We lived with him in different cities, but when we saw each other, everything was wonderful. He tried to make me feel good, he pleased me, we walked down the street holding hands or hugging. He asked me if I would move there to see me. When the opportunity arose, he said it was great and he was looking forward to it. Suddenly, however, everything changed. From one post, I accused him of being with another girl. It turned out that I was unfair to him. For the New Year, he wanted to invite a friend of mine to celebrate because he wanted to invite his friend. However, I only asked him if I should call her because of him, I was jealous. Once he couldn't come because he said he had a problem with theirs, and I plowed it all night. Besides, I had started writing him some nonsense every day, and before I didn't explain myself every day. We went to the movies. He kissed me again, behaved nicely, we pressed a little. However, I pressed him in the evening to write if there was a problem, and he said that I was a good girl, but he didn't want me to get so involved, to be addicted. I wonder if I scared him, or did he find another What do you think I should do, what has changed?
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It is not necessary for "your" boy to feel attracted to another girl in order to stop his development with you. There are many reasons why you can do it! For example, he is afraid of disappointing you, or of feeling pressured at some point, but not being able to break up with you. Be nice, don't rush every time you imagine something. Do not leave doubts if they are not based on obvious facts! Just talk to him, don't get annoyed, don't be jealous! Talk! This is important and the basis of a relationship! Good luck and write how it went !! :)
In my opinion, there was no other. If he was with you, if he wanted to be with you, if he treated you well, there should be no other. It's not fair to really blame him, even without "evidence." True, jealousy is really very strong at times. Sometimes I'm the same. However, some boys like the jealousy of their girlfriends. Just hold on, I know it's hard. But if you want to be together with this boy and have a good time, just don't think about it. It's hard, but that's how your character is built. (: Г.
Well, you scared the man with your madness, what! How many girls here just ruin their relationships with a lot of turbans and then roar, oh, what happened. I'm sure your boyfriend has no other, but you're so annoyingly jealous that I fully understand why he wants to run away from you in the most cultured way.
You suffocate this man, in his place I would dump you in a second
don't you feel that you have gone too far? yours is not an elephant from a fly, but a herd of elephants from nothing. come on now, start telling him how there is another, how he ignores you, doesn't love you, etc., and in a month he can really find another one who won't grumble nonstop.
Well, that's called overly attached girlfriend (for whom he doesn't know what it is - Google)! I shudder at such obsessive psychopathic behavior. The boy pleases you, behaves well, EVEN WANTS YOU TO MOVE TO HIS CITY, and what are you doing? You tell him that he is cheating on you (ie that he does not care about you and your relationship). The man wants to celebrate the New Year with you (instead of company, alcohol and chicks) and a man of your choice, and you ask him if he does it because he wants to kill your girlfriend ... WTF? Once there is a problem other than the Princess-author (with her parents) and she instead of understanding what she does? She roars and grumbles, as if the world revolves around her and she is the victim. And then what? You start writing obsessive love nonsense to him ... You go to the movies, you push yourself, he behaves nicely ... (I don't know how he gathered strength to put up with you after your nonsense, but he did, somehow - imagine how much he cared for you. ) So, everything is fine and what should you do? To start pressuring him to tell you what the problem is (!?) ... What problem, what five levs did I never understand ... Just - VTF? WTF, damn it ??? But, of course, it's not your fault. How will you be guilty? It is very clear that there is another ... And he is the bad one, and you have done nothing, you are even a victim, aren't you? Hehehe.