Hi, I'm a 20 year old boy and I have an 11 month old girlfriend. We haven't done it yet because we decided to go a year and so on. We both love each other a lot, we look for each other, I look for her within the normal range, while she writes to me at the first opportunity. The problem is that when I talk about something sexual, she pulls away, and yesterday she told me that I haven't attracted her enough and my question to you is whether to leave her for a while, to do something romantic in order to attract her. or leave it forever? My brother tells me to leave her for a while and not to write to each other and not to see each other so often that we will get bored, but what can I do when she is constantly looking for me and constantly writes to me, even writes to me in 3 or 4 in the morning sometime. I am asking for advice.
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If you don't attract her, if she tells you these - bye, bye !!!
She told you you weren't attracted to her, that's a good enough argument to break up with her. Be a 'horse with lids', once you don't attract her, she won't give in to you, and if you want, wait for her for 10 years. I tell you as a girl, she doesn't love you, she's used to you. It's one thing to have a long relationship for years, it's another 11 months, and so shake it that you don't attract it enough to give it to you.
How are you going to leave her if you haven't "taken" her?
I think you have a relationship, and the girl - no, but come on ...
Dude, the next step is to write to you at 4 in the morning, since he's just hired another. This is not a connection. Rather, he takes you for a girlfriend. You're wasting your time with her. I'm not saying stop talking like friends, just find a girl you like. I'm pretty sure she's doing that right now.
And what do you think? He keeps you on a leash and insults you. Obviously, your dignity is missing if you are ready for a slimy mess to humiliate you.
Just tear it.
Drop it. They did not end for three days. I was like that. I'm married now and things are different.