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By vitaly August 13, 2020 18 answers Last updated August 13, 2020

Hello, I have had a problem for a long time that I can't share with anyone and I decided to write here :) I am in love for the first time, but there is one detail - he is a Christian and I am a Muslim. I mentioned to my parents about him and they are firmly against him, they threatened to kick me out of the house, and his parents accepted me normally, they have a very kind attitude towards me. Please give me advice on how to proceed, whether there is any possibility for us to be together in the future, how to make my parents accept it, because I do not want anyone to suffer, neither I nor they. I don't think I'm giving up on him, I love him terribly and I want to be with him forever. Please advise me ...

Answers 18

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li_lia answered · August 13, 2020

   egati savagery, we are all the same, safe from these religions, god is in everyone's soul, if you love him and he loves you, you fit in, get married .... this is

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myassistant answered · August 13, 2020

   I have been an atheist for as long as I can remember. I do not believe. Religions seem to teach well. But this is not the case at all. As is implied in your problem, religion divides people. He sets them against each other. Religion is evil;)

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adenbajaj answered · August 13, 2020

   Hi, I am also a Muslim. I would advise you to meet and try to show yours that he is chaste, not to want to fuck you and leave you, be very careful.

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joker answered · August 13, 2020

   Well, Muslims are wrong, whether they are parents or whatever! Their place is in the 18th, not the 21st century! How can a normal person stop a girl because she has fallen in love with a Christian ?! If it was someone greasy, illiterate and smelly bashibozuk-kamikaze then everything would be electricity and wire, right ?! And №3 gives some advice - put his ashes! Brainwashed, whatever you show and prove to them, they live with the understandings and thinking of the Middle Ages, and even become harder in them! In today's world, dear Muslims, they will fuck you up and even fuck you if you are rubbish, whether you are Muslim or Christian, but the reason for that will be in you and in what you represent, and not that others are non-believers. №3, Do you know what the greatest fear of the Muslims is that they so zealously guard and tremble over the girls? Maybe the girls get to know Christians and see how much more free-thinking, free and liberal they are, and what retrograde and backward garbage (most) Muslims are! Because they hope that the enslavement of women in the Muslim world, which they call "chastity" and "decency", will continue for a long time. This is the bondage of the psyche on every level! It is equally harmful for men and women ... Just a very simple question: WHY do Muslims keep pushing to go to Christian countries - to work there, to acquire citizenship, to raise minarets and try to commit atrocities? Why don't the Germans, the French, the Bulgarians push into Anatolia? You won't like the honest answer at all, right? That is why it is much easier to declare yourself a saint and Christians to be rubbish that needs to be "humanized" and "put on the right path / faith," even though you are the ones who need to be done that. You are like eyes - you see what everyone else is like, but not yourself how bad you are.

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humilcuck answered · August 13, 2020

   The parents are up to date, and with the husband and children on. If they don't like it, they will have to deal with the SI problem on their own. And what if they kick you out? There are rooms and work. You may be better. Parents must support their children. Now it's time to find out what kind of goods are yours. If they deserve to be friends with them, if they will not be left with the bare care of them, out of one respect that they raised them. But friendships are won, even between children and parents. I have 4 children, I know what I'm talking about :)

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wet_n_wild29 answered · August 13, 2020

   3, I do not intend to get into stupid arguments, but you are speaking quite deliberately. You have a preconceived notion and you refract each story through your own prism to prove to yourself how true your reasoning was. But until you open your mind, you can't understand me. Still, I'll try, and if you have a little consciousness, you'll understand me, if not, I don't blame you, because obviously it's not your time to grow spiritually and you'll blame the whole world for things that just have to happen on this stage because they can't get ahead of their time. So, let me tell you first that not all Muslims are like that. Don't listen to what the media tells you and don't take everything for granted, at least because there is a lot of politics in them. Yes, there are "bashibozuzi", but they are a small part of Muslims. And the vast majority do not tolerate them, especially since they themselves have suffered from this terrorism. If you take some time to communicate and get to know such people, and you do not accept everything that people say blindly without thinking, you will realize that it is not exactly as it seems. Second, there are many Christians with a very closed mind. Take, for example, religious suicides, the ritual crucifixion of the Philippines and Mexico, and many others. not to mention. And not only Christians - and Buddhists, Hindus, Jews, etc. It is not a matter of religion, but of consciousness. In every religion there is an open and closed consciousness. And we can't blame anyone, because some need a path to walk to reach a certain consciousness. As you can't blame the first-grader for not understanding higher mathematics. As for how Muslim men oppressed women - well, aren't there Christians, Jews, atheists who don't do it, and aren't there Muslims who don't. And the other thing is, not always, when it seems that way to you, it really is. What you are going for is just a piece of the whole picture that you cannot know. If you knew her, you wouldn't be so extreme, because you have reasons for everything. Sometimes a woman isn't a flower to smell, and that's the only way, no matter how nasty it is. were you beter muslims then? But if you didn't know in advance what she did to them, you would judge him and accuse him of not being a Bulgarian, but a gypsy Muslim, right? And how about why Muslims were pushing in Western countries. Well, basically for the same reasons that Bulgarians are pushing - economically. Americans didn't come to Bulgaria either, did they? And by the way, in some Arab countries, Westerners do go to live there and do business - for example in Kuwait, Qatar, UAE, but they are economically developed and are light years away from Bulgaria in this regard. And this is not only because of oil, but because of wise and moral rulers. Even if we have 5 times as much oil here, it will not work, because two or three oligarchs will come, plunder everything and show the middle finger of the common man. So my advice is - don't attack and don't try to convince me how guilty I am, but think a little about your truths, which you have accepted as so unshakable. The truth is not one, but multi-layered, ie different according to your consciousness. If your consciousness only reaches the first layer, you will say that your truth is truth and it is only one, but if your consciousness reaches a little further from the nose, you will understand that it is not so.

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zekefam12 answered · August 14, 2020

   1 and 2, religions really teach us goodness, the problem is not in religions, but in us, the people who do not understand them correctly. Nowhere, in any holy book (regardless of religion) is violence, division, etc. preached. I exclude some sects, but they are not exactly religions. However, some fools interpret things as they are told and abuse it for personal gain, sometimes even unknowingly and so mislead other people. Examples: religious fanaticism, terrorism, even the Sicilian mafia has used religion as a means of manipulating its members (they had religious rituals, etc.), the church for material gain, politicians, incl. and the Roman emperor once used it to quell divisions in the vast Roman Empire, which was becoming increasingly difficult to govern. So it's not the religions, we're the bad ones. The original idea of ​​religions is far from what many people are trying to come up with today. But a blind believer prefers not to think and seek the truth about himself, but to succumb to the manipulation of such as greedy priests, terrorists, immoral politicians.

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calumchambers95 answered · August 14, 2020

   1 and 2, religions really teach us goodness, the problem is not in religions, but in us, the people who do not understand them correctly. Nowhere, in any holy book (regardless of religion) is violence, division, etc. preached. I exclude some sects, but they are not exactly religions. However, some fools interpret things as they are told and abuse it for personal gain, sometimes even unknowingly and so mislead other people. Examples: religious fanaticism, terrorism, even the Sicilian mafia has used religion as a means of manipulating its members (they had religious rituals, etc.), the church for material gain, politicians, incl. and the Roman emperor once used it to quell divisions in the vast Roman Empire, which was becoming increasingly difficult to govern. So it's not the religions, we're the bad ones. The original idea of ​​religions is far from what many people are trying to come up with today. But a blind believer prefers not to think and seek the truth about himself, but to succumb to the manipulation of such as greedy priests, terrorists, immoral politicians.

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sexytjhing answered · August 14, 2020

   The deep countryside has its say. What do these Pomaks have against us Bulgarians? After all, they are also Bulgarians who converted to Islam many years ago. That's why it's good to be educated, to know your history and not to be a fanatic!

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resepanekamasakan answered · August 15, 2020

   think like number 4. become a christian and break up with your mother and father.

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alisonquiroz answered · August 15, 2020

   Number 4 as it is fashionable to say: respect !!! Accurate and comprehensive. Islam is the most disgusting religion! I have not heard others kill, slaughter and hang in the name of their god. And don't tell me that God was one for all. Ask a Muslim and see what he says.

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ms_jojo answered · August 15, 2020

   Author: I do not intend to become a Christian, because my friend's parents accept me as I am, I do not intend to forget my parents, because I respect them very much, I just want them to get used to the idea that nothing will change, that I will be happy with this man and that I will love them forever. But I don't know how to explain to them that both they and I are happy with this situation ... Perhaps what worries them the most is the fact that our children will not be Muslims ...

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3sweetcandy3 answered · August 16, 2020

   There is a text in the Old Testament that says that if a relative or wife of yours gives up their faith in a god, you must stone him / her to death. All religions are one valley of cornflowers.

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virus_of_life answered · August 16, 2020

   by not renouncing your religion, find a Muslim and stand by the rights that Islam gives you.

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magicmushroomhead64 answered · August 17, 2020

   number 13: there is no such thing, this is what a Muslim brother of yours told you

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bigreddogatl answered · August 17, 2020

   If your parents allow you to be with your loved one, then listen to number 3. If you want to please his parents, listen to him again. If you want to please yourself, love each other, have sex, etc. However, it would be good to specify your ethnic origin, because it is very common, so to speak, and different ethnic groups have different traditions. If, for example, the boy is Bulgarian and you are soft, then things can go very smoothly, but if, for example, you are of Arab origin, then you will already have a problem. Remember that God is one, and as the popular American joke goes, He has no place in bed.

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desyratnasarifans answered · August 17, 2020

   Hello! I am also a Muslim and I also fell in love with Christians. I don't know if that's true, but I don't think your parents will really kick you out. Of course, they will not be happy inside, but in this life you can not please everyone. A relative of mine also married a Christian, but she did not change her religion or husband, and she did not mind their daughter visiting the Mosque. I advise you to try to talk to your parents. Remember that we live only once. Everyone has their own life and everyone decides what to do with their life.

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fluffcuff answered · August 18, 2020

   I think you should forget it. However, it is not right to oppose your parents for a boy.