Hi, Hmm, I chose this category because I think I have a problem with the attributes of the title. I'm not very sure where and how to start, so as not to be too wordy and boring, but not to remain unfounded in my problem, for which I will ask to be apologized, preventively! I think it is correct to say that I am old enough to have the right to discuss my sexual, to call them, adversity, although I do not think the word is correct. I have a stable family and two married daughters - one very recently. I work in a popular financial institution in an average or slightly below average professional position. What my loved ones know about me, however ... is not what I am in essence, but what I show them (or hide successfully as far as I can). The truth is that for many years I have observed public decency, which I would not want to manifest in reality. I know some socially unacceptable aspects of the lives of my colleagues, bosses and subordinates and I feel somehow lagging behind in this respect. Increasingly, I have to weigh my husband's declining attention to my intimate needs on the one hand, and the strong influence of my position as an object of intimate attention on many and objectively eroactive specimens of the opposite sex, including significant younger than me. I know I'm talking about a hopeless relationship. but I haven't seen sex as a source of future addictions in a long time. However, I know that deviating from family intimacy will bring me severe negatives.
I do not know with what confidence, almost all colleagues do it. Okay, now the reality: I've been doing it for about a year. I do it with every man who is ready. I do it at home, in the family bed, which my husband ... um ... I try, neighbors, acquaintances or friends not to understand, but it's becoming more and more dangerous for that to happen. For the first time in my life, I am experiencing physical pleasures I never dared to dream of. It gives me masochistic pleasure to define myself as a true, despised bitch (the star is out of tolerance for the readers of the topic, not shyness or some hypocrisy). I am descending more and more tangibly, fully consciously, up the moral ladder, and this, instead of bothering or puzzling me, on the contrary, fills me with satisfaction. At the same time, I am not in the position of my colleagues, with my intimate life, they are not aware (they have no doubts) and my closest people - friends, relatives and others. I feel like an elusive criminal and the strangest thing is, that it stimulates, satisfies and makes me very happy. And if it's normal, I don't care (for now). I know that the time during which this will be possible is fixed and will soon be gone forever. And the repetition of the one from a year ago will come ... It's not scary, I know it. Be healthy!
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Author, your intimate life is your job, and I don't see why you interfere with your colleagues. According to you, it turns out that you are cunning and smart, and they are fools. But I'm sure that each of your colleagues, like you, thinks that everything about her infidelities is an absolute secret, and no one even suspects what she is doing. and your "star" moment will come, don't worry. One of the men will always brag and talk if this doesn't happen, especially the younger ones, who are dying to joke about how they honored the "old lacquered bag" with the highest attention. Because, yes, no matter how many stars they take down, in their eyes we are just that. Aging aunts dying to be spit out by a young stallion. And people will start talking. At first behind your back and hidden, then more and more clearly, until it reaches the ears of those closest to you, and they shake directly in your face what human opinion is about you. So be aware while it's time, and take care of your family, because it's not easy to be alone at this age, I'm telling you from experience, because I'm a widow. And men for sex are, but for marriage difficult, so, think soberly while it's time.
Very wordy, so your sexuality is your job. Do you know what your colleague X is doing?
:) Have fun, author! I guess, as most women of this generation have made thousands of compromises with themselves and their real desires, it is now something like catching up and "revengeful" satisfaction. You untied your hair and parted it ... it's great that you have the desire, the thrill, and the courage considering the other YOU. Men after a certain age ... well, you know, and a woman can always be alive
What are you actually asking? Or is the above just your self-portrait to admire? Live as you wish, but one day you will pay your bill. There is no free lunch. I guess I'm aware of that.
I am 30 years old and I am glad that there are people in this country who have rediscovered themselves and are aware of what they want without prejudice and moral scruples. Some realize early, others judge and insult all their lives just because they do not understand that people have different feelings and do not share the same value system. Until recently, I was among the people with herd morals, but I saw what complete physical and, above all, mental liberation and pleasure is. Do not worry. There are many like you. Too bad I can't enjoy you too. Greetings from a colleague at the middle level.
You say you have a problem, but I do not see you formulating the situation as problematic, although it is obvious when you write here. In my opinion, this is a kind of complex / deficit, based on the fact that you define yourself as "lagging behind the times". Usually, when a person does not know what he wants or is afraid to ask for and state explicitly what would satisfy him, he comes to such situations in which extremes are sought (with all the subjectivism that can be invested in the sense of this the concept of "extreme"). I do not know how you could be helped, because you are obviously not seeking help, but you are finding certain facts from your life with an unclear purpose. J. 31
It's great to realize, but I don't think my colleagues have a place at all. That's what you decided - that's how it will turn out. Watch your interest!
And what are you actually asking?
I am also old, with big children and my husband is not into sex at all ... I want a lot of things and I go crazy with desire, but I can't cheat ... My life is a great sorrow, but where is my age ... I hope you are so happy! Good luck from me!
Do not torture yourself. You are definitely an erudite individual, from which you should guess (it is always difficult to look at each other from another angle) that there is nothing strange. Your children are big (you don't have much to keep anymore), your husband can't guess, and you're still 20 sexually (not a reproach, but a compliment). I can only remark to you to be careful. (is if your desire is revenge / showing in order to catch you to make it clear what's on your head - you continue. Consider it yourself). And yes, I fully understand (and support) TV. Greetings
So you women are very interesting to me, it also applies to those who commented because in my opinion all the comments are from women. If your husbands cheat on you, it will not be good for you here, however, because your aunt decided to do it with this and that solidarity and you even support her. To mention to her husband that she probably doesn't have a thrill anymore, but there are other ways to satisfy herself sexually without cheating. Please put yourself in the place of the man, imagine that your husband walks from left to right on women, you will not be nice at all, so stop with this female solidarity and do not try to inspire a feeling that everything is fine, it is not!
I, the author, therefore - in order not to have such torments - from the very beginning I have been completely honest with my husband about all my sexual fantasies. I happened to a completely liberated person and we are on the same page in this regard. We have a game: I'm supposed to be the harbor prostitute Susie, I sleep with anyone who pays me, but I have a sailor that I always look forward to and love. And so we alternate roles: sometimes my husband is a drunk boatswain in a mess, other times he is my favorite gentle sailor. We're having a lot of fun. We also play "patient and nurse", I took an old white apron from my friend the doctor and examined the patient where exactly it hurts. We also have a game of "plumber comes to the home of a single woman" - my husband has a work suit in which he is very sexy. Hey stuff like that. That is, we do all the nonsense that goes through our minds, no matter how idiotic they are, we are calm about unpleasant emotions and the danger of disease. And "prostitute Susie" came to my mind precisely because of this need that you feel - to feel a real prostitute in spite of your daily image of a decent lady. It is normal! Just find a way to turn it into a game, not a destiny.
This is not normal, it is even disgusting and you know it, and the proof is that you are hiding. You subconsciously whip yourself, but pretend not to. When everything comes to light, and this will happen according to all natural laws, there will be unfavorable consequences and the ties with your relatives will be broken. You will feel so overwhelmed and dirty that for many years to come you will turn away from sex. I'm not scaring you, it's just proven and tested. But don't worry, then you will dedicate yourself to your cats, you will rediscover simpler and nobler pleasures and you will pass.
It's good that you like it! Does your partner have the same view of your relationship? If not, I hope the current sensations warm you to the old! For the ladies of solidarity - do they feel less guilty ?! P.P. Let me tell you ladies: Nowadays there are very few men (without quotes). Each of you is lucky if there is only one. I hope you have a good reason if you think you are entitled to several men! Male (hopefully without quotes) 45 years old
It's as if I wrote it. M, 47
You have not chosen the right place for your topic (at least in my opinion) - here is the place to tell what you experienced with your lovers, were they better than a man, did you paw at them, did you try anal, who has a bigger Hee. I know about my colleagues too, but you are important - are you cool, are you satisfied, do you try several at once? I'm not going to run, because people like you are a little upset, but if you post a video on the net, I'll look at you like that - I know, you can get up.