention and just show it to them in the most demonstrative way with complete ignorance. When they start calling you and telling you nonsense, at most you mutter one thing" Uh ... did you say something "Believe me, this will infuriate them, but the safest thing is to just act like you're walking along a wall. Believe me, it works! You'll just see them turn green with anger that they failed to make you angry! However, once So, the second time, the third one will get bored and find another victim. Good luck! to make you angry, but a gram). These muffins do not deserve your attention and just show them the most demonstratively with complete ignorance. When they start yelling at you and telling you nonsense, at most you mutter a "Uh ... did you say something?" Believe me, this will infuriate them, but the safest thing is to just act like you're walking along a wall. Believe me, it works! You will see them turning green with anger that they failed to make you angry! However, once this way, the second time, the third time they will get bored and find another victim. Success! And the calmer you are, the better (internally you can get angry, but externally don't show anything, the idea is to believe that they can't make you angry, but gram). You muffins do not deserve your attention and just show it to them in the most demonstrative way with complete ignorance. When they start yelling at you and talking nonsense to you, at most you mutter a "Uh ... did you say something?" Believe me, this will infuriate them, but the safest thing is to just act like you're walking along a wall. Believe me, it works! You will see them turning green with anger that they failed to make you angry! However, once this way, the second time, the third time they will get bored and find another victim. Success! And the calmer you are, the better (internally you can get angry, but externally don't show anything, the idea is to believe that they can't make you angry, but gram). but the safest thing is to just act like you're walking along a wall. Believe me, it works! You will see them turning green with anger that they failed to make you angry! However, once this way, the second time, the third time they will get bored and find another victim. Success! And the calmer you are, the better (internally you can get angry, but externally don't show anything, the idea is to believe that they can't make you angry, but gram). but the safest thing is to just act like you're walking along a wall. Believe me, it works! You will see them turning green with anger that they failed to make you angry! However, once this way, the second time, the third time they will get bored and find another victim. Success! And the calmer you are, the better (internally you can get angry, but externally don't show anything, the idea is to believe that they can't make you angry, but gram).
Well, I don't understand what it's like to go out with these girls and stay in their company, even though they use and humiliate you. Have a little dignity and put an end to that. They test your limits - they will go as far as you allow them.
Tell your parents.
Wow man, how did you catch the bait of these pathetic users? !! Don't you see that they take advantage of your kindness! And on top of everything, they made you spend money for their benefit ... horror! Don't deal with them. I say it from experience! Walk away from them, don't look at them. If they talk to them, tell them you're in a hurry and don't have time to talk. Keep your belongings close to you. Don't give them anything and lie to them. Do not walk on the streets where you think you are likely to meet them. I hope these tips help you. Success!
Why, when they annoyed you and almost threw your phone up the stairs, did you agree to go to the pool with them? !? At the same time, they threw your towel in a puddle and tried to drown you. And you spend your money on them ... I don't understand you, do you want to be on friendly terms? This cannot happen after they are harassing. Tell your parents or friends, etc. But the point is not to deal with them anymore! Next time they will invite you elsewhere, and only you, but they will also bring their friends and make you pay their bill! My advice is to tell an adult and not deal with them anymore
Krav Maga and no one will tease you.
For starters, learn to say no ... and be sure to tell your parents !!
Dear child, tell your parents about these events immediately! I have met similar aggressors and it is best to get away from them forever! Be careful not to come across them at all and do not serve them! Don't go anywhere with them, never attach yourself to their minds again. They are extremely aggressive and do not realize what they are doing and what they are doing to you. And this with drowning, I have no words. From a "toy" will become a cry and a serious one. And you must not suffer because of the stupidity of these freaks. Their upbringing is zero. As they are, so are their parents. Tell your parents what is happening to you and tell them to accompany you if they can while you are out. If not, stop going out for a while until they stop dealing with you! Or at least go out where you won't meet them.
Do everything possible to distance yourself from them - find new friends, do not pay attention to them, stop being their slave. They see that you are smaller and timid, they know how to scare you, and so they want different things. Just get out of this environment as soon as possible.
Tell your parents it's best to make a note of these pickles or talk to theirs. I know you're already in a delicate age, you probably don't want to interfere, but it won't happen otherwise. And other times avoid them as much as possible, in no case do not attach themselves to them if they make you do something.