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Do I Distrust Employers Or What?

By samuel_samy September 15, 2020 7 answers Last updated September 15, 2020

Well, how the hell do almost all my former classmates hire them and each with a book, a car, their income and build a successful career? !! I am a 19-year-old boy and have been unemployed for 7 months now, I finished school last year and I have no idea why absolutely no one wants to hire me, I certainly have some mistrust in employers, but I definitely have experience, I went to a lot of jobs and no one he doesn't want to hire me, even for whatever job I have, if I have to, I will work non-stop just to make some money because it's high time already. Everything around me with money, boyfriends, cars, independent already, and I what? !! Regarding previous experience - I only worked as a general worker and my previous job was as an instructor in a gym, however, now I have no idea what's going on, I go and ask questions and they say leave your names and phone number and we'll call you, and so I'm just left with the call ... What could be my problem? Now I basically sit in with us and go to the fitness chat-pat and so on. I really wonder what to do? They don't even hire me for construction work? I'm in a kind of impasse, just if nothing happens soon, I'm thinking of going abroad, because there are supposed to be more job opportunities, in this stupid Bulgaria a big nothing, I'm always applying for ads, I'm just wondering what was the point of my parents to give money like crazy for textbooks for 12 years? The problem is that I go to ads, but something just stops them from hiring me - I accept all offers and advice, besides I am healthy and I have worked all kinds of hard work. I have no idea why and how this period happened to me? I'm ashamed to be independent instead of being independent, to have a book, to have money, a girlfriend, etc. A man of 20 to live with 1. 50 a day from his parents as if he were in 5th grade, not 20? Besides, I'm not stupid, I play sports regularly and I don't get paid from work. However, there will almost always be some fucking requirement that I don't have. Well I can't have 10 trillion qualifications though right?

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someboy00 answered · September 15, 2020

   They don't hire you because you don't have a profession. Instead of whining, sit down and sign up to learn something useful that will bring you money in the future. Otherwise you will be a laborer all your life.

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isabelladolll answered · September 15, 2020

   Hi, I want to start with the fact that I liked the sincerity of your story. Overall, judging by what you wrote, you look like a pretty good boy to me. Secondly, I guess something in the CV is wrong once you get to the "call arrangement". Personally, I would hire you if it was up to me (I am the boss of a branch of DZI). One of the things I would recommend is to apply for an Insurance Agent. Personally, I have taken people without experience (Higher not required). The third thing I will say is the most important :). Even if you don't have the lev in question, don't resort to borrowing. I sincerely wish you success in finding a job;)!

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ramsayclan answered · September 15, 2020

   “Well I can’t have 1 trillion qualifications right though?” I doubt you’ll have to have a trillion qualifications. Don't think that I intend to affect you with my next questions. How many and what are your qualifications? How and what job are you looking for? How did you present your future employer?

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berkaydogan answered · September 15, 2020

   From the author Hello everyone, I read the comments, thank you for responding. To number 3 - In principle, I'm not from a very wealthy family and as a student somewhere 8-9 grade I started working as a general worker in construction, repairs, etc., which means that I have some craft more or less and I'm definitely not some lazy or incompetent !! I am also a sports person and I have always been involved in sports and worked at one time in a gym as an instructor (I have a course) and in general I have worked on many sites and learned a lot. In general, this job is slightly busy, because in addition to the hard work, you work more than 12 hours and regularly happen to work even more ... the payment is every day, except for the gym where I actually took my instructor course. , the payment was this time with a contract and was paid every month. The gym was quite far from us and at least 50 levs for travel and food went quite smoothly and in general now I can see these days with the boss of one construction site, because simply neither I nor my family have a lot of money. One of my aunts went to the United States with my cousins, but I'm not sure I'm going to leave. Besides, I will work hard. I don't have many opportunities to study, even if I had a university degree, it still wouldn't make sense, because the graduates are poor and still work similar to my job. In the gym I took a course for a fitness instructor and started working there and so one day the owner of the gym told me, "go straight, don't come to work anymore" and the receptionist there told me "

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kenda_45 answered · September 15, 2020

   You have no focus without taking offense. I am the person who hires people in our company. Just yesterday we returned one like you. So the boy looked decent, but he did what you can think of. Docker, pastry chef, taster, machine operator and a bunch of other things that have nothing to do with each other. Better to have worked 1-2 things, but for a longer time. In addition, changing jobs too often automatically deprives you of work. Somehow a person who has changed 10 jobs in 5 years does not arouse interest. Because you hired a person you want to work with in the long run, not just to train him and he leaves and then again to waste time looking for a new one, to train, etc. These are disoriented people. It is better to decide once and for all what you want to work for and get qualified with a course and look for only such a job and develop in it. It is better to work only one profession and in a few years to improve and start making good money, than to work different things every year and in the end not to improve in any of them and not to be hired at all, or take you to the nastiest ones with the lowest pay. You need focus. In addition, for each different position you apply for, make a separate CB. For example, we were looking for a machine operator, and the boy in question had written that he had worked 10 other things that had nothing to do with it. This immediately reduces his chances to almost 0. This is a massive mistake. Make a separate CB for each position. If necessary, serve a little, without overdoing it, but emphasize the jobs that are similar to what you are applying for. Write that you have worked, for example, more on such things and more time. Don't lie in the interview, that you know too much, because it is obvious if you know nothing. But show that you have a desire to develop, to learn, etc. In the beginning, do not expect a big salary, but rather learn. Pay will come later if you learn well enough. Better a poor horse than no horse at all. You can try the sea for example as a start. There is work there and they hire seasonally, but for a start it will be some experience in a profession that you may have chosen. If you do not want to develop in this direction, you better not. Don't despair, we all started from scratch. I also found it very difficult to find my first job, but now I think it will be difficult to stay without a job, and the salary I currently receive is 2.5 times higher than what I received when I started. I am already 10 years old I'm still at the same job and they have offered me other places for more money because it makes a good impression on them, but I think I should stay in the same company as long as possible, because that's how I develop. More and more people are retiring and I am gradually climbing, because after me come more and more recruits who do not have the same authority as me, built for 10 years. If I go to another company, I will have to start almost from scratch. My classmates changed jobs constantly every 10 years for the slightest thing. Sea 10 years later they stay in the same place, because everywhere they start from scratch, and I already have 2 promotions. More and more people are retiring and I am gradually climbing, because after me come more and more recruits who do not have the same authority as me, built 10 years. If I go to another company, I will have to start almost from scratch. My classmates changed jobs constantly every 10 years for the slightest thing. Sea 10 years later they stay in the same place, because everywhere they start from scratch, and I already have 2 promotions. More and more people are retiring and I am gradually climbing, because after me come more and more recruits who do not have the same authority as me, built for 10 years. If I go to another company, I will have to start almost from scratch. My classmates changed jobs constantly every 10 years for the slightest thing. Sea 10 years later they stay in the same place, because everywhere they start from scratch, and I already have 2 promotions.

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brownielovely answered · September 15, 2020

   These promises that they will call you fuck them - it rarely happens that way. Ask a former classmate how he / she found you (x job - in 90% of cases this is with professional contacts and connections! For some temporary work relatively easily and quickly, your choice is not very big - a general worker what you worked (most possible the worst) on construction sites; handing out flyers is also an option. you make it from experience.Good luck :)! PS Really orient yourself to some other field besides the baccarat, because first it is not a secure job, the turnover there is even greater and does not lead to any growth .. Not that with what I offered you will make millions: Dd, but it's better again.

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selena answered · September 16, 2020

   If I have learned anything for sure from job interviews and employers, it is that EXPERIENCE is sought everywhere! A general employee is not something that would stand out in a CV and would impress the employer. Choose an area, something that would give you pleasure and start developing in it practically. You do not need to enroll in higher education, because then no one guarantees that you will work with the relevant education.