Hello :) My boyfriend and I lived together a month ago. And since then I pay for everything, not work. He also. We are students. If he wants something, he wants my money. I'm angry when I ask him for money. We also live with a third person who also doesn't give me money. I'm embarrassed to ask them, I'm not a picky eater, but once or twice. I, a girl who isn't working, can't support all three of us. for them it may not mean anything to give me 2 leva, but for me to give 6 leva for something that all three of us will spend is a lot. As a student, I can't give 20 leva a day. What can I do (I tried to talk and it doesn't work, there is a rumbling)
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Well, you have to get used to imposing yourself in life or you will be a doormat all your life. Otherwise you do not support the people, but your parents. If I were your mother, I would stop your support and feed you if you want 100 poor people, but first you make your money.
You just stop paying and often mention what is not paid, because they do not care that the water in the apartment is not paid.
Find your job all three - there is always a solution you are looking for
Well, what you have to do is one thing - you pack your bags and move out, forgetting both individuals around you, if possible you delete their phone numbers and start clean ...
This is madness, you can't feed yourself, you will stutter and still cry, horror, you have some dignity, don't you, in principle, men have to pay
I support number 1. So what do you expect. Seeing the soft, as they say, they will be hit for months to come. You will feed them and you will pay for everything. But do not think that if after 4 months you run out of money, they will give you two levs. They just use it. You tell them in plain text. You draw a line - you say I paid so much, you have to give me so much or next month I will not give money for rent. By not letting us see if they won't give. If they do not give, it is even better to move out of two users and look for accommodation yourself - smaller and cheaper, or at least you will give money, but you will live alone. I understand that it can be difficult for them and they don't have a lot of money, but when you don't have money you don't go to a place to stay and stretch according to your rug. And I want a vacation in Hawaii, but I don't think so, that someone is obligated to pay me or worse, that my parents pay me. Ana
To the author Hello :). I am 19 years old and I am with my brother and another friend in a flat in England. Everything was great when we were accepted to the same university, with the thought that we would live together and support each other. Yes, but until the time comes for money and bills. It is inconvenient to ask from my brother, and we have separate money, it is inconvenient for me to ask from the friend who is with me, because he is my friend and it is not appropriate. The reason is actually- We are not mature enough to live together without parental control. If I'm alone, I'll be much better, because I'll do my homework. My advice is. Suggest to your friends not to live together anymore, although it is difficult for everyone is for the good.