Hello, I am writing G21, I have been in contact with M27 for almost a month. He is extremely kind and considerate to me, always on hand if I need anything. We talk every day, we laugh, we have inner jokes, we share a common passion for cinema and music. He mentioned that he intends to go out with his friends and watch a movie together this week. Suggest we go on vacation together next month, we are currently working on the issue. There are a few things that bother me: 1. He is much more literate than me in the 2 areas in question.
The fact is the age difference and the fact that he has been interested in these things for more than 10 years, and I - more actively and consciously - only 3. I do not stop improving myself, but still at times I start to say that I've watched a certain movie that I'm not really to impress him. I do it involuntarily, but he feels me too. We are both annoyed by this.
2. He said he was a man whose trust was hard to earn. Avoids or answers succinctly to personal questions. I know we're still in the beginning and it takes time, but still ... How could I gain his trust? I asked him how his closest friend had won his trust, and PPC in general how one could do it, but his answer was something like "with the time and situations in which it is different, it depends." .
3. I am a person who lies very hard. I've almost never lied in my life, and even if I did, I did it so carelessly, then my conscience stung me for weeks. When we started going out and I realized how much I liked him, I started to fear that he would not like certain aspects of me and my life. My past (before I went to study in Sofia) was not flourishing, for many reasons (mostly my family) I was bullied at home and at school, in general I was not very social, I was even an outsider. I had 2-3 very close friends, let's say 2-3 more acquaintances, with whom I went out 2-3 times a year, I have never had a company of friends before - that is, I had, but we did not stay long. I have tried to collect them, but they are not very popular, they are too different as characters. Since I came to Sofia, I have opened a new page. I don't want my past to define me. However, it so happened that I prioritized university and work, separately, in the beginning, I had very serious problems with social anxiety, separately I am not the most sociable person on Earth ... So now I have only 1 close friend, the other 2 we broke up due to many reasons. He started telling me about his 2 companies and what happened to me, but I started to lie to him that I have too. I don't want to look antisocial, I hate lying to him. I like it terribly, I'm currently working on getting closer to my colleagues, no matter how difficult it is for me because of the intrigues that revolve around the office ... How can I find my own company? I really want to be open to him, to have confidence, and to let him in as much as I can. However, I feel that maybe he also feels that I am lying to him. I don't know if I'm imagining ...
Do you remember the story "Virgin at 21, and I almost did it with a stranger"? That was me. I was showing him things on my phone once, and suddenly a reminder popped up to take a pregnancy test and see if I was. He saw it. The man in the story above ejaculated while his cock was close to my labia, although there was no penetration, I was worried if some of his semen might have gotten into me. He did not use a condom.
This, of course, happened before I started going out with the M27 in question. But once we have started writing to each other. I was not aware of myself then. At that moment, I confessed to M27 that I was a virgin. He was extremely confused, but did not dare to tell me anything, it was only the 3rd meeting after our first kiss. I didn't mention the story with the man in question. 4. The other day we tried to have sex for the first time. I am medium beauty, 172 cm, 84 kg, slightly plump, medium-sized ass, but very small breasts - both of different sizes. I exercise and follow a regimen, I have lost weight, but there is still a lot to be desired.
PPC, while we were pushing him, he got up many times, he said and showed that I was attracted to him. However, it did not happen to him for a long time several times. He says that the reason is not in me and that there is such a problem for 1 year or so. He hasn't had sex since. He masturbates 3 times a day and then he succeeds. It didn't take him long. He says I don't have the problem, but doesn't he say it to be tactful? He's supposed to be a duperman, but he seemed disappointed when I took off my bra. I can imagine. I tried very hard, I wore his favorite color of clothes, I was completely hairless, perfumed, made up, sexy lingerie (which he said he liked). But still ... Didn't I hurry? I asked him if we were officially together and he told me we were, but he answered hesitantly. "We haven't signed anything, but well ... Yes!" Is it possible, if only a list after a while to become Love? 5. Recently, I started to fear that the relationship could end soon, in 2-3 months. I don't know why I have this feeling. I don't want that to be the case ... My question is: how could I gain his trust? I feel that I need time to find myself. I began to reveal to him some personal things about myself. However, he clearly does not feel ready. I don't want to press him. I want to be real with him and admit to him that there are no secrets between us. It weighs on me. I want to admit it to him, but at the same time I'm hesitant if it's not too early yet. At the same time, however, I really want to find a company.
I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I don't know why I have this feeling. I don't want that to be the case ... My question is: how could I gain his trust? I feel that I need time to find myself. I began to reveal to him some personal things about myself. However, he clearly does not feel ready. I don't want to press him. I want to be real with him and admit to him that there are no secrets between us. It weighs on me. I want to admit it to him, but at the same time, I'm hesitant if it's not too early yet. At the same time, however, I really want to find a company. I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached.
Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I don't know why I have this feeling. I don't want that to be the case ... My question is: how could I gain his trust? I feel that I need time to find myself. I began to reveal to him some personal things about myself. However, he clearly does not feel ready. I don't want to press him. I want to be real with him and admit to him that there are no secrets between us. It weighs on me. I want to admit it to him, but at the same time I'm hesitant if it's not too early yet. At the same time, however, I really want to find a company.
I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I began to reveal to him some personal things about myself. However, he clearly does not feel ready. I don't want to press him. I want to be real with him and admit to him that there are no secrets between us. It weighs on me. I want to admit it to him, but at the same time I'm hesitant if it's not too early yet. At the same time, however, I really want to find a company.
I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I began to reveal to him some personal things about myself. However, he clearly does not feel ready. I don't want to press him. I want to be real with him and admit to him that there are no secrets between us. It weighs on me. I want to admit it to him, but at the same time, I'm hesitant if it's not too early yet. At the same time, however, I really want to find a company. I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post. I don't know what's happening to me. I never realized how many secrets I had until I went with him. I like him, I started to get attached. Help! PS: Forgive the long post.
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I lost 5 minutes of my life
The author - are you sure you are a student? What I have written seems very immature and infantile to me. You have been with the man for a month, you have already tried to share secrets with you, to make confessions, to earn trust, etc. You film a lot and harness the cart in front of the horse. Just because you took off your pants in front of someone and pushed them does not mean that he should trust you and tell you his life in detail. Or that you have an official relationship, whatever you mean by that. The fact that you are in a hurry to sing everything is your job, you cannot ask the same person. And what kind of trust do you look for when you lie even about small and insignificant nonsense like a movie? But otherwise you consider yourself a person who lies hard? It's the same as being a virgin, but don't forget to take a pregnancy test, that I allowed someone to empty around me .... As you made her in the first month of acquaintance to let you e..t, really do not expect particularly lasting relationships. If you are very intrusive and rush things, you can just push the person away. Add to that the fact that at the age of 21 you did not develop the ability to communicate and have friends. Having a company, your environment, means to attract these people, to be interesting to them with something, to have common interests, you don't just set it as a goal and it doesn't happen in a day or two. As well as gaining trust and love. In general, slow down a bit and the childish I want this, I want that ... And stop lying and pretending to be what you are not. He who will like and love you will accept you as you are. Add to that the fact that at the age of 21 you did not develop the ability to communicate and have friends. Having a company, your environment, means to attract these people, to be interesting to them with something, to have common interests, you don't just set it as a goal and it doesn't happen in a day or two. As well as gaining trust and love. In general, slow down a bit and the childish I want this, I want that ... And stop lying and pretending to be what you are not. He who will like and love you will accept you as you are. Add to that the fact that at the age of 21 you did not develop the ability to communicate and have friends. Having a company, your environment, means to attract these people, to be interesting to them with something, to have common interests, you don't just set it as a goal and it doesn't happen in a day or two. As well as gaining trust and love. In general, slow down a bit and the childish I want this, I want that ... And stop lying and pretending to be what you are not. He who will like and love you will accept you as you are. which you are not. He who will like and love you will accept you as you are. which you are not. He who will like and love you will accept you as you are.
Парадоксалното е че искаш да си открита пред него, а го лъжеш, вероятно от страх. Няма от какво да се страхуваш. Той е с теб заради самата теб. Връзка основана на лъжи не трае дълго или е мъчителна. Затова следващият път, в който те попита дали си гледала даден филм, който ти не си, му кажи, че не си, но че имаш желание да го гледате заедно. Това не е състезание, а връзка. Бъди открита с него, правете нещата заедно. Седни и му кажи, че миналото ти е било самотно, че семейството ти не е от най- прекрасните, че имаш проблем с общуването. Ако той държи на теб, ще те разбере. Така ще се опознаете, а това че ти му споделяш, с времето ще го предразположи той да ти сподели. Иначе, той усеща, че го лъжеш и това го отблъсква. Black Sabbath
This is not for you. It seems cold to me. You find it interesting. Never date a man who tells you from the beginning that "it's hard to gain his trust." Such things are not said. He has warned you that he is not looking for anything serious in a roundabout way, or at least that he is not looking for anything serious with you. Apart from that - push chikii 3 times a day? And you said that? Run away!
Girl, you think a lot. Live your life and the quota will happen!
I'm not picky, but what is "duperman"?
6 something like an injector
Wow, you are like a 13-year-old child .. I will answer you, I am 28 years old, with a lot of experience with men. First of all, he is disappointed with your breasts and your body as a whole. Men imagine women a little unreal because of their porn and fantasies. Secondly, if he does not allow himself to talk and share to such an extent that you feel it as a problem, then it is so and the person is most likely not looking for a serious relationship. You better back off in time, because you're too in love (I'd even say obsessed) and you'll only suffer.