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Did I Become A "slut"?

By germionag August 05, 2020 20 answers Last updated August 05, 2020

Hello, 19 year old girl. I'll start with the fact that I had 1 serious relationship at 16, with which I lost my virginity, but I was not delighted with sex, with the end of the relationship I stopped thinking about sex at all. I was hurt, I had other things in my head and so. I had sex with another boy, but again I don't admire sex, I didn't find it for anything, an act during which I enjoy it and up there. I recently ended a serious relationship again. I had a friend for almost a year, but things changed completely with him. It was a full-fledged relationship, in terms of sex, I can only say that I have not had such amazing sex and it was better and better every time. With him, I somehow opened up completely and even did things I never thought I would ever do. The last time I just had sex, nothing more, I just enjoyed it, but with my last friend ... I expressed a desire to play roles, I gave him a whistle, to be honest I liked it and quite often I did, not to mention almost every act, I bought perverted sets of underwear, clothes, toys. I became very perverted. There have been times when we just sit outside in a park and talk and I imagine being a dog and moaning. We were sitting on the beach with friends and when they turned I grabbed his penis. I don't know, I've never been like that. I was always modest, shy, I was literally uncomfortable touching my friend's pants at all, and after a while I went crazy. We sent each other naked pictures while I was blowing him, I looked him in the eyes, I played, I harassed him, I tore him. We broke up, and even though I suffered and I'm still sad, I'm thinking about sex. I think how good it was for us last time. He offered me to have sex only now, but I really won't be able to, considering that I love him, I still can't imagine sitting or lying near him, having sex and not crying. He just doesn't love me anymore, I respect myself and I wouldn't be "used" just for sex. I want it physically. Like I said, I've become a slut, I imagine how I fuck him, how we do it, masturbate, I have a rich imagination. This boy changed me a lot.

Answers 20

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musclestar89 answered · August 05, 2020

   Find a new one, there is no point in tormenting yourself with books you have already read.

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skkkkkkskkkkkkkksskkkkks answered · August 05, 2020

   You have become like any woman who has had a good cock in her life. These women have fun many times more than men, just some with years and n number of partners, never understand what real pleasure is. You have nothing. Brother.

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mashaa1818 answered · August 05, 2020

   If this is your notion of perversion .....

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sesxappeal answered · August 05, 2020

   This is perfectly normal in relation to a person you love. You were very sexually depressed when you were younger and now you are just unleashing in your mind about all the unexperienced things that others have been thinking / doing all along. At 16, you did it with some inexperienced dude, without that much feeling, and you took it for granted. It's not like that - the normal thing should be what you had with your ex-boyfriend - love and passion in all respects. So it was real. Otherwise, I agree that you should not agree only for sex - you will never experience things like that. Don't go crazy, you're not "dirty" or "perverted" like all sexually healthy people, but you're going through late puberty in that regard. Now you just have to learn to control it and cover it up like the rest of us;) Good luck!

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lukeriordan1 answered · August 05, 2020

   This is normal. You decide whether to just have sex with him, there is nothing wrong or right ... I do not see anything perverse in these things. You're just not boring.

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sugar_baby_girl answered · August 05, 2020

   There is nothing for you! God bless every girl like you. It is a pity that personal information cannot be given from this site otherwise I would try to contact you ;-)

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chris_parker01 answered · August 06, 2020

   Brother - another Santa Torbalan, and maybe not another; dd

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jhoanatrans22 answered · August 06, 2020

   I agree with three, that doesn't make you a slut for me ... A girl tells you. The things you describe are normal, I wouldn't say dirty.

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nathan_rahl answered · August 06, 2020

   Get rid of it, it's rubbish. These are normal things for sex, every woman feels that way. Find a new friend and dare. Scales19

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just4katie answered · August 07, 2020

   There are more important things than sex, much, much, much more important. In fact, it doesn't matter at all. You don't die from lack of sex. He dies when there is no love, trust, sharing and friendship in a relationship. Don't be so primitive and lowly. Nothing good will come of this.

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hardhairyb1g answered · August 07, 2020

   You're not a slut! I was twelve when I lost my virginity. It happened at my request, maybe a little exaggerated. To this day, I am in love with the man who opened me. Some time after the incident, I tried to ask him to do it again. But I was flatly refused. He was probably guilty. Internally, I wanted it, but what exactly, I already had a dilemma. Sex, the man who punched me or both. I realized that after his refusal, I would not be humiliated to want more. So I caught one of the upper classes, a friend of my brother. We did it often, but it wasn't something. One day we were inside, he didn't want to do it, it made me angry and I kicked him out. So he continued until the fifth. I was already 17 or 18 with each passing day my libido increased. But sex with my friends did not satisfy me. I met a colleague of my mother's. It was promising, but just when we got to sex something twisted and dumped me. We were in us. It came out like a fighter, I lay naked in bed. I was trying to fix myself, and then my brother showed up. When he saw me, he looked up first, then asked me, "Do you need help?" I didn't think much and answered: - Yes! You coming? I didn't believe he would. It wasn't until I felt it in me that I realized things. It was too late. He was a virtuoso. They were cunnilingus, fucking, 69s. From three in the afternoon until the morning of the next day. Then he got up, left. A few days passed, he didn't call and I didn't dare look for him. I felt guilty, guilty, and so on. But I was constantly thinking about him and fantasizing about something. One day the person who opened me came to see how I was, if I needed anything. Over the years, we had not talked about the topic, nor had we shown interest. He noticed my detachment and asked, "What's the matter with you?" Where are you flying? "I'm fantasizing," I said. "What are you fantasizing about, handsome?" I have no idea why, but my answer was, "How you kiss me downstairs." He looked at me and said, "I didn't think you wanted me after that day." He came to me, hugged me, and the miracle happened again. Yes, but this time it was something unique. We also talked about how I would eat it, how he would stuff it in me and so on. It was new to me. All these dirty words aroused me beyond recognition. I even allowed myself to ask: - When you love mom, do you talk like that? - Yes! She loves many such words. He even vowed to fuck your brother. We started meeting every day. By the way, I never stopped seeing my brother. He just called two days later and came. All this made me think. I perceived myself as an absolute whore. But I was very happy. The sex was completely different. It charged me with positive energy and I wanted more and more. Under such circumstances, I got married. My husband once said to me (I quote him): - You are a great pussy! I used to be shy, but now I'm furious. I don't know how you evaluate me. But I owe it to you. I have to thank the one who made you like that. "My father," I replied. He dressed in front of me and continued, "He's obviously a great master." - Yes and a! And my brother helped a lot. I drove him completely crazy, but I continued: - Don't shoot, forget it! He was very excited and said: - I hope I am equal to them ?! We drove it all night. He had never fucked me like that. I realized that I could relax with him too. I did not stop telling him how I started and various other fragments and details of my sexual practice. Finally I told him, "I'm a refined whore!" Absolute slut, a prostitute. He turned me around and said, "I know from my father that if a woman isn't a whore in bed, she's just nobody!" In time, I realized that I was not garbage. Others do it and are happy. We raised our children. We have never had any problems. But he, my husband, is a realist who knows how to live by the laws of nature. And here is the key to everything. You are not a slut! You just found the truth and gave yourself up. There is nothing wrong with that! Human life is one and must be lived to the fullest! You are not a slut! You just found the truth and gave yourself up. There is nothing wrong with that! Human life is one and must be lived to the fullest! You are not a slut! You just found the truth and gave yourself up. There is nothing wrong with that! Human life is one and must be lived to the fullest!

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bigdame90 answered · August 07, 2020

   Yes, your brother did the job

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rebekabell answered · August 08, 2020

   12 n 12 What is wrong with her brother? Why didn't he help her? Apparently you are far behind reality. Different people, different manners. And I do it with my brother and let me tell you that I feel much happier and better than with someone who seeks only his own interests to satisfy. You are signaling for such. MATCHES today are not quoted and are felt for miles. The woman shared it, she judged. If you do not accept the stories of others, do not write nonsense!

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costi4u answered · August 09, 2020

   11, in another topic, with a similar meaning and context, he had again posted a comment that strongly resembles this one, only there was talk of some threes and fours, at some wedding, in the toilet ... Which book do you copy them from? these things? And quotes are usually quoted. Use them, because this is certainly not personally experienced.

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wildbratties answered · August 09, 2020

   16, do you get confused in your ass. At each pot you have merudia. What does it matter who wrote it and where did he see the quotes? She wrote there, she wrote here And ???? What if she wrote about a threesome or a foursome? Are you being beaten by a cock on the gourd? What are you trying to say with your stupidity?

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lollipopg answered · August 10, 2020

   to 11, 14 and 17 I apologize to the author, I insist on answering this nothingness. Well, your pornographic works confuse him, because that's where children come in. I'm confused too - some time ago he was stuck in the subject of a teenage girl and called on her to seduce her father. The site is anonymous, but you don't think you're undetectable.

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cataleya_endrade answered · August 10, 2020

   to 11, 14 and 17 I apologize to the author, I insist on answering this nothingness. Well, your pornographic works confuse him, because that's where children come in. I'm confused too - some time ago he was stuck in the subject of a teenage girl and called on her to seduce her father. The site is anonymous, but you don't think you're undetectable.

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mercedes_goddess answered · August 10, 2020

   Good fantasy, number 11. Did you read that in any book? Or watching a movie?

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vale_ria_feet answered · August 11, 2020

   You are not a slut, you just behave naturally and show your desires. I think a lot of women want to do the things you described, but they just don't like it and prefer to act like virgins or like horses with caps. They think they are more interesting that way. You're just sexually mature and there's nothing wrong with that. If all women behaved so naturally and primarily, I'm sure no man would cheat. The ice

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reventoreex answered · August 11, 2020

   Up to 24, Why should it be a fantasy, to have read it somewhere or watched a movie! What are you trying to say, to show with this? Poor men, immature and immature, behave like that. It is obvious that you are a "Bulgarian hero" !! Even if I've read it somewhere or seen it in a movie, it's still man-made. You are pathetic, picky, envious and unworthy of this site yet!