Hello ... I'm very sad and it seems to me that I have no one to share with anymore ... There is a girl I call my best friend. She is two years older than me and is in 10th grade. I understand that there are more obligations, but is it normal in my free time not to have time for me ...? Things have changed a lot .. another girl appeared ... from time to time she wrote me a nice text message, and now she doesn't miss the opportunity to write to the other ... We are in different shifts, and they are in the same with the other girl ... they are seen much more often. She doesn't even pick up my phone anymore because she's with her. I am in a very difficult period now and she is not with me. He says he has no time. Why before could he take at least two minutes to call me and ask how I was, and now nothing is more important than that? How big is the chance that he will completely replace me ...? Do you think it's true that if she really wants to, can it still take me 5 minutes or am I very confused? I'm very sad, please help .. what can I do ..? I want my old girlfriend .. we used to be in different shifts, but now it's so different ....: '(
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I don't want to make you sick, but if she really cared about you, she would give you not 5 but many more minutes .. I don't know, talk to her, about how you feel and that she cares about her opinion that you miss her, but prom, ask her to go out and talk to her
Just dump her. Talking won't work - it's not good to be sad about someone who doesn't care.
If she was interested in you, she would show it to you. But you describe that she can't pay attention to you even in her free time, which is quite strange. I have an only girlfriend who is also two years older than me. She has many other girlfriends, but she gives me enough time to talk, even during the chat. But you still don't think you've lost your best friend. Maybe you don't contact often? Then write to yourself. Write to her: "Hello, how are you? We haven't talked to each other for a long time (or something like that)" If I answer you half-heartedly and after a while quickly end the conversation, it means that you have moved away from each other, you are interesting to her. If she answers you, tells you, etc., maybe she cares about you. And if he doesn't answer you at all, don't be impudent, go straight ahead and don't think about her. :)
from the author: it happened so that she no longer sits on the chat ... there is no way simple ... I don't know ...