At my prom, my friend danced with another. At first reading there is no problem, right? However, the dance is challenging. Because I saw the video and everything became clear. He may May, I understand now, December, and without wanting to. 1. He lied to me. And so on, it is very clear how he looks at her everywhere, touches / stains her everywhere, rubs her ass, you remember where. They pull on his tie, she took it, and so on. Passion was generally flying. I accept it as first the lie, secondly the infidelity. Am I right? Yes, it's not bad that they danced, but that's too much in my opinion. Should I accept it as a normal mistake and if I repeat it I will end ...? P.P. we have been walking for a year, so far there has been nothing but staring.
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She's a human being, what so much.
Dea technologies dea. ; (((At one time you could easily get drunk and kill someone else without the danger of being recorded by a voyeur and then making you dirty; ((Nothing happened - calm down. Otherwise he would have been with her!
First, who is this man who dances ... There is no second. Good day.
I'm just wondering at you women - how do you like such women? There is a saying - "Nice apples pigs eat them!"
If you think this is infidelity, you better not deal with men! You will drive them crazy!
4, and are there any others? You are all the same, only one is beautiful or rich, or both, and the other is ordinary or ugly or poor, so they don't succeed.
Number 2, then for our mothers, your women were treated the same, even more so as now, only where they do not brag. : DDD
One hundred percent of all comments so far are from men. Let me ask you then, if your girlfriend paints her like that, will you think it's normal again?
(5) Why was it? You're tired of your boyfriend (her) taking selfies of kissing someone on the cheek and they cut you off;) Otherwise, you block, you don't pick up the phone, they send you text messages "but what happened so you don't want me" so you need to look for a reason ... grief;)))
The moment you saw the video, you had to end it. How can you even think? I bet he didn't fuck her just because she wasn't curled up enough. Start respecting yourself. Drop it today.
I personally would make a normal scandal, I will not be hypocritical, to pretend that there is nothing. I would ask for a normal explanation face to face, as his serious partner. Why to accumulate anger and doubts in yourself, to create some kind of complex, when the act (mistake) is his? After explaining it to you properly, forgive him and do not tease him. In general, it is important whether you have managed to build trust in each other so far and whether he has proved his 'loyalty and love' to you with actions, the other is irrelevant. ^ The Little Donut
I'm a man and when I think about it, I wouldn't be happy to see my girlfriend dancing erotically with another man and touching him even more. So I understand you. I would attribute it to context, alcohol and emotions. If this girl started to press on him but he stands like a stump, his friends would consider him the opposite. And yet, if, for example, my friend does it, I will have one thing in mind, and if I see that she does such things again and that her eyes are very colorful, I will already think about a change.
They are. It's as if you didn't want someone else to grab you by the ass. Nonsense only.
I read and I can't believe my eyes! Let the boy find a normal girlfriend!
Unpleasant situation. I don't see much difference between dancing erotically with another girl and hiding it from you, and sleeping with her. If it was a dance as much as for fun ... but as you describe it, it sounds like he wants it sexually and through the dances he sublimates his desire. At the same time we are human - under the influence of alcohol anyone can do something stupid. I would advise you to look at the big picture - was this a one-time situation or does it happen often in one form or another? Does he give you reason to doubt him, is he looking for another female company? A long time ago I posted a topic, where is the limit of infidelity. See here: http://spodeli.net/4/story-112423.html I was countered that although I did not sleep with the boy in question, what happened between me and my ex is still infidelity. My boyfriend and I later broke up, although for other reasons. I did not accept my own act then as infidelity, because it was really a one-time thing that never happened again, neither with this nor with another. Just a bad combination of predisposing circumstances (music, alcohol, party) and relaxed morals. I have not cheated before or since. But now if it happens to me and I'm on the other side, I'll probably consider it infidelity. Double standard, what to do ... However, I advise you to analyze his behavior in general and see if there are any tendencies to break. If yes - break. nor have I cheated after that. But now if it happens to me and I'm on the other side, I'll probably consider it infidelity. Double standard, what to do ... However, I advise you to analyze his behavior in general and see if there are any tendencies to break. If yes - break. nor have I cheated after that. But now if it happens to me and I'm on the other side, I'll probably consider it infidelity. Double standard, what to do ... However, I advise you to analyze his behavior in general and see if there are any tendencies to break. If yes - break.
Too much alcohol is the situation, if we have to tell the truth. Of course, you judge for yourself how big a mistake this is and whether the unfortunate deserves mercy. Haha :)
I remembered a song by Oleg Gazmanov "Dance while you're young" - dance while you're young;) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fLF74jpYMaA There are also for women - "Dance while young";) https: //www.youtube.com/watch?v=2SNHQNFXUq4 Draw your own conclusions;)))
If it's the first time, give it another chance, and it's a ball after all. You know how it is, at the ball everyone relaxes, sometimes drinks more and behaves quite relaxed. However, if you catch it one more time, just break it.
Author, I wouldn't call you crazy just because you're small (we're talking about proms here). The dance is not to get drunk on the table and turn your ass. Nor is it to step against each other like stumbling horses a foot away. Dance is a role-playing game, an art. Have you seen real tango? This is the most passionate dance and the two partners in it practically depict love, jealousy, attraction, repulsion. The crowning act of my wedding was an Argentine tango that my best friend and I danced. We had rehearsed for a month for this performance, we even took a few lessons at a dance school. However, we caused a terrible furor. My husband was in seventh heaven because I announced the dance as my gift to him. The idea was that tango should be the dance of the bride and groom, but my husband was very worried about the idea and said, that on the dance floor he is like an elephant and absolutely can not cope with such pirouettes. I said "okay, there will be no tango" and started preparing the surprise. I suspect, author, that for you, my husband's normal behavior in such a situation would be to grab the knife from the table and pounce on the "opponent." So I assumed something was wrong in your head. Poor boy, he has to impose self-censorship even on his entertainment at the ball. You will ban his beer tomorrow. Other day - meetings with colleagues. Then - to greet the neighbors at the entrance. Finally, you will get the ideal man - a full social stump. Congratulations! that for you, my husband's normal behavior in such a situation would be to grab the knife from the table and pounce on the "opponent." So I assumed something was wrong in your head. Poor boy, he has to impose self-censorship even on his entertainment at the ball. You will ban his beer tomorrow. Other day - meetings with colleagues. Then - to greet the neighbors at the entrance. Finally, you will get the ideal man - a full social stump. Congratulations! that for you, my husband's normal behavior in such a situation would be to grab the knife from the table and pounce on the "opponent." So I assumed something was wrong in your head. Poor boy, he has to impose self-censorship even on his entertainment at the ball. You will ban his beer tomorrow. Other day - meetings with colleagues. Then - to greet the neighbors at the entrance. Finally, you will get the ideal man - a full social stump. Congratulations!
Ah, a normal mistake. He's a womanizer, you'll just wonder what he's doing when you're gone.
Number 8, thanks for understanding. Thanks to everyone else for the good meaningful advice too. This is exactly what I think and try to do. We talked, I saw that he was sorry. If it happens again, I will end it. I hope this is the right choice.
I support number 11. But if it was possible for your friend to take you to the ball and not do it and then behave like that, that would be too much in my opinion. In the case described, if I were you, I would forgive when he really realizes how disappointed I am and after the conversation or later it becomes clear that he is sorry. I hope there are no more such cracks.
Number 11. The music was pure chalga. I don't limit him to anything and we've agreed if he's okay with telling me something. The problem is that there is a desire for her in his eyes. The way you touch and the places help. I think it's more "infidelity." Number 15. It was obvious he wasn't drunk. In principle, he had called me and the video showed him going out after the dance. I found out on the phone that he wasn't drunk. This is the first time this has happened. He didn't give me other reasons for such thoughts or anything like that. If I find out anything else of this sort, I'll end it. thank you for understanding