Did You Go Out With An Old Bachelor?

   You are absolutely right. They are used to not complying with anyone and they seem to be alone they like the most. They may fall in love and be cool, but when things get serious they get nervous and make fun of the person next to them.

   Let me tell you something has obviously attracted you to this person, but in order not to be married yet, he obviously has a really difficult character and will definitely poison your life. I personally haven't dated one and maybe I wouldn't!

   Oh, they are very difficult. The bad thing is that they are used to disregarding anyone, and this is difficult to eradicate.

   I'm from the so-called "Star Bachelor" and I think you're in the clouds. Once you are biased, better look for the problem in you. The fact that I am alone does not mean that I have something and that I have not come across the person next to me. So far, I've come across many, more coquettish and greedy and more selfish and divorced, and to tell you the truth, I'll probably wait until I find a soulmate. As for whether I am completely alone at the moment, I will say, I have an intimate partner, but she is not the chosen one. It's just that my life really met the man, but there were other dividing units, and so I was still alone. At the moment I have two candidates, and they are serious, suffering divorced, one older than me by two years, the other by 10 younger than me, but I am already afraid of commitment and things to confuse them further.

   To nom. 7: I read two times what you wrote. It seems to me that you are terribly confused and do not even know what you want. Both a current intimate partner that you keep in reserve / bad for her if she is not aware of it /, and two new candidates that you are not ready to accept because you are afraid of commitment, and on top of all that you say that you still want a soulmate ... How would you find this "soulmate" if you yourself cannot overcome your fears and selfishness ??? from one to the other

   I went with such a four and a half years I tell you lost time there is not such a selfish and selfish person in himself used to comply only with him and his desires whatever he decides it makes you tell him something or try to stop him from walking somewhere crazy will make you love me very much but I thank you for such love you do what he tells you you dress the way he tells you you don't go out anywhere because he is terribly jealous but in the meantime he goes with friends all night and you have to accept this is normal but the worst thing is that this guy is intelligent working in a bank and people would never guess what he really is, I sincerely hope he fails to deceive some other girl that hard on him :)

   the term "old bachelor" just makes me laugh ... what does that mean at all ... life has changed radically in the last 20 years and it's time to shake off concepts that are no longer relevant ... it's getting harder to come across suitable person, life is more dynamic and marriage no longer has such value as in the past ... there are no old bachelors or maidens :) there are just people who find it difficult to compromise with whom to choose next to them.

   I have to tell you that I am 33 and I am dating an old bachelor at 40! It is very difficult and makes no sense. At the beginning of our relationship he told me that he had long relationships for 4-5 years, but women were not for him. He proposed marriage to each, but did not marry any. His wives were always crooked and inappropriate. Grumbling for marriage 1 year. When I agreed, he gave up. They are very selfish and do what they want and when they want. I'm divorced and even though he has a great relationship with my son, he will never watch him ... He only wants me, but not really. Run away from old unrealized bachelors ... whatever they tell you ... Don't waste your time!

   The women you commented on - you want a man under a "slipper". I think then you will be happier if he does what you tell him, right? Your task is simple, look for more molds that can't fry eggs on their own. Mom will pass on to you and the problem is solved. But it still seems to me that you will not be exactly happy with one. That's right, in principle, a man is so structured, egocentric, independent, stubborn and does not tolerate much outside opinion. And whether you like it or not, Mother Nature doesn't care. К.

   I fell in love with one of them. In general, I do not like to categorize people with terms such as "old bachelor", "old maid". I fell in love a lot with a 41-year-old man, single and without children, I don't want to go into details about our situation, but the truth is that it broke my heart. I have experienced and continue to feel great disappointment.

   I have been doing this for 8 years. He asked me how many children I wanted, he promised me what not ... A girl was born to us, which he eventually did not admit because he was not sure that I was the man for him. These doubts were also fueled by his mother, who at first invited me to stay with them until I moved in 4 years ago and my life became a horror movie. They were constantly unhappy about something with their mother, all my efforts were sinking somewhere between the small flaws of everything, be it that my pot didn't even have enough salt. I renovated his house, a rock garden in the yard. He looked like a home, I was cultured with his parents, I took care of him. I served them. Until I got pregnant. Then he "asked" me to have an abortion, and when I didn't agree, he threw me out on the street. He is currently at almost 39, our child is one year old and I look after him alone. Do not waste your time with such a person, look for a man who will be with you, will respect you and will be responsible to his children.

   I agree with the N10. it is infinitely outdated and foolish to label people only on the basis of marital status. that someone is selfish, grumbling, petty, etc. is a matter of character and attitude, not age. and you are targeting people in their 40s! it's like listening to grandmothers gathered on the bench in front of the block.

   Hi, I also don't like definitions like "old bachelor", "old girl". And I don't think a man in his 40s is too old for a family or children. But that's what happened to me. I met a 42-year-old man, single, without children. It was great at first, I was just wondering how this great man wasn't "busy" anymore. He behaved very responsibly and maturely, he explained to me his high ideals - how he believed in family, in marriage, how he was against infidelity and others. similar. Until I realized that he had a relationship with his married colleague. And it became clear to me what a liar he was. It was hard for me, I was hurt by the lie, but I kept going. This may not have anything to do with the fact that he is a bachelor, but .... if he is not engaged by this age, it means something (I'm talking about a normal man, nice, intelligent with good education and above average income). It is true that there were some habits of a loner, but this is not something that cannot be overcome, yet no one is perfect. That was my experience with an "old bachelor." If he is alone until this age, then he obviously has something! This man hurt me a lot. First he made me believe him, and then I realized that everything he told me was a lie. So I will already have one thing in mind.

   But how, women are still to blame for their husbands :) According to women, only men lie, only they behave strangely and repulsively, and women are still mature, responsible and most of all :))))

   The topic discusses relationships with men who for one reason or another have not committed to a certain age and therefore fall into the category of "old bachelor". So, number 17 your comment is out of place. It is clear that there are no perfect people. But a 45-year-old man is not so normal. not to have created a family and children. It is an indication of a problem. From personal experience: don't get involved, I broke my nerves with one!

   And do you want me to list a bunch of indications for a problem in 30-35 year old women? :))))

   Well, go ahead, I won't be angry even though I'm not 30 yet - I'm still 29 :-). And I have already met the person I connected my life with (I hope permanently). Definitely women at this age if they are alone (I do not mean they are not married, but do not have a man next to them) have a problem. But as I said - there are no perfect! And if you are one of the gentlemen in question, tell us how things are from your point of view, you can help a woman to understand the man next to her. There are always exceptions.

   No, I'm not an old bachelor. Everyone can have some problems, men and women. But own does not try to notice.

   I was with one for 6 years. He was 40 when we met, I was 28. He was great, very kind, caring, he pampered me. After about 6 months we got together to live together and I started helping him in business. I would give him a lot of freedom, to go out with friends alone until late, even to go on vacation without me, and I never looked for an explanation. Everything went smoothly until the 4th year I asked for children. There was a trick, how he was not ready, he was not sure, that I had promised him that if a baby came nothing would change, how we were going to deal with business and children at the same time, that we had waited a little longer, etc. etc. It lasted a little more 2 years, until I finally got tired and we broke up. We still run the business together and we remained friends. He is not a bad person, he is responsible, caring, kind, I'm not blaming him and I'm not saying he wasted my time. There are just people (men and women) who do not feel the need to start a family. I'm not angry with him for being like that, I felt it in time and now I'm with a great man who wants what I want. trii1 / 2

   Yes. I would not repeat, a great disappointment.

   No, but one invited me to a meeting a few years ago. Well, it was awful for him to lurk at my workplace and offer me, to touch me without my permission, as I remembered and felt sick from this impudent and dispersed colleague. Viki

   Honey, I was like that until recently - a man 21 years older than me ... don't do it to yourself - run while you can, then it gets hard. You will never be of the same opinion or you will be able to change his character .. think about it - what he gives you - I was monotonous .. and now I am with a boy my age more or less and I realize the difference .. it is huge. don't be fooled .. Good luck! Danny

   Yes, that's how it turned out for me. It was very cool at first, but as things got worse, the relationship became very difficult. I experienced many disappointments that I am not even told about. I would not start another such relationship. Eli

   Suma sumarum, divorced women are bothered by old bachelors. They must have divorced very well, firstly, they didn't succeed the second time, secondly. Third, if someone defines himself as a "bachelor," he is more likely to like his way of life than to refer to the very fact of being married or not. There are people who have many responsibilities and who realize that a marriage would change their priorities, on which the well-being of other (important) people may depend. And fourth, there is no reason to confuse the problems of couples with a difference in age with the duration of the bachelor. People in their 40s are people with established, good or bad, habits. Disappointed with them, they had as unrealistic expectations as they knew little about their own claims. I don't see much difference between a twenty-year-old unmarried oligophrenic and a 40-year-old. The level is low, sorry, in both directions.

   I also want to share what I think - these old bachelors are very flexible in their lies and have built a wall around themselves and get out very quickly from any topic related to a more serious commitment. And the constant excuse - I haven't found the woman yet, etc., only excuses, there are many decent women, but they just don't want ANYONE. They are self-sufficient. Not to mention what character traits they have from this lifestyle. They become hellishly cramped, and later stingy, wear old-fashioned clothes, waste their money, it is not known where and for whom. Complete horror just !!!

   With such stupid, simple and always grumbling and dissatisfied with something girls and women, it is completely understandable and explainable that Bulgaria is full of old bachelors :-)))))). Hahahahahaha ...

   In my opinion, there is no specific age for "old bachelor" or "old maid". It's just that at some point people shut themselves in, become individualists, egocentric to some degree, with established habits and stereotypes .. which are very, very hard to shake .. And you become an "old bachelor / girl" And time passes, you are waiting for the prince / princess, you claim that people of the opposite sex are just disappointing you and trying to justify your high expectations, you say that you are the one who is not right for you ...

   Haha, comment 27 moles :) I agree with numbers 10 and 15! We are not talking about 'old bachelors / girls', but about people who, due to peculiarities in their character and views, have not been long-term committed until a certain age. But there is another explanation for things - some people are reluctant to make huge and unjustified compromises just for fear of being alone and not being labeled such stupid!

   Abe, isn't there anyone here who can boast of a happy ending with "Star Bachelor"?

   I'm an old bachelor, come out with me!

   Yes, number 32, I can brag! How I have not seen the topic so far! 6-7 years ago I started dating an old bachelor ... at the age of 53. We fell madly in love, we got together, a girl was born to us ... We also experienced many dramas-quarrels, quarrels, travels, separation ... Now we are together again and looking after our child. Our love somehow survived. I had never stopped loving him and he loved me. Now we are just wiser and more compliant. I see how my husband has changed over the years and how he has learned responsibility very slowly and painfully. He is not as selfish now as he was in the beginning, which was inevitable after so many years of loneliness. Before he traveled constantly, I was a little domineering ... Now he goes home alone and he is comfortable and nice. I let him breathe and go where he knows and wants, without even asking him, but he calls me where and what he does. He is comfortable at home - to be with his family, his wife and child. We corrected the mistakes and clarified who will behave, what he requires and what he can give. His mother realized how old she was, and he, too, accepted me as a factor and at least we respected each other and talked - it is no longer required. I help as much as I can for the man I love. We won't waste this second chance this time. We intend to live together and love each other while we are alive. We do not lack problems and we are even many, but we talk and discuss everything, striving for compromises. Probably we are both a rare case ... I hope all other couples love each other like us :)) accept me as a factor and at least we respect each other and talk - no more is required. I help as much as I can for the man I love. We won't waste this second chance this time. We intend to live together and love each other while we are alive. We do not lack problems and we are even many, but we talk and discuss everything, striving for compromises. Probably we are both a rare case ... I hope all other couples love each other like us :)) accept me as a factor and at least we respect each other and talk - no more is required. I help as much as I can for the man I love. We won't waste this second chance this time. We intend to live together and love each other while we are alive. We do not lack problems and we are even many, but we talk and discuss everything, striving for compromises. Probably we are both a rare case ... I hope all other couples love each other like us :))

   Thanks number 34, once a good word was heard about the old bachelor.

   I was dating a man of 41 ... he was amazing and I can say that I will not love another like that anymore ... He passed through me like a fury ... I will not go into details, it took me 5 years to rip him out of my heart and forget it! But I already know - on the side of such

   It's not just "old bachelors" who are so selfish, narcissistic, unforgiving, insecure and cowardly. There are many men who are "divorced", but are divorced for the same reasons that "old bachelors" are single. This category of divorced men are even more dangerous than those who have never committed. At least the latter have not lied to any woman about their attitude towards family responsibilities. Do you know how many such molds I know who get married because it's time for them or they have impregnated a babe on a drunken head, and then their parents pressured them to get married? Many of these men are "mother's sons". Strong, domineering obsessive mothers first create an inferiority complex and secondly give them the assurance that no matter what happens, mom is against it. The problem in modern society is quite significant, although it is not given the necessary attention by psychologists. This syndrome of the son who is always looking for his mother's favor, because it seems to be a syndrome, tirelessly destroys the morals and foundations of society. It is right to think: why are there so many broken hearts, illusions and dreams, why are there so many lonely mothers, why are there so many male hatreds, why are there so many lonely men who, when their mother dies and rot, rot, disappear! WHY? Who needs this? which, when mom dies and rot, rot, disappear! WHY? Who needs this? which, when mom dies and rot, rot, disappear! WHY? Who needs this?

   Yeah ... I don't like the scriptures at all, but this tempted me to say something about it. I'm a bachelor at 42 and I'm terribly proud of that. Over the years, I watched and drew conclusions from the fact - how my old friends got married one by one and in less than a year I saw them changed and ground by the mill of marriage. The cheerful and sociable boys I knew simply did not mature. They withered slowly and ingloriously, and when I met them — somewhere dejectedly, dragging themselves with a drooping nose and a worried look — they hypocritically smiled at me and claimed how incredibly happy they were in the mill that turned them day after day. I am proud that I almost managed to save one and another from the sure obstacle and now they are very grateful to me. In the social sense of the word, marriage has long since lost its significance. Old values ​​are long dead — forgotten and forgotten — or simply no one can remember them. Modern "chicks" just look at the man as a "wallet" addition to the house. They try to govern in a way that brings them out, but they can't and don't know how. (And I'm not blabbering on - I have countless examples and observations). I am also FOR emancipation, but this means equal rights, which does not mean that they should exchange roles in the family or take away their functions. I-for example as a lecturer-am I trying to take away the functions of a police officer-isn't it if I try -and everyone else is trying-society as a social unit will stop functioning ..? !? !! Over the years, I have watched closely how many women gradually (or suddenly) usurped some typically male functions in the family, putting (often) their halves in terribly awkward or humiliating positions .. and you know — they didn't even feel like doing it at all ... well .. how you want the "family" structure to work. The thing is that many young people ignore the dangerous signals (oh, this love) and make steps (jumps) in porridge (and all sorts of other dishes), which, however, are already cooked and not in a way that they like. Getting out of this is difficult, time consuming, expensive and often humiliating. However, there is a constantly growing group of very feathered boys who carefully observe and draw conclusions - not that they become bachelors but look at life soberly and know how to clearly set conditions and demands. It so happens, however, that it is THEY - they remain dissuaded by the futility of marriage and just because they remain unmarried - there is always someone to label them UNDERGROUND - in a way that makes them look "unreliable", "problematic". .. abe what to list. It so happened that I don't have the good fortune to have a wife-chicken non-stop on my head for problems that don't even have a distant connection to reality, beloved children who break my nerves when I come back from work rotten-I'm not saying that's bad .. I don't have a crazy little apartment for the bank to breathe in my neck and my wife to crack that I've been mumbling (quote) -because I haven't found an extra job and curled up at the bottom of my male ego soul that trembles at every step - not to make a shoot from which the bad things become even worse ... Instead, I have the misfortune to have a boyfriend who is super aware of the issue of inviolable territories and I'm fine with her. I have a terrible time to waste the money I have left - because there is no one to bite me. I also have time to waste in the gym and they always tell me that I am 10 years younger - I don't show off ... the logic is very simple - I don't have a wife. On the other hand, I go out whenever I want. Ah - I forgot - I also go home when I want. Having spent a lot of time with my wife and family, I did things I would NEVER do if ... For example, I visited countries with amazing cultures, I read a lot of good books, I met people I will never forget, I learned to I play, sing and dance ... and many, many more .. if you will believe in the bars, the girls tie me up .. well .. still (even those at 19) -if you will believe. I don't brag about it, but it's as if that's why the "busy" around the family hearth label us UNRELIGIOUS - because we had the wisdom to escape from something I call the MILL, and others - marriage, third ... it doesn't matter. Well, that's how we bachelors are - we've just seen and tried more things. It's NORMAL not to become "modeling" and any kind of other manipulations - we just realize .. wow, I wrote something .. let me read it again .. Mmmm .. I like it. Even my mood improved - from disgusting to medium-nasty. I go out to party - when I come back I can be quite OK. Success in everyone's life .. / Valio. around the family hearth we are labeled UNRELIABLE - because we had the wisdom to escape from something I call the MILL, and others - marriage, third .. abe does not matter .. Well, that's what we bachelors-we just saw and tried more things It is NORMAL not to become a "modeling" and any kind of other manipulations - we just realize .. wow I wrote something .. to read it again .. Mmmddaa .. I like it. Even my mood improved - from disgusting to medium-nasty. I go out to party - when I come back I can be quite OK. Success in everyone's life .. / Valio. around the family hearth we are labeled UNRELIABLE - because we had the wisdom to escape from what I call the mill, and others - marriage, others .. abe does not matter .. Well, that's us bachelors-we just saw and tried more things It is NORMAL not to become a "modeling" and any kind of other manipulations - we just realize .. wow I wrote something .. to read it again .. Mmmddaa .. I like it. Even my mood improved - from disgusting to medium-nasty. I go out to party - when I come back I can be quite OK. Success in everyone's life .. / Valio. Wow, I wrote something .. to read it again .. Hmmm .. I like it. Even my mood improved - from disgusting to medium-nasty. I go out to party - when I come back I can be quite OK. Success in everyone's life .. / Valio. Wow, I wrote something .. to read it again .. Hmmm .. I like it. Even my mood improved - from disgusting to medium-nasty. I go out to party - when I come back I can be quite OK. Success in everyone's life .. / Valio.

   За мен старите ергени са ограничени хора, толкова наплашени от жените, че няма накъде. Ето номер 38 се самозалъгва, че направил правилния избор, като не се оженил и колко пълноценен живот живял. Като един мой познат на 50 дето се самозалъгва, че много пътувал и видял и сега кибичи сам по дискотеките да хване някоя млада мацка, понеже и той по-млад изглежда за възрастта си, седи си с тийнейджърското мислене, нищо не е постигал в живота и щрака с пръсти, мислейки, че е ударил 6 тица от тотото. Просто Такива мъже са останали назад в развитието, от психологическа гледна точка се казва регресия, това е защитен механизъм при който човек зацикля на поведение от възраст в която се е чувствал сигурен и безгрижен, защото не е могъл да се справи с отговорностите на зрялата възраст. Човек който се развива нормално ще си поживее от 18 до 30, ще си пътува, ще си има гаджета и т. н. След това вече навлиза в друг етап в който започна да се замисля за по-сериозни неща - семейство, деца, става по-улегнал и отговорен. Просто в развитието на тези хора има нещо нередно, не са преминали благополучно през етапите на развитие и оттам виждате как 50 годишен чичка се изживява като 20 годишен младеж и даже се гордее с това. Не искам никой да обиждам просто обясняван нещата от психологическа гледна точка.

   The speaker - you told yourself the naked truth, I have nothing to add. And precisely because it is so - the old eregni, lagging behind in their development, do not have the necessary mind not to realize that they are backward, but imagine that they have gained something with this selfish way of life, they cannot realize how pathetic they really are in their inability to build a normal relationship with a woman.

   The most important thing is for a person to live according to his understandings, if someone wants a family, to create, if not to create, it is right for everyone to live as he wants. Unfortunately, people are not mature enough to respect other people's opinion, everyone measures with their own yardstick, which is not like me is bad, We like only those who think like us, it is immature and frivolous. I admire everyone who has built their lives according to their own understandings, I guess you will say there are none. I will answer you - THERE IS :)))

   I really liked the opinion of number 41. I do not think that things should be seen only in black and white - if a man is married and has a family, then he is in the column "normal", if he is "old bachelor" - in the "defective" column, not to mention that the very concepts of "old bachelor" and "old maid" are somewhat obsolete. There can be many different reasons for a person to make such a choice - not to get married - ideological, psychological, health, if you will, each person has his own story and you should not judge people who for some reason do not have a family. Yes, globally, life moves forward because children are born, but when it comes to the individual case, everyone decides how to live their life according to their own situation, there are people who have judged, that they would not be good parents and spouses. People have the right to marry and start families, but it is a right and a personal choice, not a mandatory prescription. And again, there are millions of human stories, and before you stick to the epithets of the "old bachelor," take a look at his story.

   Yes, we "old bachelors" are for killing and nothing happens to us. As mentioned above, it is far more "difficult" for a man to get as old as he is and say to himself, "It's time for a child and a woman," and then start filling the belly of the first person you meet, and then they play the game of a supposedly married couple in which everyone lies to the other. Also recently, an acquaintance of mine said: "Better divorced twice than an old girl / bachelor." And probably after her 2 marriages and 3 children she is right for herself, only she misses the moment that she watches from her own bell tower, without caring that 3 children of 2 men, as well as the two divorces have negatively affected everyone. around her, just because she decided at one point that she had to divorce for some self-centered discretion. Of course when a person is alone, it is far easier for someone to accuse him of selfishness, but on the other hand, he cannot be selfish because he has not taken responsibility for another living being, which is a choice, but it is far more ugly and traumatic to want to have a child, a family and then to beat a jester because you had fun. The latter is not selfishness, but nowadays it is called "Difference in Characters", so it is modern. On the other hand, as an old bachelor, I prefer to put up with a lack of luck, which is very important when it comes to finding a mate, than to ruin someone's life, or to marry the wrong one, whose child will be a child, which will suffer because of my irresponsibility. Otherwise, women around us are in pain, either single or FAMILY, who show one person before us and another in front of their family. And yes, the author posted the topic, probably because someone like me, who has morals and does not want to be satisfied with a mediocre bride, cut it off. And we want a family, we want comfort, we want reciprocity, there is no one who does not want this, we just emphasize the factors that lead to this family, not like most who first start a family and then try to compensate for these factors. which is quite difficult. And that is exactly why we are far more "walking" among women, because we have morals, we have a position and we cannot compromise with mediocre women, who, after we get lost, rush to write how bad we are. we are simply emphasizing the factors that lead to this family, not like most who first start a family and then try to compensate for those factors, which is quite difficult. And that is exactly why we are far more "walking" among women, because we have morals, we have a position and we cannot compromise with mediocre women, who, after we get lost, rush to write how bad we are. we are simply emphasizing the factors that lead to this family, not like most who first start a family and then try to compensate for these factors, which is quite difficult. And that is exactly why we are far more "walking" among women, because we have morals, we have a position and we cannot compromise with mediocre women, who, after we get lost, rush to write how bad we are.

   Dude, don't be fooled. The author posted the topic because an old bachelor, who missed all the trains, is now pushing her and she is hesitant. If the old bachelors were sooooooooooooo valuable people, you would have met that immediate woman a long time ago and not been alone. The truth is that people are left alone that other people are unable to endure in a long-term relationship due to some striking flaws in the character.

   Unwritten rules for life are imposed here. Here, each bachelor is treated as an individual. And I will not get married and many more people will not get married and what of it? Everyone chooses how to live. There are some famous athletes from whom we can take the example that marriage is just a formality that is more necessary for women than men. That is why they stigmatize such men in society, because they have remained untrained and unsuspecting. There is nothing to lie about. I may be single and live in a house with a wife and child, but I will not be married. :) There are some. I personally recommend it to most men.

   Hello! I decided to get involved. First with folk wisdom. Up to 20 years marry out of stupidity, up to 30 years. from maturity, up to 40 years relatives, up to 50 years and God can not marry them. / there are exceptions here / Modern society can put 10 years. for the above categories. Maybe another folk wisdom. The man thinks when he marries he will drive her as before marriage, the woman thinks when he marries, he will make his husband in her image and likeness. Guess both are deceived. Third, when you get younger, you can make more compromises and adjust things. When he is after a certain age, everyone has principles, habits, habits, rituals, living with relatives, etc. There is no universal recipe for this. There are two types of people. Some are capable of families and want it. Others are capable of independent, non-binding family life. But there are exceptions. So my advice is, when you are at a certain age, tell yourself things from the beginning and clarify. Suppose one gets worse and the two sides lie and then fill the forums with labels. That's when the relationship is clean and we both know what we want or it will be a family or just living together. This is for №34 and №38. So the universal tips and recipes sank into Atlantis. The other thing is that after a meeting and separation, we learn a lot more about ourselves what we want and do not want and then we will avoid mistakes, including compromises / but not like it is the first time, second come on there will be no third time or for her also applies. I am happily married at 23 years old. and I have a family and children. The responsibility is mine before me wife children society. What did I understand then, but over the years, with respect and compromise, my wife and I became a machine. I'm not a man under a slipper. We are all heads of families, but let me not forget that our wives are Shiite necks. Where the neck turns, the head also turns. This is from me. alager

   I'm 48 and when someone mentions "old bachelor", I correct it - "EZ" / bachelor from the stock / - a title that everyone like me should be proud of and not ashamed of. I was an old bachelor until 5 years ago. I am fed up with the battle with "Venus", to which the dozens of cases of pressure from anyone to change my marital status have contributed to a huge extent, which in turn has always reminded me of a joke about the Bulgarian cauldron in hell ...

   God forbid from such TERRIBLY satisfied selfish pathetic men as number 38.

   I am horrified at the thought of having to admit a woman into my life who will so masterfully "rearrange" him that I will not be able to know myself! I say this on the occasion of observing the relationship of a friendly couple .. She gets used to it and humiliates him constantly, without considering anything - whether he is with them, whether they are among other people, acquaintances, strangers - it doesn't matter - if she decides to bark - she barks so that everyone can hear her. It is obvious to him and he loves her even more - and for me it is incomprehensible? !! Doesn't this man really feel like he's losing himself, fuck that people like me would talk behind his back, that they would call him a "slipper", a "path" and the like. From the position of a bachelor - I'm not old yet;) - I can't imagine letting someone treat me like that, EVEN less my favorite and beloved person! This is a public demonstration of disrespect and contempt, as well as a clear lack of self-respect! I don't understand it and I wouldn't put up with it even if I went crazy with love for her! Yes, I may have to be alone because of this, but I will not compromise on that! Is it possible that the woman in question is so dumb that she doesn't understand that with these public "heroic" performances and demonstrations on her part she is ruining the authority of the couple as a whole .... Well, as he is still to blame for something - why don't change it after all! Energy vampire and manipulator! I haven't hit a woman, but I would make an exception for her! I may have to stay alone because of this, but I will not compromise on that! Is it possible that the woman in question is so dumb that she doesn't understand that with these public "heroic" performances and demonstrations on her part she is ruining the authority of the couple as a whole .... Well, as he is still to blame for something - why don't change it after all! Energy vampire and manipulator! I haven't hit a woman, but I would make an exception for her! I may have to stay alone because of this, but I will not compromise on that! Is it possible that the woman in question is so dumb that she doesn't understand that with these public "heroic" performances and demonstrations on her part she is ruining the authority of the couple as a whole .... Well, as he is still to blame for something - why don't change it after all! Energy vampire and manipulator! I haven't hit a woman, but I would make an exception for her!

   48, you're right! God forbid men like 38! Hopefully his boyfriend (if he has one!) Will run away FARLY from him, if he wants to have children one day, that he will fuck her life cruelly! F41

   42, you are right, but people like 38 THEY chose to be like that and even "explained" why! Well, he deserves ALL the bad epithets and clichés of a mentally overripe and immature!

   49, but it's just - DO NOT ALLOW such a woman to yourself! The choice is yours! As your friend's choice is HIS and he doesn't stick his nose in other people's lives !!! You have no right to judge other people's women (or anyone). Egati "male"!

   49, it follows from your writings that marriages and relationships are almost a lottery in which you fall for a certain woman and this is the end! as they have already written to you, man makes his own choice. you are a mature person, even despised, you have eyes and ears, judge and decide, it is elementary! respect the choice of your friend, your decision is his, the consequences (positive and negative) - too. it is not your job to take a stand at all. F43