Hi, I'm a girl of 17 and for some time I have a suspicion that my girlfriend (rather an acquaintance, we're just in the same company, let's call her H) likes the boy I like. They are in the same class and she introduced me to him and since then I keep telling her how I want her to call him out so we can get closer. We were at a birthday party and drank a little. "H" gave her the phone and told me to write to her from her profile and to agree to go out alone. We wrote to each other for a while, but no agreement was reached. The next day at school, as I was walking to the classroom, I saw them talking and hugging. I began to think that after we wrote to each other at the party, D hadn't told him that he had actually written to me. And now, because of everything we've written to each other, he's started to have sympathy for her. When I asked her if she had told him, she replied, "why should I tell him, it's clear." Is it possible that he wants to take it from me? Every time I ask her when I'll call him out, she finds another excuse. And I can't write to him because we are not so close and I don't think he would come. What to do? Help !!!
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Maybe she likes him too, but she can't tell you because she's afraid of ruining your friendship, so talk about it honestly and frankly and already observe the boy's reaction to both, and if he shows more sympathy for one than the other. , obviously one of them will have to give in no matter how painful it is, I know it's a nasty situation, but forcibly beauty doesn't happen, if you're still not sure whether to talk to your girlfriend, try to impress the boy in some way, a little yes you get closer to him and so watch how he reacts, if he answers with the same congratulations, if not, good health, another will be found, life is in front of you ... follow your heart and I wish you success, write as soon as there is development theme Girl, 16
There is a chance that she liked him as much as you did and now she has the opportunity to become closer to him through you. If you are really confident in your feelings and it is not just a thrill that will pass with time fight for it! No, we are not so close, write to him! See that when you wrote through that girl's profile, he began to show sympathy for her, that is, he was pleased to write to you, even though he did not know that it was you. Give him some small signs that you are interested in him, write to him to see you and I think things will work out. I'm squeezing your thumbs!