Hello, I am a young man, I have been living, studying and working in Sofia for several years, I come from a small Bulgarian town. When I was a student, I dreamed of leaving the small town and going to Sofia. I was bored and of the same type, in Sofia I was attracted by career opportunities, the many girls, the youth entertainment. I also found a good job, a girl and new friends. Lately, however, a thought has not given me peace, and it is radically contrary to my previous reasoning. Shouldn't I go back to my hometown? I know that there are no great career prospects, but it is calm, clean, in nature, perfect for starting a family. Sofia seems to me more and more dirty and more and more busy. Every day I have to travel long distances to work, constant noise and crowds from everywhere. Not to mention that the rents are huge for accommodation. However, there are still factors which stop me from coming back - my girlfriend, who has no desire to go to a small town and wants to be in Sofia, the lack of many jobs in my hometown and therefore I have to accept that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. that I will not have a great career development, the lack of many cultural events. 1. Do you think I should follow my current desire to return to the small town or will I regret it? 2. Are there any girls who would choose to change the big city with the small one at all, because I notice that we men are more inclined to such a decision? 3. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both. Great career or quiet life? This is the essence of the whole dilemma, and I still can't figure out in my head what is worth more than both.
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It doesn't matter at all what it is and what we think it is - you will not live with any of those we write to you here, and each person has different preferences. All this you and your girlfriend should discuss. After you ask, I will say my opinion: in my opinion, the only thing that is worth it, as you put it, is a great career and a quiet life - any other option leads to a feeling of dissatisfaction in the years to come.
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I understand you quite well because I am in a similar situation, but I live in England. I was recently offered a new job in a very small village and I accepted it. But my friend lives and works in London ... he doesn't want to hear about moving outside London and now I'm in a position to move to him eventually ... I don't like London - respectively Sofia. It's very busy, noisy, busy, expensive mostly ... and dangerous. I would gladly choose the smaller town, but I can't say how long I would be able to live there - it will hardly be a lifetime. If you decide to return to the small town, it is unlikely that your relationship with your girlfriend will be rosy, especially if she herself does not want to come with you ... which I understand. Working in a small town and development - hard work ... I don't think it matters men, women ... gender doesn't matter when it comes to moving - it's all about a man ... like I told you, I'm a girl and I'm for living in a small town, but my boyfriend is a resounding no. But if you ask me if the great career or the quiet life - I will definitely tell you the career !!! You will live a quiet life when you grow old ... then you will not even have a choice and no one will ask you if you want or not ... a career is something you build when you are young, energetic, healthy, right, as they say ... at the age of 50 and wanting to move back to Sofia to build a career - things are unlikely to turn out the way they would for you now ... but if you think you will be in your hometown happier and fuller, move there! It's not said you'll stay there forever ... if you don't like it and realize
Sofia looks like nothing. Terrible city. And it was filled with gypsies from all over Bulgaria. I left it (our so-called dingy capital, which looks like the Ghetto now) and went to live in a seaside town all year round. Here I hope to meet a foreigner. Even if it doesn't happen, I still prefer the town to Sofia. But unlike you, I have no dreams of a career, especially in . Unfortunately, things didn't work out for me when I was younger (I look 20 but I'm 30 and I don't have much desire for a career anymore) just things didn't work out for me, but I've always dreamed of living abroad. And I don't like Bulgarians, I get along better with foreigners and most of all I like them more. It's up to you. Not from us and not even from your girlfriend. If you want a career in this unfortunate country so much, stay in Sofia.