I have a feeling that wherever I go, there are always one or more people who stare at me with a particularly mocking expression. It happens to me quite often and I can't explain why. Just before returning from the cinema, I leave the hall and the boy at the exit looks at me and smiles at me. After a while there was one on the escalator, the same way. At the exit of the mall, a couple and the man looked at me again with a sarcastic expression. There were a few strangers in the gym the other day that I saw for the first time and they still look at me with some sneer. Well, I'm not stupid enough to imagine. However, I would like not to arouse laughter in people, I want attention, some respect. And it is the opposite. I try to maintain my appearance, but it seems to have the opposite effect. I can't understand if I look so pathetic and unhappy that people make fun of me. It's not something I can ask someone about, I can't ask people "Excuse me, why do I look funny to you?". I just don't know how to get out of the situation. I wouldn't say I'm complex, I just have a problem I want to solve.
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From the whole story, I only learned that you are trying to maintain your appearance and that people are making fun of you. Describe yourself a little to have an idea of what you look like and to give you a more accurate opinion. :)
All this is happening only in your head :) Realize a little, people do not care about others, they live their lives and that's it. Accept it. This is also the problem of shy teenagers, they suggest that they are so funny and pathetic that everyone makes fun of them and thus they provoke them to make fun of them. Let's say you dropped your blouse that night or your hair was electrified, some such nonsense, don't think so. You bathe, maintain personal hygiene, dress properly, what more do you need to be reassured that you don't look like an idiot?
Without seeing you, we can't judge why they're behaving like that. When you look in the mirror or in photos, don't you find any reason? If you are uncomfortable asking strangers, at least ask acquaintances. Then share so we can find out what the reason is.
I guess it's a small thing really. Maybe my hair was crushed at an angle. Abe will try not to pay attention to such things.
I think you look too much at others, don't look them in my eyes, they are strangers to you, you don't need to look them in the eye. You can stare at them questioningly and therefore receive the appropriate answer. Your gaze should be fleeting, fleeting, and serious, without staring at people if you don't know them. Only if you are talking to someone, look him in the eye and not constantly, read on the net when and how to make eye contact. I just imagined you and I can't find another reason.
You know, it happened to me once that it turned out that some friends put an inscription on my "idiot" jacket, I walked around the center all day and people laughed at me and wondered what was going on. It's really weird.
Hahahahaha, this note sucks, they did it to me
To number 5: Maybe you're right. The author