Hello, it all started when I found out that my mother was cheating on my father, but I didn't tell him because I love my family very much and I didn't want them to separate, and I cried at night and blamed myself. I considered writing to my mother's lover not to see my mother, that it would only ruin my family, but I didn't. Two months later, my father discovered that my mother had cheated, and I pretended to understand now and to blame myself ever since. Did I make a mistake?
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He shouldn't have asked you at all and interfered in their relationship! You are a child and you have no business in these things. Everything that happens to them is because of their relationship. Believe both of them and only both are responsible for what happens.
What happened, happened. Now, even if you think about it and blame yourself, you will not achieve anything. Otherwise, it depends on the point of view. In my opinion, it is not a mistake, children should not interfere in such intrigues. It was a mistake for your mother to let you know about her infidelity and force you to torment yourself with questions for months, to cry at night and to think about what to do, whether to tell your father. Apparently fate has decided that your father must know the truth, and this happened without your intervention. Breathe. Your reasons were good, so were your intentions, and in the end, your father understood again.
This is none of your business :)