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By FreakyCassie October 11, 2020 27 answers Last updated October 11, 2020

I am 22 years old and I did it for the first time last year with the boy I am with now. Between us, everything is great without sex, however. I know that the reason is in me, simply because I am not liberated enough. For example, I don't like sex toys, I don't watch porn, I don't dress like that just to please him or I don't wear any special underwear. He says nothing, but I see him. When he sees a woman more naked, so to speak, his eyes widen. I heard him when we were with friends and I almost didn't know how he and a friend of his were discussing a girl from the next table in a short dress and how her breasts were transparent. Even my best friend advised me to let go because he would get tired of such a woman. And I'm embarrassed to talk about these topics. Please say something .............

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bakedblondie69 answered · October 11, 2020

   It's all in your head! Don't put up barriers. Give free rein to your imagination so that it is good for you and the person next to you. Don't worry about your sexuality, show it. You're not asexual, don't act like one. Every woman should be a slut in bed. You can't have any desires and naughty scenarios. Play them! Relax as much as possible and things will turn out very easily. If you have to tie his eyes and hands, control the situation. You don't have to do things you think are unacceptable, at least in the beginning. A sensual fellatio for an appetizer, then the main one. It is enough to "use" it freely and freely to finish it (in the "rider" it is the easiest). Even that can drive him crazy with pleasure, knowing what you want and getting it. Find the slumbering slut in you and act! Do not underestimate yourself and do not compare yourself with anyone. Not with the chick at the next table, not with the one with the big cleavage. There will always be someone more experienced and generally "better" than you, but if your partner knows what's in your face he will just look, he will appreciate the good and he will stop there. It's not scary that he hasn't known your naughty side so far. These things are good to show and try gradually, so that there is always something new to fight the routine. Come on, good luck! Hide the ball from him, because you definitely can! :) Chile These things are good to show and try gradually, so that there is always something new to fight the routine. Come on, good luck! Hide the ball from him, because you definitely can! :) Chile These things are good to show and try gradually, so that there is always something new to fight the routine. Come on, good luck! Hide the ball from him, because you definitely can! :) Chile

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xsexyindianx answered · October 11, 2020

   When you realize it, why don't you change? There is nothing strange, you will just make him happy, if you love him and hold on to him, it would be nice for you.

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asianlilkitty answered · October 11, 2020

   For a start, change your hair color :) Red is gypsy, blonde chicks look cheap ... so a brunette is the best choice. Listen Chile, she's a big SLUT and doesn't miss a reason to mention him: D: D: D;)

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vagabond_ answered · October 11, 2020

   And you, number 4, how long will you pretend to be original on my back? There's probably nothing else to stand out with ... Poor thing! I see that you follow my every comment with keen interest. I touched! So, you say you're trying to bite? Come on, live your second glory! My treat! It's a holiday after all! Chile

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thecreatures answered · October 11, 2020

   Chile, you know how I hate someone telling me what to do. If a woman doesn't want to be a slut on the inside, as you call her (I would say "liberated"), she better not pretend to be one. You know what they call dirty bastards, don't you? Prostitutes. to the author: Men like it with their eyes. The stronger he wants you, the more passionate your sex will be, and the pleasure will be for both of you. Shame, dizziness and complexes are the enemies of sexual pleasure. I'm sure you have no reason to feel that way. If you do not get rid of them (and it is possible that I have gone your way) you will lose a unique experience. Trust me. ж42

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egypthick answered · October 11, 2020

   Yes, red - gypsy. You seem to have seen the redhead only in Stolipinovo. Author, no painting. You received very good advice from Chile. Act. But

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soranacirstea answered · October 11, 2020

   Do not change your hair color! Each of us has a taste and we have different skin color, eyes and eyebrows - respectively we have a different hair color. Black is the worst option - it gets old, it is unnatural and very difficult to switch to another color.Suprata (white blond) does not go to any woman.There is a large selection on the market, find something natural as a color

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Kailee_Stark answered · October 11, 2020

   Men like to stare, no matter who they are or what she looks like. Especially when they are in the company of men - they kill some male instincts and start to admire everything and love to comment on each other. Just don't get attached to them! And if you are together, then he liked what you are - at least the appearance, it starts there. In my opinion, be yourself, and the desire for more perverted sex - comes with time and there is no need to hurry :)))

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KinkyMisss answered · October 11, 2020

   Who tells her 40 and over the year (number 6) what to do? And obviously she has to, because she thinks she's 14 years old. Chile gives advice, quite useful and it. You must attack her. Apparently this feeds you. I'm sorry! It is clear what you are, envious simple! And in the end, you repeat what Chile said. You're exposing yourself! You have become an old woman! Is that so? You've come a long way and you haven't gotten anywhere.

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projared answered · October 11, 2020

   From number 4: I believe that the beauty of a person is in his balance, in harmony. Harmony between mind and body means loving yourself as you are. without turning into Narcissus. If a woman respects herself, she will be beautiful. She will take care of herself. Don't expect much from a man, once you realize that you are not doing anything for yourself! As for Chile, she still thinks it's all about her. It's not my fault that your husband wasn't home on March 8th :) Keep the treat for him, he doesn't think of me;) But, to be honest, I haven't seen redheads in a few years, really, except for gypsies and women over 40 :) I don't get annoyed!

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matthew_96 answered · October 11, 2020

   'Men like it with their eyes. The more he wants you, the more passionate your sex will be, and the pleasure will be for both of them. 'What kind of nonsense is that, aunt? So is it enough to be beautiful? To open your legs and wait like a tree to be pounded? That an artificial vagina is a far better option. At least you shouldn't take her to dinner before that. You are very elementary, hey! So less beautiful women will never be loved, right? So you know nothing about life and sex. Only your age is very much for you. You seem to have lost a lot of 'unique experiences'.

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cozy_a answered · October 11, 2020

   Are sex and beauty interrelated? I really wonder, do you think? I'm not one of the most beautiful girls, almost 70 kg, I am and I definitely don't look like the stunning models in the magazines, BUT what the hell is bothering the great experiences in bed ??

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katy_perry20 answered · October 12, 2020

   Number 4/12, I know a girl with red hair and brown eyes (as the author describes) and let me tell you she looks pretty good girl. So for that ... Ale

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conzolini049 answered · October 12, 2020

   Oh, number 4 decided to demonstrate a thought process! Commendable! You were influenced by my remark. My comments weighed heavily, even on you. Rather MAINLY on you. It can be seen that everything ABOUT YOU revolves around me, you demonstrate this. Here you have read another post ... It is far better to mention me with hatred than to be impersonal and unnoticed (like you). So come on! Chile

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smokeycouple4amercia answered · October 12, 2020

   Yes! So my guesses were confirmed! Chile, you are a woman who suffers from an inferiority complex !!! Envy Me (number 4)

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strongman4ladies answered · October 12, 2020

   A, be cauliflower, the girl you are discussing, the author dmek, is not a girl for a long time. Except that she tasted sex too late, so she wonders what is going on between her legs. If there was anything in the pumpkin, he wouldn't have asked his stupid questions in a long time. But it's full of smart people in dresses or pants, flies are buzzing in their heads. Pull back, walk backwards, and we men will shoot you like game. Well, we shoot once, twice, and since you are so cunning, we drop you and shoot others - more stupidly. But if they were alive and well, because if you were all smart, we would die of boredom.

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pmln answered · October 12, 2020

   Listen envy me, I think you're here to give advice, not to bite people who are obviously more understanding than you, swallow a valerian and calm the passions for this chili girl, you become funny because she gives very good advice to the girl and you stupider than changing your color I can't think of, shut up because you're very annoying! Magicians

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snapshotpb answered · October 13, 2020

   Look now, Maggie, first: this Chile girl is not a girl, she's a little lady. Second: Obviously you are not so understanding here, because if you were like that you would be in my opinion;) Third: Valerian children do not drink, for the simple reason that I am a super calm person, and plus I am too young. As far as I know, these pills are mostly for little ladies, who powerfully enter the critical one: D Fourth: I have little interest in who irritates and who doesn't! Fifth: To the author: I seriously advise you to start with the hair;) Envy Me

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johhnnybad answered · October 13, 2020

   Thanks for all the comments. Especially for the person who wrote 18, I know what's between my legs. And in principle, with your help, I think I'll think of something :) And I just don't see the connection between red hair and brown eyes with the residents of Stolipinovo but .........

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MsKristinaKis answered · October 13, 2020

   14 if you are very ugly, I can't enjoy you in sex. Yes!

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kateosa answered · October 13, 2020

   18-> "I know what's in my legs". Oh, yes! Because my legal mistress (for life, of course) did like you - a tree, by suggestion, otherwise she is not frigid. She plays circuses for me, to prove how much I respect her, until I finally respected her as they deserve - I made myself available to another lady who doesn't pretend to be great. Ah, well, for the simpler - I caught my mistress. Because sex wasn't the most important thing, but not for everyone ... When you don't do anything for yourself, it also means that you only expect to get in sex. Everything is taken over by the partner. Learn to respect your sense of self and show attention to yourself. That way he will know that you don't care. Otherwise, it turns out that you "let him go" at his mercy. I would dump you. I do not need mercy, but a woman who has the inner need to surrender.

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kunekaroz24 answered · October 13, 2020

   But are you seriously christened that way? And do you seriously consider yourself an unexperienced psychologist, that you are trying to make a psychological portrait of me? Oh, I can do that too, and much better: First, your mother is an aunt, just like you will be! That even more sour, lonely and dissatisfied Second - you advise people not to become narcissistic, and you choose a name that suggests that people envy you The third, coming from the second - if you think so much over us, that we envy you, So you are Narcissus Fourth - Daffodils often compensate for something - lack of attention, love, INSECURITY COMPLEX, with derailed self-confidence, which defines them as such. But that's right, when you have nothing, you have self-confidence. Not without Chile this, Chile that, of course. You needed me to come up with a name even ... And I myself have no pretensions that everything revolves around me, that's what you take care of. And let me have more in the complex! Stay calm and envious, even with health! Chile

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sabrinasato answered · October 14, 2020

   Now, when you mention my name, remind me of yours. Do you remember yours when it was reborn ?! As for the fact that I will also become a nanny - yes, life and health, this will happen to me too, but the difference is that you will not return to my age! My self-esteem is covered. My self-assessment is quite accurate. Above all, I respect myself and this is obvious, not only in my appearance. I've never lacked attention - on the contrary :) Envy Me

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cslewisdaily answered · October 14, 2020

   I remember very well where my name was "revived" and achieved its goal then, and to this day - to irritate and "anger" you. You (and your attitude) are living proof of that. However, it is unlikely that someone will envy you, except in your own head. I also tell you (if I'm not already, because you look a lot like my "girlfriend" a little girl from your favorite topic) that your idea of ​​me has nothing to do with reality. Nothing, you live in the movie for your own uniqueness, and the complex, "cheap blondes" and "gypsy redheads" left us! At least think about how many people you insult besides me? I will not deal with you anymore, I will only envy you! Ahahahahahahahaha To the author - please pay attention again to the posts, especially to Ale! He is firmly in your support,

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arielle_aqua answered · October 14, 2020

   Abe, are you normal, Envy me, what are you here for, to give advice or to constantly pick on Chile. You just get funny. Magicians

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karamelkak answered · October 14, 2020

   So, I took the trouble to read all the comments again. The advice to the author is small compared to the dispute over which is more. Envy Me and Chile, post a photo of yourself, this is the easiest way to resolve the dispute :) To the author - do not touch your hair! But

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newsradar answered · October 14, 2020

   Hey, you're a little naughty, Ale ... :) You don't care, just don't be disappointed by the fact that I'm not a set of Lily Ivanova, as it is supposed here, I'm older :))) I see how it will give a correct assessment of our "weight" as people ... Remind me of that joke where a woman introduces her husband to colleagues, and they remain, to put it mildly, shocked! She: "Well, you don't look at it like that! To see in a photo how nice it is ..." As for the author's advice - it has already been given. It all depends on her. I hope we helped her at least a little, especially to make her "sweet" herself. Chile