3Hello, I am a girl of 20 years, I can not say that I have had many sexual acts in my life in general, nor partners. Not because I look bad, but simply because I'm a little old school if I may say so, and after a few failed relationships, I didn't throw myself into sex or life in general, but chose to wait for the right man. So ... my concern is that during the sexual intercourse I've had so far, it's always been hard for me (not to say impossible) to get aroused => I don't like it, I don't like it. And somehow I began to feel afraid that this would become a serious problem. I want to add that in masturbation - I have no problem with arousal (now most will probably say "instead of masturbating have sex" is, yes but no, I do not like to have sex with the first or second met) Nasko I met a person with whom maybe things get worse and .. maybe something serious will come out and I'm worried about the fact that if it comes to sex (which is normal) just I won't be able to get aroused, he won't be OK, I won't be a little more.
Maybe I think too much about it, and maybe it's due to something else. The only thing I am asking for here is for understanding and possible advice that could be of help to me. 3flat comments or mockery devoid of any kind of logic, I will not take them into account at all. Thanks! to me a little more. Maybe I think too much about it, and maybe it's due to something else. The only thing I am asking for here is for understanding and possible advice that could be of help to me. 3flat comments or mockery devoid of any kind of logic, will not take them into account at all. Thanks! to me a little more. Maybe I think too much about it, and maybe it's due to something else. The only thing I am asking for here is for understanding and possible advice that could be of help to me. 3flat comments or mockery devoid of any kind of logic, will not take them into account at all. Thanks!
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Buy a lubricant and stop thinking about the "problem". The more you think, the harder it will be. Indulge in the moment, the pleasure and the closeness with your partner.
You have to be aroused minutes before you start having sex, not waiting to get aroused after you have already started !! This shows the disease of 20-year-olds, they have sex out of curiosity and as a duty, things are not like that. The problem is not in your body, but in the perception of sex by you. Sex is not made for sex, but when you are in love, when you tremble only from the touch of the man next to you, because you want them strongly, what is left to get to undressing and caressing, then they are flooded with heat, and when you get to sex and penetration, the excitement is already halfway and takes over your body and soul in one, until you reach the end. Stop having sex like you're going out for coffee. This is not a job, but a pleasure, I will repeat - if you are not already aroused with the clothes, do not expect good sex :)
I do not understand! How come "sex will come about" and you won't get aroused? YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX IF YOU ARE NOT EXCITATED IN ADVANCE. It's just like 2 and 2 - four!
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