Hello! I will describe the situation to you as soon as possible. A week ago I went with a boy of 24, I'm 18. Very often comes the evenings in us. He is so careful and perverted at the same time. He tells me dirty things and the next moment I give him hints of sex, and he is so careful with me that he hardly touches me. If something gets hot, he pulls away and tells me how the age difference is very big and I'm too small for him, how he feels bad, but at the same time great with me. Age is a big problem for him and I don't understand why. He himself told me about his acquaintances with a difference of at least 10 years. I also have classmates who date 27, 28, 29 year old men, I do not consider it normal, but compared to them I think that our relationship is closer. I don't think ours is big, and he looks at me like a little girl who is so pure and innocent, almost - I do not want to make love to me because he considers me a child. Today he tells me how undressed and sexy I am and seconds later we push each other, he stopped, stepped back and said "I feel like some grandfather who is intruding on a young girl" and stepped back. I don't understand what to do to prove to him that I'm ready and I've even had sex, that for me he is not some "old man / grandfather", for me he is a wonderful boy with whom I feel happy. He actually looks like a 12th grader, he's very cute. Give advice! For now, I'll just try to talk to him and wait for him to feel really "good" to me.
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Women think a lot, you just have to talk. When you tell him that you did it and you accept it completely, I think there will be no problem!
You have to tell him simply as you told us .... That he is cute and you really want him in your life and the difference doesn't matter to you ... While he is pushing you, tell him and look him in the eyes .... . C. Don't set examples with your other girlfriends and their husbands ... No man likes to be compared.
This "man" is either a virgin or a man who has tried to have sex somewhere and failed and is reluctant to try again. This apology with a difference in age is complete nonsense, it is another reason. As you press, does he get aroused and does he allow you to touch his cock, if he doesn't allow you, show impudence and knock him down to make sure he gets aroused. If you get aroused, just show audacity and take matters into your own hands, since you are not a virgin, it will not be difficult for you. Then if he pushes you away, sit down and talk to him seriously. Apparently he has some kind of mental trauma, but he doesn't want to talk about it. He doesn't have ceremonies at all, but be cheeky to make sure age stops him or something else. I am a man and I guess what is wrong with him, but I do not agree at all with the thesis AGE. If he doesn't relax, just dump him and find someone you care about, not your age. The male breed is doing badly, it's time for women to take matters into their own hands, and men should be ashamed to refuse that they have a headache or similar nonsense
Most likely he is a virgin and does not know how to act! In this case, he is expected to be more experienced, but the reality is clearly different and he is afraid of failure! It's as if I'm being described at that age - I was the same virgin jerk who was liked by many girls, but didn't know what to do! I had a similar case, with exactly the same difference in the years 23/17, in which we did not have sex and we separated, and she may have thought the opposite of me! After the first sex, things turned 180 and I was no longer that jerk :) Obviously you have to act!
Something slammed into his desk. We recently broke up with my girlfriend, who was 18, when we left. He's 20 now, and I'm 37. I've never had a better relationship. We lived backwards for 2 years. In fact, at the moment it is not known whether we are separated, there is no reason. We are just in different countries, very far from each other. June, I hope things change. Try to tell yours that you love him as he is and he doesn't need to put his complexes on the table.
This only passes with age if one is under 16. You are both big people, and if you are not a virgin when you are younger, just tell him how much you are attracted to him and that age has nothing to do with you. It is neither illegal nor immoral. As those before me say, touch him, be a little cheeky, but mostly talk to him. Ask him why he thinks so, what stops him, if age is such a problem, why he met you at all and kept in touch to such a level that you are together. Good luck and hope things work out.