I recently wrote my friend's mail on Google to see what would happen and it turned out that there are a lot of registrations for dating. Like aha, caramel, cutie and stuff like that and I was very sad. I registered in aha to see when he was last active, and it was very recently a few days ago. And about 30 people must have written to me. I don't want him to write to anyone. And all these men offer me sex. I don't want him to do it either. I know he writes to girls on Facebook, but that's too much. Most of his photos there are naked and that worries me. What to do? I told him that I was not fascinated by his registrations and asked him to delete them because he refused to do something wrong there. He told me that this was nonsense and that he would do whatever he wanted, otherwise he forbade me to write to other boys! I'm 19 years old, and he is 23 and we have been together for 1 year. We've been arguing a lot lately, and I'm afraid of infidelity in a fit of rage. It happened to his ex-girlfriend, he cheated on her because she deserved it. I'm quite sensitive and easily hurt and sometimes I really overdo it, but at the moment I have a lot of problems that don't work well for me. I'm afraid he won't do something stupid, because I love him more than myself! What should I do? What should I tell him? How do I get him to stop with these sites? He still has a lot to learn. I am very sick and sick, please give me some advice. I eat with jealousy every day and I can't sleep, I can't eat normally, I even lost weight, I'm not well, I'm always sick and I'm worried. I ask the administrators to publish my story, it is really very important for me to get advice!
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Um ... I think you have a problem with your relationship. You don't know when his profiles on the sites are, but you obviously have some problems once he's activated there. My husband's best friend has a problem in his relationship - he is about to lose his job and has a lot of problems with an adult son, but his girlfriend does not understand him, raises scandals, makes stress and does not let him regularly on top of everything - with two words not only is he alone with his problems, but it creates additional stress and PROBLEMS for him. He shares it with my husband - and my husband tells me, so I know everything. Recently, our friend and the woman he is still with visited us. So the man took a smartphone a few days ago and he kept peeping, but the man did not go to check it. Finally he made him show us the smartphone. I'm supposed to see it - I open the browser and guess - dating site! I know he didn't cheat (he would tell my husband), but I know very well that the man is not happy and is looking for another woman. The moment he finds it, he dumps this girlfriend who doesn't make him happy. Corollary: Profiles alone mean nothing, but being active there is a sign that you're looking for something and to be honest, it's not always just sex. Even for men! If your partner is not happy, he will look for another behind your back and, being sure that he has found it, he will dump you. By making scandals and misery, you are on the right path to losing your friend. Why should he cheat on you, hide? He'll just find another one and beat your clown. Corollary: Profiles alone mean nothing, but being active there is a sign that you're looking for something and to be honest, it's not always just sex. Even for men! If your partner is not happy, he will look for another behind your back and, being sure that he has found it, he will dump you. By making scandals and misery, you are on the right path to losing your friend. Why should he cheat on you, hide? He'll just find another one and beat your clown. Corollary: Profiles alone mean nothing, but being active there is a sign that you're looking for something and to be honest, it's not always just sex. Even for men! If your partner is not happy, he will look for another behind your back and, being sure that he has found it, he will dump you. By making scandals and misery, you are on the right path to losing your friend. Why should he cheat on you, hide? He'll just find another one and beat your clown.
Oh, as long as you blamed the victims for the fact that their so-called halves decided to scratch their scabies with others. She was to blame for the relationship problems. He is such a dude that he doesn't sit down to talk to her face to face and tell me where and what the problem is, you secretly made registrations for me and where do you go with others? When he is not happy, tell her and look for happiness with others. Instead, he has decided that he has the right to seek other connections, and forbids it? !! How come? If he is not happy with her, what prevents her from writing with other men? Tarikat. The author does not have such a fix. Some time ago I had the "happiness" to experience something similar. This can ruin you, so burn 200 now and look for your happiness elsewhere. He will not stop. I will smell for a while maybe, he will try to manipulate you and lie, that he's not really looking for anything there but talk and a little flirtation, and in the end he'll do whatever he likes again. Except that you will lose more time and nerves, which no one will restore you later. He was dishonest enough to do that, brazen enough to forbid you to do the same thing he did, and smug enough to imagine that you would persevere and be patient so that you wouldn't miss him. Show him he's wrong.
Hello! I will also give my opinion. I don't know your boyfriend, but 80% of the men on these sites are there for sex. The others are looking for a serious relationship. In both cases, this shows that he is looking for something else. Well, there are a small portion that are there for variety. Otherwise, I don't see anything wrong with him communicating with other girls, but not on dating sites. Maybe you need to think about what you deserve. You can be happy with someone who cares about you, whom you can trust, who would delete your registration on such a site so as not to upset you. You can find true love instead of this parody of one. I hope you're not one of those girls who is attracted to men to treat them like garbage.
To №1 I don't know what advice you give and what you comment on - but even if you know about your husband's friend ... - for me it is gossip, both on your part and on his part. It's not masculine mostly! And does the man's wife have a smartphone? You see only one side - without the other. You don't live with them ... In any case, there is a problem with such a relationship, but there are also a lot of men who, in order to do whatever they want, pretend to be a scapegoat ....
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