Hello. I've known a girl recently, but I think I made a mistake that could cost me a lot. I thought about her and while we were talking I said I didn't want to lose her. I'm not saying it's not, but we've known each other recently and I don't know how I made her feel. I really don't want that to happen, but I don't know if I'm going to fuck myself. I want to hear the opinion of women. Thank you!
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If she feels the same way about you, you didn't screw up, on the contrary - you made her feel great! I tell you from personal experience, as a girl. :) You may have startled her a little, but this will not be a problem if you are just as important to her. And whether this is so, only you know - time will tell. I wish you success, and do not regret what you did. Even if it doesn't work out, the important thing is that you tried. ;)
Yes, it sounded impulsive, it's a little scary for two reasons: 1. It gives the impression that your "angels" are probably weak, ie you can easily say that to other little-known girls. 2. Usually people with such impulsive behavior, in addition to easily changing their preferences, can have unpredictable actions and manic states over time ... in general, they do not seem very reasonable and logical, so they are scary.
I forgot to say that once you think about whether it is right or not - you will probably be able to balance things so that things will smooth out. You don't have to go to the other extreme - to hide your feelings too much. Be natural without dramatizing.
The idea of loss presupposes possession ... Not everyone is happy to feel possessed, even if they have feelings for you - it somehow limits, stiffens, scares. It's as if you told her, "You're mine!" - how could it occur to you? Moreover, provided that there was nothing between you, and in general.
They first put me in the wrong section, but that's not a problem. 2nd I'm not manic, nor do I think it's my possession. I want it to be mine. Let him be afraid. If she's afraid to go. Thank you for the answers!
I'm not a typical girl, not at all, I hate slimy talk, if I hear, "I love you" I'll want to jump off a bridge, because for me these words are hellishly strong, I don't want them to confess their love to me very soon. I'm still used to all kinds of appearances, certain things slipped away from me at the right moments. If she smiled, hugged you or just looked at you well, you won't have any, but no problem. likes // but I hate the expression "mine" // But if she suddenly stopped, she fell silent, then she spoke more uncertainly - I'm sorry. It's not a pain to die, so I can't believe she cut you just because you said something like that, it's not like you cursed her.
I think if she likes you too, she won't be offended! Stay calm :)!