Deceived

   Record a conversation with her, there is nothing complicated. She is certainly worried that she may be understood, so she will be emotional. Use this.

   Don't bother.

   You should have realized by now that such a relationship has no future. At 28, you're not a kid, you're a man, and you should act like one. Kaka just had fun, she took pleasure and self-confidence from your youth. But only that much. Don't look for it and don't deal with it. Go out with friends, look around, it's full of young creatures, unmarried and without the lies and problems of 40-year-old withered khakis. Find a young girl and forget this one. Find strength and end it, because your relationship brings only trouble and pain. Remember - older women are only for one or another session, but not for a permanent relationship. In 5-6 years she will be hit by the critics, and you will be a man in your strength, you will look after the young boyfriends, while a nervous and withered aunt is walking next to you.

   She used you as an emotional and sex toy! Normally, if her husband travels a lot. After he leaves again, he will look for you again - calm down. But don't make the mistake of falling in love, that you will only suffer from it. By the way, something similar happened to me, but we were both clear that nothing serious would come of it. M. 32g.

   First, you shouldn't have messed with her at all. Second, you knew very well and you know that she is committed and you will never be in the foreground. If you are ok to play with her (to fill her free time and raise her ego that a younger person falls for her) in the moments when her husband is not there - then go out with her. But to stand and grumble now and be sad and hurt by "love" is a mistake, and you know very well why. She will not abandon her husband for you. He's just playing with you. Think about it and resign yourself or leave her. PS My advice is to leave her, because in the long run this relationship will not offer you anything good. Good luck!!!

   When she called the police, she was hysterical. Well, maybe you knocked on the door too? Calm down, block her everywhere. Because when her husband leaves, she will look for you for sure - and hop surprise. She lied and alone. This will be your revenge. Stay level and find a girl your age, single.

   Thanks to everyone for the advice, she called me again and told me that she loves me and that she can't live without me. I wrote it down

   You really got it wrong. And you wonder why? Are you done with the young girls grabbing the old bag? I know how they will attack me now - true, a woman of 41 is not old, but is in her prime - but for you, at the age of 28 she is almost your mother. And who knows - since at the beginning she ran after you, but then she withdrew, maybe she didn't like you, or something in you repulsed her. If she doesn't want you, consider her opinion.

   He didn't say he didn't want me. he wants to just blame me for him to find out we're in a fight, but he does it very badly.

   Remember it from me - no family man, be it a man or a woman, would turn his back on his family and security because of his lover. At least no reasonable person. Don't waste your time and don't do nonsense. Saturn

   Did she tell you she loved you? Make sure she says the same thing to her husband when he hears her. a. If you like to waste your youth and feelings with a withering aunt, who will cause you more scandals and troubles, go ahead, take care of her.

   I don't know, it's very difficult for me, I don't sleep all night, I'll go crazy. I didn't expect it to hurt like that. I'm very sad, I've already withdrawn, but I'm very sick

   Whoops, stop being slimy! Are you a man or an onion head? And there is NO word "I don't know" (or "I can't") !!! "No" is ALWAYS written separately from the verb!

   And yet it is "I am", "I am" means one, lonely, ...

   Chasing you 41-year-old married is a guarantee of unlimited amounts of non-committal sex. Did he really not know? How you ruined everything is not clear to me. You just had to wait for your husband to leave again. Now sit and endure until you pass.

   Are the young girls over to stumble upon this aunt who is sexually diversifying with you? Wow, if a man tells me he was 40 and a few years old before me, I'll run 300 miles an hour. Where does it occur to you that something good will come out of this, other than some sex? Aren't there girls aged 25-26, are you dealing with this withered woman? I'm almost as old as you, but I would never sleep with a man over 40, married or not. One must have principles and self-respect.

   13 - you will pass, we have all been through this. You're not a lady, act like a man. You are aware that with this future you have nothing. Tighten up and move on. And don't think of looking for her, if she's looking for you again, block her! A woman of so many years can't give you anything, will she give birth to a child, will she live with you, not wanting to divorce, will she replace your mother? You have nothing to regret, after a while you will even wonder in your mind. Go out with friends, eat, drink, take off a young boyfriend and you will be relieved.

   Mature family ladies and young girls will use you. And I have had a collision in life with these two extremes. Relationship with a mature woman only if she is divorced or unmarried, with sex visibly smaller than you. when I was 27 I went with a 19 year old. We were completely different worlds. Women run away from tender men in love. Seriously look around your age.

   17-you know how cool she is I feel like she's 20, but there's no point in getting angry anymore. I left her no matter how much it hurt, and now she doesn't leave me alone. I don't know what to do anymore

   Do you think it is possible for me to live with her, and what hinders our age, I really want her