Hello, a 20-year-old, confused girl is writing to you. I will try to be brief in my story, but I will also ask for it to be uploaded, thanks in advance. it all started 3 years ago when I met the boy I live with now I moved in with him before I graduated, my family approved him and everything was fine until I finished, so I did not enroll her because of the circumstances with him we are staying in small town and we are financially stable, I want to say that we lack nothing but .. only he works I could not find a job and so to this day, I soon met his family, they are far away and we do not see them often but we communicate on the phone, they are not very understanding people and we have a lot of problems with them. I'm confused because since I met them, My boyfriend and I started having problems, his parents started interfering more and more in our relationship, I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore, but the problem is that I can't go back to my parents, I don't have financial support, I have nowhere to go, and I can no longer support his parents. Please advice, I will be grateful if you do not criticize me.
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Hello. So you're with the boy just because he supports you. That's how I see it. And why can't you go back to yours? They are your family, they should always be by your side and you should always have a place with them. And you will look for a new sponsor, because yours will not support you? There are two options: either you endure, or you find a job, accommodation and move out. I don't think you like it very much.
from the author: you misunderstood me, I want to find a job, but nowhere and my friend does not allow me and I love him a hell of a lot but his parents really drive me crazy.
Talk to him and tell him that you are not comfortable with his parents interfering.
Girl, get a job somewhere. I was in the same situation - I moved in with a boy some time ago, unlike you, my parents didn't approve of him, and after we started arguing every day, he started attacking me. I didn't work in the meantime, he supported me, and so on for a year. In the end, I decided that my family was right and I just moved in with them, I had found another job before. No one told me to leave or go back to him. Find a job, raise some money and go to yours or accommodation. Do not wait for the moment when verbal aggression will turn into physical. With best wishes!