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Do I Give Him To Her?

By funcouple5205 July 19, 2020 10 answers Last updated July 19, 2020

Here is my story. I am 19 years old and I love a boy for many years, I will not go into details exactly how much, but more than 5 years. I dare not admit my feelings for him, because I do not know how he will react, so I fit and I love him from a distance. I soon found out that an acquaintance of mine had cast an eye on him and there would probably be a deal with him. I don't know what to do so I don't lose it. If I admit to him what I feel for him, I could lose even one of his "Hello". It's just very complicated .. I both want to be with him and I know that he won't want to be with me ... a very complicated situation.

 

People have said, "Don't ask a question you know the answer to and can't stand." Maybe that's the thought that always makes me hesitate. I love him, I will love him even if he is with someone else ... I will be sick, but I have no choice. Give me advice on what to do. Thanks in advance.

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anthony_boyhot answered · July 19, 2020
Maybe he wants to be with you. How can you be sure if you don't try? Just tell him. You have nothing to lose. If you don't talk to him you will always ask yourself "what if ...?"
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justcamingit answered · July 19, 2020
Tell him! If fate has not decided to be together, then it has chosen a better one. As long as you last, you won't have to think all your life, what will happen if you tell him or suffer all your life over him! ; ххх
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_2strangers answered · July 19, 2020
Okay, how did you know he didn't want you, did you do anything about it to get closer to him? Tell me more.
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soumisnoemie answered · July 19, 2020
Why do you struggle for 5 years for 1 person. No matter how he reacts, you will be happy if you tell him.
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monkeybutt_88 answered · July 19, 2020
From the author to №3: Well, I'm not 100% sure, but I just guess, because in many ways I've shown or hinted at my feelings, etc. If his friends know, won't he know? He knows something just stops him, but I don't know what ...
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streetangela answered · July 19, 2020
The situation where you choose between a friend and a person you love sucks, but I'm sure the feeling of seeing a loved one with another is one of the most unpleasant feelings ever. There is a risk of fucking your friendship, but I think it's worth it if of course, your feelings for him are real and strong.
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sweetndcrazy answered · July 20, 2020
There are many other boys and men, don't just be with the one who doesn't even pay attention to you, so you get annoyed, it's unrequited love when you say he knows about your feelings and doesn't do anything about it, just give up doesn't make sense.
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maryy_ answered · July 20, 2020
I envy you, I've never loved a boy.
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ashley_gold_ answered · July 20, 2020
For a while, turn around him and the acquaintance. Show yourself, you know-how. Don't push him at all, don't tell him anything. Let him make his own choice. If he chooses her, wish him all the best and find another one right away.
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wonder_ellie answered · July 21, 2020
Why didn't you admit your feelings? Imagine that he felt the same way about you while you hid them from him. And how do you know he won't want you? If you are sure that he feels nothing more than sympathy or total indifference to you - there is no point in deepening and interfering with his relationships with other women.
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